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writes:I'm not his student anymore but he comes and helps out at my high school in the summer sometimes and I see him there. Anyways I've liked him since I met him which was 6 years ago. I found myself staring at him when he was around and a lot of the time I'd look at him until he turned in my direction. I'm not shy with guys that I like my age but when he talks to me I'm shy all over again! He teased me like 3 times but when I was his student he teased me a lot more and he calls me by a different name other than mind a lot of the time. He's touched me on my shoulder to greet me a lot of the time or just because(: Does he like me? I know this isn't a lot to go off but I don't remember a lot anymore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYou have a really good point. But it's not like I'd do anything with him even if he did like me too. I think I just like him as a teacher/person and not in a crush way anymore which is good.
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reader, Amy2007x  +, writes (23 September 2008):
 well. I must admitt. i was like you aswell, i was always think omg does he like me? doe she know i like him? but at the end of the day, is it really worth it?
So wht if he did like you? he is your teacher and the end of the day it is illegal, sure i would of loved for my teacher to have loved me, but believe me you wont care when you leave school, itll all jst be a blurr and youll realise that you were a victim, like many girls of jst havin a lil skll crush on a teacher!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm just curious?
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reader, PsyCookie +, writes (29 August 2008):
 So why you want to know if he likes you or not?
Please don't try to level up your ego. It's not good.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI don't want to date him!
And I have plenty of crushes my own age trust me.
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reader, abbeymom  +, writes (29 August 2008):
 So are you saying you basically liked him since you were uhhh 10 years old? Wow. Umm heed the previous posters advice. Acting on impulse because you have a crush or feel he might like you could ruin his life.I know that sounds harsh but there are laws. If you were eighteen it might be different but even then just because he isn't your teacher anymore, he's a teacher. Many parents of the children he teaches would frown upon him dating a student and it could cause him and his life a lot of problems.Think about that.You also might want to think about his family. Is he married? What about his own kids? How old are they? How old is he? He must be like at least 15 or 20 years older than you. There is no way he was 20 when you were 10 teaching you. Sorry that doesn't seem feasible. So think about those things. Perhaps you should stick to boys your own age. I'm sure some great guy out there closer to your age would love a chance to get to know you better.~ Abbeymom
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2008): Hi - It is so easy to have a crush on a teacher. But, realistically, you probably do not know him as well as you think - his age, is he married or dating, his habits and out of school personality. Also, although you probably do not see it this way now - Any adult (teacher) who would be interested in dating a teenager (student) is messed up and is looking to have an unhealthy relationship with someone they can control. I am sorry to be so blunt - but this is not a relationship you want. If you did date him, I can pretty much guarantee that you would look back at it with regret.The real issue is probably that you are bored with the boys at your school - maybe you can join extracurricular activities/find a part time job that can help you meet new boys.
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reader, PsyCookie +, writes (29 August 2008):
I think before anything, you shoul read these articles:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-falling-for-your-teacher-is-never-good.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/a-student-is-in-love-with-me-how.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/teachers-eh-discerning-between-teenage-crushe-and-actual.html
But in my opinion, I think you should wait until you're 18 until you do anything. From what you've told here, it only seems that he is being friendly, and nothing more. So if you want to go ahead and ask him if he likes you, do it until you're legal of age. Then no one will get in trouble.
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