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writes: Tommorow me and my friend might tell my teacher we love him, but i'm not sure what to do. It's been on our minds so much and we dont have anyone to talk to. after we tell him, we're never gonna bring it up again, obviously. I just cry and cry and get so sad over it..i've told my other friends, but they really don't understand and their just like ew!! So please give me advice on what i should do..like should i tell him? I really wanna tell him, but i don't want him to get in trouble. I sent him an email once, and i said; 'You are amazing and the best teacher ever'.... and he told me it was nice, but to stop because he could get in trouble, and he also felt uncomfortable. So, suggestions? Thanks :]
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reader, sweetuffy23  +, writes (14 April 2008):
This is very serious.Both you and your friend has a crush on him.He will definelty report it because the both of you are coming to him.That will signify that other pupils know about this and are waiting to see how he reacts to the situation.I suggest dont tell him.It will lead to serious consequences.
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reader, Love_is_all_youu_need  +, writes (11 April 2008):
 Hiya hun, I understand how it feels to have forbidden feelings for someone. But (from my own experience) Don't tell him! It'll probably be dealt with professionally (He'll report you) and you may get into trouble and feel very hurt and embarrassed afterwards. It's not worth the pain, as i've learnt! Could you perhaps just build a friendship with the teacher? xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2008): Its prob just a crush. Dont get me wrong when some people say there in love with there teacher i believe them but its strange you and ur m8t bth lyk him. I wouldnt tell him you could get in trouble and he might start being awkward with you x x Try flirtin with lads your own age
Good Luck x
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reader, Amy2007x +, writes (11 April 2008):
 I used to email my teacher with jokey things, like tellin him not to call me stupid and dumb etc then i usd to tease him in them ahh! i miss those days lolWell i thot i was in love with my teacher (iom stilla t skl) bt durin the spring holidays im actually happier not seein him and i dont miss him unlike durin the christmas holidays i think im over him and all i can say is that udont love him, i useed to do the same... i was like totally obsessed with him, i used to alaywas chat to him, complimment him etc... bt durin this holiday ive learned tht i dont love him! its jst one of those things, he jst sumone who makes my shitty skl seem a bit more fun (and my matess) so wht im tfryin to say is tht ull get over him, im wait til summer hokldiays when u wont see him for aboput 7 weeks, ull be much happier, trust me?Im not sayin im over him, ill probs still go all crazty over him like when i returbn to skl bt for now im happier not seein him,mail me if u wanna chatxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2008): No dont tell him at all. That e-mailing can really get him in trouble if u say the wrong things. Just dont tell him sorry to tell you but I dont think your going to be with him unless he fells like losing his job or if he is one of those teachers who likes his students and thats kinda creapy. If I was you i wouldent tell him.
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reader, Wisdom  +, writes (11 April 2008):
 Noooo don't tell him, he is right emails like that can get him into lots of trouble and chaces are the feeling is not returned. It will pass and in a bit of time you will be glad you didn't tell him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2008): Don`t tell your teacher how you feel. I know you really think you love him but believe me, it will pass. If you do love him, you will not tell him, he will get into so much trouble, maybe even get dismissed from his job.
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reader, ninjalove +, writes (10 April 2008):
 Nooo hunny you best not tell him.There's a lot of problems with kids and teachers and being "in love with your teachers" You need to stop writing him.If you don't want to see anything bad happen to him you might just want to sit back and do your work.You're not in love with your teacher.You just happen to like him a lot.At your age and hell even my age and older we're still not 100% sure about love and what it is.Your teacher can get in a lot of shit(he can get fired or thrown in jail or many other things)You don't want that for someone like that.If you really think you love him let him go.Its for the best.In the end your saving yourself and him a lot of shit to deal with.Just leave him be let him teach and move onto another crush.Some more your age.Your a kid just have fun.
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