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Archived questions from: April, 2009 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

Self conscious about sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - i am 16 and still virgin. i've had offers from a few guys but never taken them. i am anxious about my first time as i am self consious about my stomach and how i will preform. what should i do????? x...

Is it normal to bleed the second time too?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Ok so I already had sex for the first time and it hurt so bad lol...but why did the second time hurt and I bled a little my second time too.. is this normal??...

Half penetration sex, am I still a Virgin?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - Hi, My BF's penis went in me about half way, the head was fully in and we did this a few times. He didnt push all the way because I want to keep my virginity but i cant help but think have I already lost it from what we wer doing. We tested ...

Is 14 really the average age people lose their virginity ?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

27 April 2009 (M) - I went to see this topic and i saw this answer on its site http://www.dearcupid.org/question/15-year-old-virgin.html Is 14 really the average age people lose their virginity ? Is what he said true ? ...

She Didn't Take My Virginiy But Was Heartbroken When I Lost It

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

27 April 2009 (?) - Ok about 6 years ago, there is this girl... She's sorta a party girl but we shared like a month of exclusive time before our jobs separated us. I was ALSO, sort of a party person. So it was weird. Like a crash collision course that stopped bot...

Should I have sex ?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

26 April 2009 (M) - i'm a 15 yo virgin and i want to have sex by two reasons 1. most of my friends say that sex feels very awesome and it's wasting time if i'm a virgin 2. one day i will have a girlfriend but if i find out that she lost her virginity when she was 15....

Started dating my ex gf's friend but now she wants me back! I want heer back too,, Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

26 April 2009 (M) - Hi. Please help! I'm 21 years old and in a relationship which is seemingly going no-where. It all started 4 years ago when i dated a girl, who i was madly in love with. I lost my virginity to her and everything seemed perfect. Then one day, ou...

I found out she's sexually active..it gutted me..I want to be with her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

25 April 2009 (M) - Ok, Well I'm 16 years old. I havent had a girlfriend for about 3 years. In that time ive kissed about 8 girls passionately, but about 6 of them have come in the last 3 months, and 5 of them when either i was drunk or the other girl was drunk. I know ...

Why doesn't he treat me like her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

25 April 2009 (F) - i've been talking to this guy for over two months now just msn and phone we are close we know alot about eachother and i do love him tbh he is like a good friend to but he doesn't want a relationship or anything.. hes 28 im 18 hes nearly going ...

Does this sound true?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

25 April 2009 (F) - A girl at school told that her first experience was painful and took several minutes to get going but afer a few minutes all pain was gone and they were enjoying when suddenly heard her mother on the stairs calling her name and he had to stop ...

Even although he cheated on me, now I just want him to hug me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - Hey... I'm 14 and a 2 month ago I split up with my boyfriend who I had been going out with for 7 months because I felt the love wasn't there and I didn't care what he had to say. He wasn't very smart and didn't care to have a conversation about ...

How can an inexperienced virgin, fearful of relationships, learn to be a great sexual lover?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

21 April 2009 (M) - ...I M a 38 year Caucasian old heterosexual male completely inexperienced with relationships. Not only a virgin, I have never been been in a relationship or even DATE depending on the definition of 'date'? Significantly introverted, in ...

If two virgins have sex, (and no protection is used), does that mean that neither will get a sexually tramsmitted disease?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - If you are a virgin, you can't have a sti, as you have never has sex, right?? So, In theory, if two virgins have sex, (and no protection is used), does that mean that neither will get a sexually tramsmitted disease? Please answer!!! I need t...

Taking my own innocence

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - I have been toying with the idea recently that I may take my own virginity. I hate the fact that someone could give themselves rights to "taking away my innocence" so I thought to do away with it myself. I am completely ready, I have been in situ...

I touched myself, does that mean I lost my virginity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - Hello,I'm very ashamed to speak about this but I've no choice,I knew that my critical period must start that night but I couldn't stop,I pressed a pillow down there and touched myself.Suddenly I felt a little pain and after 10 minutes my critical ...

Am I considered a virgin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - My now ex-boyfriend and I were fooling around while still dating. I was a virgin, and whilst wearing a condom, he tried to actually penetrate me. He might have gotten in between a centimeter to an inch or so; enough for it to hurt, but not enough to ...

Do I go ahead and risk friendships and be dishonest to my family because of this guy, who I honestly can't get enough of?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

20 April 2009 (M) - Where to begin? Basically, I'm 16, a virgin and would consider myself Bisexual. I think that at this moment in time, I am equally attracted to both men and women. I've been in an on and off open relationship with another guy, let's call him J...

I have kept pure for my wife, but many girls do not.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

20 April 2009 (M) - Hi readers, I am such a boy that I never touched any girl romantically in my life though I have a desire to have sex from my teenage. Because, I will respect culture still in this fast culture. So, I am expecting such a girl she should be perfect ...

First time sex for virgins: do we still need to get checked for STDs beforehand?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - Hey, I know this sounds absurd but I still really appreciate some help... My boyfriend and I are over the legal age to have sex and lately we have been getting extremely intimate and have started talking about making love. We're both virgins ...

Questions about first time sex, with emphasis on the penetration

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

18 April 2009 (M) - Hello, I'm a virgin and I never had sex before. I've heard a lot of great tips about foreplay and about the importance of listening to your partner etc. But I've not heard much about the actual penetration itself, surely it's not just sticking it in ...

Any ways to get girl's virginity back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - is there any way to get back the virginity for a girl?if yes then what are these ways?...

Why doesn't my dad trust me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - Hi so i'm 20 years old still a virgin and never been kissed. i mean i've had boyfriends but never felt comfortable in kissing them i just want that perfect one so i am waiting for the right one i guess. but my problem is my dad, i still liv...

26 and never had a boyfriend, it's really getting me down...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Hello, my name is Jo and I need some help/advice, I am 26 and have never had a boyfriend (I am a virgin), the thing is I am never really attracted to anyone and the one time I was when we kissed it just I don't now, I ended up pulling away and ...

I lost her, Please help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

17 April 2009 (M) - Well first thing we had what you would call an ideal relationship. We were talking about getting married and having kids. It was perfect. But one day she broke up with me because she said "Do you think we were better as friends" I said no i don'...

In love with my good friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Hey.. i'm lying in my bed trying to clear my mind up and i simply feel hopeless. i'm in love with my good guy-friend, for the past 2 years. i'm 25, female, virgin, and i never had anything close to relationship, not to mention a damn kiss :( ...

What is this cum like discharge?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - Hey all, I'm 14 years old, coming up to 15 next month and I started my period a year and a half ago and recently I have been getting a type of thick cum like substance sometimes when I wake up. I thought it was my hygiene but bath every day so I'm a ...

What to look for if I might be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - right, me and my boyfriend are both 15 years old and has sex yesterday (were both virgins). i have been on the pill about 3 weeks but we used a condom for xtra protection. the condom broke and his pre-cum may have got inside me, do you think i will ...

Yep, it's true - 30 year old virgin

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - So guys and gals, I am a 30 year old virgin. I was a late-bloomer, then had a really busy career and moved around a lot and then it turned into this vicious cycle thing where I figured everyone would think I had had sex by then and I didn't want to ...

She's terrified of sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. She is 20 and I am 30. We have always tried to have normal sex but she gets scared and sometimes even cries about the subject. She really wants to have sex and I believe her. Every time ...

Is it sex if he only goes in a little bit, but doesn't break my hymen?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - i know it is quiet weird to ask , regarding my age but i just have to .. i wanna know if what we are doing is -sex - , me and my bf , he slightly enters me and u know in and out all that , but not that he actually gets his peins -inside- my hymen ...

How do I give him the go ahead without straight up telling him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - I am 18, turning 19 in a few months, and I really want to lose my virginity. My bf and I have been dating for almost two years but we've kept it pretty innocent; we're both virgins. The funny thing is, all my friends think we're sexually acti...

Is there something wrong with me being a virgin at 18?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - I'm 18 and still a virgin, but I live in a dorm and people here all just, they pretty much go after me and talk with each other about how I'm scared to have sex just cuz I havent ever done it. Is there something wrong with me being a virgin at 18?...

I'm a 16 year old female and I really want to lose my virginity.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5691 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - I'm a 16 year old female and I really want to lose my virginity. My mates go on about sex all the time. They say how good it is and how much they enjoy it. When I'm thinking about loosing my virginity I feel confident but when I nearly did it with ...

14, in love, and both of us are ready for sex. But I'm scared of the pain.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - OK, I don't know what to do... I started a relationship with this guy I've known for years about a month ago. So far, we've only had oral and manual sex. It's clear he wants to go all the way, but he's reassured me that he won't do anything I'm ...

14 yo virgin and ready for sex with my bf. Mom said OK if I loved him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - im a 14 year old girl and me and boyfriend have been together for about 6 months we get along great and always have fun together we just mess around but no sex every time we talk about it i say that im scared of sex and not ready he says that's fine ...

I feel sick after having sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5693 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - To my agony aunts and uncles, thanks for taking the time to read this. So here's the deal, every time my bf and i have sex i feel sick the next day- cough, fever, fatigue. We've only had sex a few times (we used a condom every time) and i was a vi...

I mean if he was that interested he would have asked me out by now, right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - I have got myself into a situation at work with a guy. We have been flirting for about 2 years, he is always making sexual comments, we have never been out together but we get on, he has just never asked me out, Last year he told me we wante...

Should I tell him what I like? Or will that make me weird and slutty?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - Ok so this is kind of a weird question, but here goes. I'm about to have sex with my guy for the first time. I'm a virgin, but I've masturbated before, and I know exactly how to make myself have an orgasm. I want my first time to be pleasurable, ...

Virginity, boys, love, lust and lost!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

11 April 2009 (F) - Well I feel like I can't get someone. People say I'm pretty but I'm not and I know and they know. I don't know what to do because I feel like burying my head. I'm still a virgin at 17 and my ex already lost his. I feel like it's a competition but ...

13, wants to stay virgin for a while, but no access to sex toys

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

10 April 2009 (M) - I want to stay a virgin as long as possible, basically until I get married, but I get way too horny too often and so I masturbate. But lately, I've been having trouble getting off, so does anybody have any new ways than just a standard grip and ...

I'm going to meet my internet guy over the weekend. Is it safe?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - i have successfully in getting a partner, thanx dear cupid so much for helping me achieve that,but i still have a big problems as you can see in my country gay people does not allowed and base on that they always hide their sexuality from other ...

Can I lose my virginity through masturbation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - i am frmo a very closed mined cluture and i am geeting married in a couple of months i used to masturbate when i was young and sometimes till now too...we are not allowed to have sexual intercourse i ned to know if masturnation can cause me to ...

Would he notice if I am a virgin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5697 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - Ok every guy i kno thinks im not a virgin but i am. They think im not because the way i act. I hang out with alot of people who arent virgins.They asked me if i was and i said no.I was scared what they would think of me. so i went along with it but ...

My best friend lost her virginity to her cousin...and may be pregnant!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5697 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - My best friend was seeing her cousin up until a couple of weeks ago when her parents found out and stopped all contact between them completely. I can fully understand why they have reacted in this way but he was the first person my best friend truly ...

I just lost my virginity but I couldnt orgasm with her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

7 April 2009 (M) - ok so heres my story.. i am 16 years old healthy lil man.. i dance(breakdance)and am fit no health problems anyway its was october when i "lost" my virginity and i ve done it outside.. no the beach about 4 am the woman i had sex with was olde...

I'm a virgin ... mind is willing but flesh isn't :-(

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

7 April 2009 (M) - i am a virgin.., and my girlfriend wants to have sex..., and so do i, i love her a lot.., and i don't have a problem with it...but every time that i am about to put it in... i just loose my erection.. its there another time i need it but, idk i just ...

I want it but I don't really...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

7 April 2009 (F) - Okay so I am a healthy adult (19) who wants sex... I'm still a virgin and yes I want to wait for a guy I love and trust with my special gift. I always thought I would wait for marriage but lately I've sorta changed my mind. Again as long as I am in ...

I think he just wants me for sex...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5701 days ago

4 April 2009 (?) - basically... i left my ex to go out with this boy from my high school. he kept telling me how much he wanted to be with me and how much he liked me.he had been trying to get with me for months and persuaded me to leave my then boyfriend for him. ...

I'm a virgin! Could I be pregnant by accident?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

4 April 2009 (F) - can i be pregnant?? i was giving my bf a handjob last week and i didnt wash my hands and touch my vagina but from above my underwear i'm a fraid that a sperm might got inside me by acciendent ..and my period is late few days and i'm feeling dizz...

My friends say use him for some fun, but I'm afraid I'll get attached

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

3 April 2009 (F) - Some thoughts are very welcome. I am interested in this guy I work with, he leaves in July. He was shown an interest in me for a while but he has made it clear that he only wants a bit of fun nothing serious, we have kissed once unfortuanetly at...