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41-50,
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writes:Hello, my name is Jo and I need some help/advice, I am 26 and have never had a boyfriend (I am a virgin), the thing is I am never really attracted to anyone and the one time I was when we kissed it just I don't now, I ended up pulling away and apologising, I kind of feel like I am missing out because I am so uptight but I also can't let go, everyone says when you meet the right person everything just comes natural, well people have been saying this to me since I was 13 and I now it's just not going to happen and even if by some kind of miracle it does, what will the guy think of me?It is really starting to get me down, everyone I went to school with is settled with kids or kids on the way.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (17 April 2009):
You say you are not attracted to anyone. Men and women?
So I think the first thing you need to figure out is "what do you want?"
Do you want a boyfriend? You don't need one just because your friends have them. Some people are actually asexual and happiest alone.
You mention your friends have kids. Again... do you want them or just think you should want them? If you do want them, are you just wanting a boyfriend so you can have the kid?
You can have anyone you want if you just get out there, meet new people, and try and relax.
But from this, I don't know if you know what you want.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (17 April 2009):
 If this is your choice then there is not much we can say, go out meet new people, boys and girls you never know who is going to flick your switch.
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