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I touched myself, does that mean I lost my virginity?

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Question - (20 April 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 April 2009)
A female Georgia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hello,I'm very ashamed to speak about this but I've no choice,I knew that my critical period must start that night but I couldn't stop,I pressed a pillow down there and touched myself.Suddenly I felt a little pain and after 10 minutes my critical period began and I started bleeding. Please can you tell me did I lose my virginity? I'm realy scared.

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A female reader, Jia Canada +, writes (20 April 2009):

Jia agony auntEven if your maidenhead/hymen breaks, it doesn't mean that you've lost your virginity. Like TasteofIndia says, unless there was a man, or woman, you haven't lost your virginity AT ALL. The blood was probably from your period, so don't worry.

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (20 April 2009):

TasteofIndia agony auntNO, NO you did not!! Unless there was a man and a penis (or a woman with a penis like tool), you did not lose your virginity! It sounds like what you did was experiment with masturbation, and let me tell you, missy - there is NOTHING wrong with that!! Don't be scared! You did nothing with anyone but yourself. If you had been with a fella, THEN you would have something to be scared about - pregnancy, disease... but you're playing it safe, and that's nothing to be frightened of. Rather, you should be proud of yourself!

Sometimes when you get your period (I assume that's what "critical period" means - love that terminology), you get a little extra horny. No worried, sweetness, happens to the best of us ladies.

You have nothing to worry about!!

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