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writes:My best friend was seeing her cousin up until a couple of weeks ago when her parents found out and stopped all contact between them completely. I can fully understand why they have reacted in this way but he was the first person my best friend truly loved. They knew it was a dangerous thing to do but they still stuck together. There relationship started to get sexual about 2 months in (this was not planned) and my best friend lost her virginity to him. I told both of them this was wrong but a few days before everything ended i realised just how happy my best friend was with him and how he wasn't going to hurt her perposely. She had been through a relationship before this one and the guy treated her awfully and tried to turn her against all her friends! I really didn't want to see her hurt again and i had almost lost her before, and didn't want to lose her this time round! When her dad found a condom and pregnancy test in her room, he realised what had been happening, their family have stopped all contact between them and they haven't spoken at all since. Its nearly been a month and my best friend is still finding it really hard to basically live.. she knows she isnt allowed to talk to him but desperately wants to! I am worried about her and don't really know what the best thing i can do is, some help please! I also want to know what the best thing she can do is???????
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009): Wow , this is like almost the exact same thing that happenend to me in grade 7 , but the only thing is , is that i got pregnant by my cousin, my mom was the first one i told nd she wasnt impressed at all but there isnt really anything that the parents can do , so waht if there family , if its love , tell her to fight ( not physically) for what she belives , nd if she really does love him , its her choice , nd her life , its not her parents life , but she sounds that she really does love him , so the best of luck to her and her cousin , + you. hope my advice did something to help you.
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