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Archived questions from: July, 2008 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

How can I make my first time having sex enjoyable?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5936 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - Hi DearCupid, I'm 23 and a virgin. Basically, my question is how can I make my first time having sex an enjoyable one, or at least partially enjoyable? You seem to hear that everyone's first time is a disaster, awkward, or embarrassing, so...

Will losing my virginity help my self confidence?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - I'm 16 in a few days. I always feel lonely and lost even if I have a girlfriend. I guess I just feel different from everyone else. Maybe it's a self-confidence thing. Does anyone think that losing my virginity will help this a little? I mean, I want ...

I'm being pressured to start a family by my older girlfriend...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5947 days ago

30 July 2008 (?) - Am i a freak because i will not have unprotected sex with my girlfriend and try and start a family? I am 15 and she is 19 and wants to start a family with me, but i am only younge and want to get a job and to be able to surport them both. I ...

Should we have underage sex? I'm not sure...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - my girl friend told me the other day that she wonted sex but i dont no if we should because of are age im 14 and she is 13 but i dont wont to say no because i dont wont it to effected are relationship wot do i do?...

My older girlfriend is pressuring me for sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

30 July 2008 (?) - Hey Me and my girlfriend have been together for 5 months know and we love each other i am 15 and she is 18, and she is ready to lose her virginity but i do no think that i am. I have told her this and she said to me that she will 'go somewhere el...

21 and still a virgin. What can I expect for my first time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5949 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - Hello, I'm a 21 year old female. I have recently gotten together with my first boyfriend, who is 23. We spent the night together last saturday but decided to stop and not to have sex just yet. I am a virgin, he is not. But i haven't told hi...

Not ready for sex and too scared to tell my boyfriend...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5940 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - im not ready to have sex but my boyfriend is and i don't want to tell him what should i do...

Can one ignore her first and only sexual experience, an unpleasant one, and consider herself a virgin?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - if losing your virginity is a state of mind is it acceptable for a girl to want to ignor her first intercourse (being unpleasent one) and concider her self still a vigin untill willingly giving her self, (it only being her second time?) [Added from...

What does losing your virginity mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5951 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - Hello, I have a question about losing your Virginity, when exsactly does a girl lose it i've heard it's upon penetration but can that be penetration with any objest or does it only count if its with a penis? what does losing your Virginity ...

How do I tell my boyfriend that I'm not a virgin? Will he still accept me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - How will I tell my boyriend that I am no longer a virgin?will he still accept me as I am? ...

My boyfriend has become abusive and controlling since he found out I wasn't a virgin. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - i need help. there are many people on this site who ask this same question: what should i do my boyfriend is controlling i dont have a life. What should i do? But see, my boyfriend of a year and a half is mentally abusive hes selfish, he goes out ...

Am I over-reacting to him groping me while I slept?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - I've been in a relationship for a year and a half now and about a week ago my boyfriend and I were on holiday together; we'd gone away with my family. We shared a room but not a bed; we're both virgins and I want to wait until I turn 18 before I ...

Is it normal to not enjoy sex after losing your virginity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5945 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - I was wondering if it is normal to not enjoy sex for the first 10 times after breaking the virginity?...

I'm ready but a little scared that he might not be "the one", should I give him my virginity or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - i was wondering.me and my b/f has been datin 4 7 mths and he dosnt rlly pressure me he has told me he wants to do it..im ready and i want to have sex with my b/f but im a lil scared tht he might not be the one should i give him my virginlatity or ...

What can I do about my girlfriend not being ready to have sex? I'm tired of waiting.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5940 days ago

27 July 2008 (M) - Okay - So, I've been dating a girl that studies with me (collage) for about 10+ months already, and we haven't had sex yet. We are both virgins - believe it or not! I really like her and I know she really likes me, but I don't know why she doesn...

I've never kissed. I'm really worried that my tongue is too big...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

26 July 2008 (F) - im really insecure. ive never kissed before and im worried that my tongue is too big. is this a problem for guys. also any first time tips???...

Marriage: To be or not to be?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5947 days ago

26 July 2008 (M) - Dear Cupid July 26/08 I went out with a nice girl for 2 years and I intend to marry her. WE did not have any other partners. But I have mixed emotions regarding the virginity issue as I was a virgin and she was not b...

I'm in love with someone who used me!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5947 days ago

26 July 2008 (F) - I lost my virginity to this guy I really like. He told me he liked me but didnt have time for a relationship. I hoped that sleeping with him would make him want to go out with me (yeah i know but i dont have much experience with guys) but he saw our ...

How do I have sex in the missionary position without hurting her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5953 days ago

26 July 2008 (M) - Hey, I've worrying a little about having sex for the first time. Well, a while back, I was kissing my girlfrind (at the time) in the missionary position (me on top) but my arms were aching a lot from holding myself up and prevent myself from laying ...

Should I give up on finding love and opt for casual sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5953 days ago

25 July 2008 (F) - I am 25 and still a virgin. It is not something I am proud of anymore, in fact I find it to be frustrating and a total drag. All my life I tried to find someone special but did not succeed. My body is aching for sex, and I feel like I am missing ...

I'm very nervous about having sex with my current guy... I had a creepy experience with my first bf.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5954 days ago

25 July 2008 (F) - I had a creepy experience with my first boyfriend at 15 ["he" was actually a very convincing 'transgender', to use the word that was used, I had no idea until I was told. ICK!] It left me confused and off relationships for a while, but now after a ...

We used protection, but now my period is late - could I be pregnant?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5953 days ago

24 July 2008 (?) - hi cupids, im abit scared as my periods have gone all weird :-S i lost my virginity to my boyfriend of 11 months who i love dearly on the 13th june, yeah friday the 13th! and it was an amazin experience, he made it so special and i will never ever...

Can you have an STD if you're a virgin?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5940 days ago

24 July 2008 (F) - Is it possible to have an STD when you're a virgin? Beside crabs and scabies and such. Just curious......

Can I brake my hymen by doing martial arts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

23 July 2008 (?) - I was reading another question, and was wondering if it was possible for the hymen to brake if you did martial arts, i have been doing it for a few years now. If so, it would of broken a while ago, right?...

She's my first proper girlfriend so should I buy her a sex toy? I'm also a virgin.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5955 days ago

21 July 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend were cuddling the other day and I asked jokingly "you don't have any weird sex toys I should know about do you" and she replied "I do have one blue dildo that my ex bought me... maybe you can buy me a better one!" We have o...

Do guys want a girl who already knows what she's doing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5958 days ago

21 July 2008 (F) - Ok maybe someone can help me out... I haven't had sex with very many people at all and have yet 2 have sex with my current bf...I told him that I wasn't very experienced and I don't want 2 disappoint him..he said that it was fine and he was willi...

How long will it take for her to enjoy sex after losing her V card?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5949 days ago

21 July 2008 (M) - Ok me and my girlfriend recently had sex.. And she said it really hurt.. How long will it take for her to enjoy sex?...

Is not bleeding after your first time normal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5949 days ago

20 July 2008 (F) - hi i am worried, if you do not bleed after having sex for the first time normal? so many of my friends said that after their first time they bled.. but i didnt and i havent used tampons either.. is this normal? ...

Is my friend still a virgin if she masturbated with her boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5954 days ago

20 July 2008 (?) - ok I have a question. My friend said her and her boyfriend masturbated in front of each other at the same time. I say she's not a virgin anymore but she says she still is ... whats your take on this ???...

Do your legs space out when you have sex for the first time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

20 July 2008 (F) - ok i am 13 years old and i am a virgin but there's this one question that i am dying to know when you have sex for the first time do your legs start to space out?...

I had unprotected sex and bled heavily during and after my first time, please advise!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

19 July 2008 (F) - Today me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time, but unprotected my boyfriend kept taking out his penis to check he werent producing sperm , could i be pregnant even if he said no sperm came out? and i bled heavily alot during and after it is ...

Please don't tell me I'm too young to kiss! I need advice!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5954 days ago

19 July 2008 (M) - i'm 21, and i'm still a virgin. not only that, but i've never had a girlfriend or a even a date, and have never even kissed a girl on the lips. everyday, i see girls that are very attractive, and i feel more helpless and frustrated each day. can ...

My period has come earlier than expected after losing my virginity in the weekend, is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5953 days ago

17 July 2008 (F) - I lost my virginity at the weekend and now my period has come around 10 days early, is this normal? ...

Can I wear a purity ring if I'm a born again virgin?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

17 July 2008 (F) - Ok so I'm about to be 21 years old here in the next few months and one thing has been buggin me. I am not a virgin havent been since i was 15. Now I've only slept with 2 guys my whole life but the second guy I slept with i really didnt want to sleep ...

Is it true that young guys don't like dating women who are virgins?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

17 July 2008 (F) - Is it true that guys don't like dating women who are virgins in their twenties?...

My Virgin Bride was not a Virgin. How do I cope?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

17 July 2008 (M) - Hi, like many other guys I have a problem with my wifes past. I met her 25 years ago, she was 17 and I was 19. we hit it off right from the start and fell in love. we now have 2 kids aged 10 and 12. Every thing was fine until I asked her...

Should I have sex or not?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5957 days ago

16 July 2008 (F) - Could you try and help plz me and this boy are on about having sex i dont know wether i should go on with it or not hes a lovley boy and i do like him its just i think im a bit scared as we will be doing it outside (probably in a bush) it will also ...

I am a 27 year old virgin, when I date men and they find out, they back off, thinking something is wrong, what do I do to combat this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5947 days ago

16 July 2008 (F) - Hello everyone. I don't know how to write what I want to without sounding like a complete loser. lol. Well, the thing is that till date, I have had only short-term relationships, the longest of which was perhaps 4 months. And because I did...

Leading up to sex for the first time - I would like some ideas on how to make it special

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

16 July 2008 (F) - me and my bf have been dating for 10months we've been doing some stuff and now its leading to sex were both virgins and went our first time to be really really special any ideas on how to make it really romantic and special? and less painful for me ...

Could he have lied to me about being a virgin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

16 July 2008 (F) - hi everyone, well my boyfriend and i already lost our virginity to eachother, i have heard from friends that girls arent the only ones who go thru the pain at that process... my boyfriend didnt go thru any pain but i did ALOT!!! i think the only ...

Should I lose my virginity to him? I don't know if I want to.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

15 July 2008 (F) - my boyfriend loves me (and i know he does) and i love him too, i'ts just, he is not a virgin, but i am. He wants to have sex, but i dont know if i want to tho. I dont know if he wants me for my body or for me. I just dont know if i should give my ...

What approach/scenario would make you women feel comfortable that you would say yes.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

14 July 2008 (M) - Hi. I'm male, 22, who is very shy around women (cliche I know, but true;) never had a relationship, and still a virgin. To be honest, the inexperience and virginity has never really bothered me, until I recently met a girl who I have real, deep ...

My boyfriend always backs off when we are close to having sex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

14 July 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 and a half months and we're really close, closer than i've ever been to anybody. The thing is that I want to have sex, but he doesn't. the other thing is that we're both virgins! i understand where he comes ...

I want to get back with him, but I'm scared of rejection.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

14 July 2008 (F) - please help me i dont no what to do. I lost my virginity to a boy when i was just 13. i new him as he only lives round the corner from me and have liked him 4 ages .. 3 years later we got together we was in a seriouse relationship. But recently...

I started to watch porn on the internet. I haven't been caught yet but I'm afraid I will.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5936 days ago

13 July 2008 (F) - I am 13 and have recently began to have sexual feelings...i started to watch porn on the internet. I haven't been caught yet but i am afraid i will... How can i relive my sexual urge without being caught doing something embarrassing? I have tri...

Is there a particular age that a woman, is assumed to be sexually active or not a virgin?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

12 July 2008 (F) - At what age is it assumed a woman is sexually active? For men, is it a turn off to find out a woman is a virgin? Especially, of those men that are of mature age? For women, how old were some of you when you lost your virginity? What sort of pre...

Should I stick to my plans to save myself for marriage?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

11 July 2008 (F) - For the past few days, I have had a pretty high/medium sex drive. Currently, I am 17, and I've only had one boyfriend - When I was 14. I'm still a virgin, but I find myself wanting sex. My plans are to save myself for marriage, but lately, I've...

I won't have an opportunity to lose my virginity until I'm 18, what do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5968 days ago

11 July 2008 (F) - Hi, im 15 turning 16 this year and my mom got a job in Bamfield and there is nobody under the age 25. I come back to my home town for 1 week of the month. Ill be 18 when i come back permenantly. Im dont want to be 19 and a virgin. I dont want to ...

Which one of my sisters should I believe?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

10 July 2008 (F) - hi i'm getting married next month and since i'm a virgin i asked my sisters for help. my eldest sister says that i should stop the intercourse after i lose my virginty immediately, otherwise i will damage my vagina. but my other sister says it's o...

How do I properly dispose of the evidence so that my family isn't suspicious of my masturbating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5969 days ago

10 July 2008 (M) - I masturbate regularly, about 2-3 sometimes 4 times a day. My parents don't know, neither does my sister. I think that they are starting to get suspicious tho, I don't know how to properly dispose of the evidence...What should I do???...