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writes:Hi, im 15 turning 16 this year and my mom got a job in Bamfield and there is nobody under the age 25. I come back to my home town for 1 week of the month. Ill be 18 when i come back permenantly. Im dont want to be 19 and a virgin. I dont want to lose it to just anyone. What should i do?. Reply to this Question
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reader, Khandi  +, writes (12 July 2008):
 I thinkn you should browse this cite and view all of the problems people are dealing with, and alot of them are dealing wiht the complications of sex and relationships, and disease, and pregnancy look at the DearCupid World and know that if you do give up your virginity you may be on here asking for advise on the complications of sex and relationships, and disease, and pregnancy but the only thing you will realy be wondeing is why didnt i just wait? sex has a way of complicating things sex is not something to just go and do, at least that is not what it is intended for however that is what people use it for, i remember why i was 17 I gave up my virginity to a guy who gave up his virginity to me, and when he grew up to be a man he is such a J E R K !!! and now that i know about sex and and how it shold not be used as game or something to just do, i wish i didnt give him anything, I like uniqueness it is nice to have someting that no one else has ever had. wouldnt it be nice to know what it is to make love to your spouse and no one else know what it is like but you. kinda like i know something you dont know. what are you rushing for?
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reader, previasc96 +, writes (12 July 2008):
Don't be so concerned about loosing your virginity at a certain age.
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reader, saltwater  +, writes (11 July 2008):
 What's the rush? Be proud that you are a virgin!
Sex and relationships will come naturally later in life when you meet the right man. Enjoy your youth first!
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reader, shandygirl +, writes (11 July 2008):
 If you don't wait until you meet someone really special, and he has the same feelings for you... then your first time (just for the sake of not being a virgin anymore) will be a disaster. And when your first time isn't good, it will negatively affect your outlook on sex for a looooog time. I know this because my first time was when I was 18 and I was pressured into it. And, because he wasn't "the guy," and it did not feel good, and I didn't enjoy sex for YEARS afterwards.
What is the rush? Be proud to be a virgin.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2008): Wow it makes me sad that people feel so presured to have sex. I am no angel but my first time was with someone i really cared about. and whe you find that person they wont care whether you have had sex before or not. and they will also care enough to wait until you are ready. please dont just do it for the sake of it
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reader, tux +, writes (11 July 2008):
 What's so bad to have your virginity after 18? Why rush it? Don't rush it because it is the cool thing to do.. It's not cracked up to be..
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (11 July 2008):
 You wait for the right person to come along - whether that be when you are 16, 19 or 49. You said yourself that you don't want to lose it to just anyone - so don't.
There are worse things than being a virgin. Don't worry about it.
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