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*kelligon
writes:Hey, I've worrying a little about having sex for the first time. Well, a while back, I was kissing my girlfrind (at the time) in the missionary position (me on top) but my arms were aching a lot from holding myself up and prevent myself from laying on her. I don't wanna try lots of prositions on my first time. I just want to be on top all the way through. Would I be doing something wrong? I mean, i'm quite skinny but also kinda strong.
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reader, lexilou +, writes (26 July 2008):
 Try taking some of the weight on your knees too and allow a little of your weight on her body. I actually LIKE some weight on me rather then him holding his body away with his arms locked as it feels so much more intimate. Alternative with both so that your arms dont ache so much x
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reader, hasanswers123  +, writes (26 July 2008):
haha this question is so funny. You've got nothing to worry about. I can't recall a time when the "missionary position" has hurt. If it does hurt her she'll say and you can change the position... maybe elevate her so you don't have to lay directly on top of her. Place pillows underneathe her??? Just an idea.
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reader, PsyCookie  +, writes (26 July 2008):
 You won't hurt her if you stay on top. In fact, some girls like the weight of the guy on them. If you lay on her and she says it huts her, then get up or sustain yourself.
Now just try to check if you're ready for sex. Be aware of the consequences of it. Also be aware of what to do before you do it. Discuss your feelings with your girlfriend and vice-versa. You gotta make sure that you'll be for there if anything happens, the same with her. I assure you that when sex is done in a committed, loving relationship, it's way better. If you really don't think you'll be able to support her for the concequenses of sex, then revaluate your decision.
Now just don't forget protection. It's not only used to prevent pregnancies. Good luck
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