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Archived questions from: August, 2008 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

Is it rape if it was your boyfriend?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - Was hanging out with my boyfriend one night and he wanted us to go to the drive in later that night after dinner so i agreed and when we got there we let all of the seats down to get comfortable and in the middle of the movie he starts unbuttoning ...

I overcame my abuse. How do I make sure now that sex is perfect for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5925 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months now, we really truely love each other, and both feel it's time to take our relationship to the next level, he is a virgin and I am not. I was abused as a child so I never got to give my virginity away, it...

We had unprotected sex and now I'm feeling weird. Could I be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5926 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - I had sex with my basically boyfriend friday the 22nd. I took his verginity. I dont think he pulled out in time and when he did...it got on my inner thigh. we didnt use a condom. couple days after that, the condom broke. I am very emotional an...

Was she lying about him molesting her or was she just cheating on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5926 days ago

30 August 2008 (M) - I would like to find out what you would do my girlfriend called me up 1 day saying a guy(her friend) tried to molest her when he invited her to go out because it was the last day he was in town. She gave me his number to call him up. Then he told ...

Did we make out for too long? Or is it the wearing of the condom for the first time that's generated the erection problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5926 days ago

30 August 2008 (M) - Okay so I've been seeing my girlfriend for about four months, we met at the start of summer this year. Both of us are still virgins and right now would have been the second time that we have tried to have sex. The first time was a few weeks back at ...

I'm 35, single, and still a virgin, but my religion sees sex before marriage as a sin. What can I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5926 days ago

29 August 2008 (M) - hi I found this website may be can help in this matter. I am single guy,35 years old.I am still virgin.I am live in uK but i am from Egypt and christian. MY regailion refuse any sex before marriage and in my religion sex before ma...

Should I have sex with my friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - Hi people quick question if you could answer it that'd be so good! Well im 17 and havent really had a bf / sex yet but it doesnt really bother me that much. Me and my male friend whose 18 are soo close and just sit chatting and such in our unde...

I think my girlfriend was not a virgin when I had sex with her and I don't know what to do!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

29 August 2008 (M) - my girlfriend was having two boy friends at her past . i think she must have sex wih them because when i had sex with her there was no bleeding and my penis got easily entered her vagina and i hav heared that for the first time sex its just ...

My friend had sex with my crush! How should I react now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - You seriously won't believe this : In the past few weeks i was getting quite close to this guy, lets call him "Bob". I say quite close because the 'closest' we ever got was a kiss -but for me that is really intimate, because i'm a little bit gawk...

I'm 17 and my boyfriend wants to have sex, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - hi, im 17, me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while and he was talking about the next level and by the next level i mean sex and im only 17 am i ready and he says that he got lots comdoms but never used one, how do i know if he has never ...

How to observe my hymen? Confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5928 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - Hi all, I am a 2 virgin and about to get married soon. The problem is, I cannot find my vaginal opening! When I use a mirror to find it, I can see only a pink membrane - maybe the hymen. I'm sure my hymen is not completely closed since my menstru...

How can I prepare myself for my first time?.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5929 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend (that I love) for 3 months and we haven't had sex. On several occasions we've come close to doing so but I've always chickened out at the last minute. Don't get me wrong, I want to have sex but as a virgin, I am terri...

I'm not sure how I feel about losing my virginity! I had been planning to wait...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - hey guys just want an opinion on something so here goes... i always vowed that im gnna stay a virgin untill i get married and vowed that it will only be for my husband... however recently i found the perfect man... i love being around him and w...

I don't feel "that" special person is my ex, as she has emotional baggage and I am not ready for an exlusive relationship just yet. What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5897 days ago

27 August 2008 (M) - Okay, I'm seeing this woman who's a bit older than me (I'm 24 she's 31) and she's also my ex. Things seemed to be going well enough, until she revealed to me that she's looking for an exclusive (as well as sexual) relationship with me, something ...

My boyfriend pushes the limits when I am not ready. Am I too harsh to him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5929 days ago

26 August 2008 (?) - My boyfriend (hes a few years older then mke) wants to go all the way when I wasn't ready. I did talk to him at least two times but he kept (he would tried an grabbed one of my breats we were in his car. I would him off)on doing it. Then one when we ...

Virginity Poll: How old were you when you lost the V-card?

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - tell me...how old were you when you lost your virginity??...

What can I do about my romantic life? Why have I been unlucky until now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

25 August 2008 (F) - Hi cupid Thanks for this opportunity, i had a relationship wid a guy a 1 yrs ago,he was never commited n never willing to take a step ahead bt i blindly met him once we did nt ve sex bt he touch me all over and after few days he told me he was gett...

14 years old and want to have sex but worried about the side effects.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5931 days ago

25 August 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid. I'm A 14 Year Old Virgin. I'm Wanting To Loose This. But Im Very Uptight About The Effects. My Boyfriend Says It Will Only Hurt A Little, But I Beg To Differ. My Friends Say When They Lost It ( between the ages or 14 - 16) I...

I think my relationship is falling apart because I support sex after marriage...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

25 August 2008 (F) - I am 18 yrs old and im a virgin... I've been in a relationship for about 7 mnths... im still havin problems givin it up... I told my boyf dat I blieve in sex after marriage... he still gave me a try but now I think my relationship is fallin appart...

I'm 14, when I'm 18 me and my boyfriend are going to have sex, but I'm really scared already. Will it hurt? Will I bleed a lot?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

25 August 2008 (F) - Ok i am 14 yrs old, and me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 5 months. We have decided that when we are 18 we would have sex, but i am really scared and wanted to know if it will hurt? If it will is there anyway i could do something ...

Any information about finding a place and time for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

24 August 2008 (F) - I am 16 and my boyfriend Joe is 15. We met when he was 8 and I was 9 at school. We hit it off at school and started doing group things together and then eating lunch together. A year later Joe's parents were looking to move to a new neighborhood. ...

What are some activities/ways of making love that we can do that don't involve intercourse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

24 August 2008 (F) - My boyfriend have been going steady for a while now and we are very much in love. We love just spending time together. We enjoy doing many things together. We are both virgins and have talked about having sex. He says that there would be nothing ...

Does every girl masturbate? Any tips without including sex toys?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

23 August 2008 (F) - i am 16 years old and ive recently been getting sexual desires, the only way to kind of calm it down is to masturbate... but i really dont know how to.. i dont want to use a vibrator or anything like that, i want to use my fingers. how do you do ...

What about losing the "V card" twice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

23 August 2008 (M) - erm, this is a request from my girlfriend, she has been told by a friend that after a sertain amount of time, you can lose your virginity after losing it once before. is this true? if it is, how long should she wait untill she can lose it a...

Any stories about losing your virginity??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

23 August 2008 (F) - I'm nearly 17 and haven't had sex yet. I'm not too bothered as I'm waiting for the right person to come along as a lot of people tell me that it's the right thing to do. However, I do get extremely horny and masturbate and watch porn quite a lot, is ...

Could my pool-jumping have broke my hymen??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

22 August 2008 (F) - While I was on holidays last month i did a lot of jumping into the pool and afterwards there was blood on my bikini end .I thought it was my period but that was the only blood there was. I'm a virgin so could I have broke my hyman?...

He's a virgin, I'm not. How can I make it meaningful for him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

22 August 2008 (F) - So I've been seeing this guy for a while. I had known him before, but now we are really connected. So we went out last night to chat under the stars, and I ended up finding out he was a virgin. I was shocked but totally cool with it. I'm pretty sure ...

Am I still a virgin if I was given oral sex from a female?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5935 days ago

22 August 2008 (M) - Am i still a virgin technically speaking, if i've never had sex but have received oral from a girl when i was 15-16. I wished it was more but that was my last encounter with someone else sexually....

How can one virgin really turn another virgin on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5935 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - Hey guys. Me and my boyfriend are both virgins and we plan to have sex soon. We both really want to but I'm sensing he is a bit more nervous than I am (because he says he wants it to be really amazing). Do you have any advice about how I can ...

Too much too fast! Anything else we can do instead of having sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5925 days ago

21 August 2008 (?) - Hi everyone. I dont no what to do. I'm 18 [virgin and proud!] But my boyfriend who I love keeps giving me sighns that he wants me to have sex and we'v only been going out for 3 mounths! We were bestsfriends for 2 years but we fell in love. I dont ...

How is losing my virginity going to feel? And what steps do I take to move it to full on sex?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5934 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - hi there im 16 and im gunna have sex with my boyfriend at the weekend, im a virgin and have only ever kissed a guy before. i dont know what to do nd hes really experienced and knows alot bout sex and positions but i know nothing whatso ever, wh...

I've lost confidence after my experience with losing my virginity!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5935 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - when i lost my virginity i bled alot during the sex the guy i did it with carried on and he didnt use a condom he had blood all over him but he didnt seem phased or bothered at all but i was quite embarassed me and him havent had sex since c...

Can a virgin have a smear test done?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - Hello, I am near reaching an age where the doctors start to suggest smear tests. A thought occurred to me the other day and got me wondering whether female virgins get smear tested because wouldn't it break their hymen?? Can't spell. Unless hu...

I'm 23 and have never had a relationship. Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5936 days ago

20 August 2008 (M) - Okay, first time speaking out about all this, here goes: I'm 23 and a virgin, never been in a relationship/kissed/etc. I'm a college graduate, starting up grad school soon. I have a few female friends, but they're either in relationships or...

I'm 15, and never had a girlfriend, been kissed or even held hands with a girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5937 days ago

20 August 2008 (M) - I'm 15, and never had a girlfriend, been kissed or even held hands with a girl. Am I doing someting wrong? Whenever I think a girl likes me it always turns out that they were just being friendly. My brother is 2 years older than me but has had at ...

Have I lost my V-card?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5935 days ago

19 August 2008 (F) - This is very important to me so I hope I get some answers soon. I have been with my boyfriend for about eight months now. We are very much dedicated and in love with one another. Not too long ago, he inserted the TIP of his penis inside my vagina ...

Can someone put me in the right direction when it comes to girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5936 days ago

19 August 2008 (M) - Hi, i am 21, i have a real problem that i need help with. Im a virgin and i have real girl problems, when i was 16,17 and 18 i wasnt really that nervous or shy around girls but every girl i liked i had my heart set on them and they said they l...

My boyfriend says he is a virgin, but then I found an old condom box and a condom wrapper in his closet. Could he be lying?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5937 days ago

19 August 2008 (F) - Hi there. I have a kind of wierd question, but I'm looking for some opinions. Alright, so i was with my boyfriend a few nights ago, and we were trying to find some movie in his closet. So we're looking and all of a sudden i find this box. Its ...

Can some one give me a clear description of what the "first time" pain is like?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

17 August 2008 (F) - hi i'm 19, and frickin scared of my first time. Could someone please try to explain the pain, relate it to something? and this is for the people that it really did hurt for?...

Will he be put off by my telling him I am a virgin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5892 days ago

16 August 2008 (F) - I am seeing this guy, he is my first proper boyfriend and we have decided to have sex, should I tell him I am a virgin, or do you think this might put him off. He has had a lot of experience and I am scared incase he will be able to tell because I ...

My boyfriend wants a break to straighten his life but I don't want to wait forever help?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

14 August 2008 (F) - My boyfriend told me he wanted a break so he can concentrate on working and moving out of his house so he can start college. I understand exactly where he is coming from too. He said he still loves me but now he never really tells me anymore. Im ...

What do women think about a guy thats 23 and still a virgin?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

14 August 2008 (M) - What do women think about a guy thats 23 and still a virgin. thats my situation. im not ugly or fat....

Should I have sex even though I'm just 13?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

14 August 2008 (F) - ok im 13 and i want to have sex. i have a boyfriend, and we have been dating for about 4 months and i think i am ready he is 14 and is a freshman in high school i am still in middle school (8th grade). but my main question is, should i even though i...

I thought my financé loved me although it was to be an arranged marriage. Then he cheated with a prostitute. He doesn't see it as important. I don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5943 days ago

13 August 2008 (F) - I have in my late teens and as according to my culture- in a semi-arranged type of marriage- have agreed to get married- to a guy that I absolutely adore- and whom I thought also loved me. As I was so young, and also due to the fact that he sti...

How can I help my girlfriend so it won't hurt her so much the next time we have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5943 days ago

13 August 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and i had sex together for the first time. We did it twice and she bled both times. The first time she bled more than the second (the 2nd was only a little bit) She was in some pain and it was hard for me to go inside her because she's ...

Is it normal to bleed the first couple of times you have sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5942 days ago

13 August 2008 (F) - Ive had sex with my boyfriend twice.I've bled here and there both times and my vagina seems to be really tight.We both decided to lose our virginity to each other and we trust one another. What should I do about my vagina being so tight and is ...

I have never even kissed a girl, let alone lost my virginity ~ and I am 28!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

12 August 2008 (M) - VIRGIN AT AGE 28! I NEED ADVICE! Hi, I am a 28 year old male VIRGIN. I have never had sexual intercourse with the opposite sex; no girlfriends or sexual relationships. I dare not tell anybody of my personal situation- the humiliation and r...

The first time he penetrated me I never bled, so now I'm scared he's going to think I was faking my virginity.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5943 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - Hi there! I've been with this guy for about a year and everything seems right. I was with him a couple of weeks back and we were discovering each other. He didnt go inside me, but by the time we finished, i was on my way home i was bleeding...

We need help, our relationship is getting damaged.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5939 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - i need help, my relashionship is getting damage ,it has been 2years of engagement, and from 1st i told my fiance not to have sex till marriage, and he apreciate my idea. but now he reached his limits. And now his health geting damaged and he is ...

I'm only 14 and my friends's are saying it's uncool to be a virgin, so I'm hoping someone will help me please.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5932 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - I really like this boy, his names jack, and people keep telling me to ask him out. But im really nervious and i dont know what to do. My friends keep telling me to have sex with him and go on from there, but the thing is im only 14. and im stil...