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writes:Ok i am 14 yrs old, and me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 5 months. We have decided that when we are 18 we would have sex, but i am really scared and wanted to know if it will hurt? If it will is there anyway i could do something that would make it hurt less? And will i bleed a lot? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2008): okok first off it make hurt if you are nervous,but try to relax and make should you are horny horny horny because if not then he will have to force it in and that will hurt but if you play around (if you get what i mean) then it should not hurt if you are wet enough then it should slip right on in but make sure he takes in slow and try to listen to your favorite song and put it on repeat! :)
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reader, daletom +, writes (26 August 2008):
The fact that you seem to be thinking of sex almost entirely in terms of its physical physiology, rather than the mental and emotional elements, makes me think you are far from being ready for sex right now. I won't guess whether or not you'll be ready at 18 - that's too far away.
For an answer to your question, look at the post I placed in the thread "Any stories about losing your virginity??" at [ http://www.dearcupid.org/question/any-stories-about-losing-your-virginity.html ].
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reader, saltwater  +, writes (25 August 2008):
 You sound like you're thinking about having sex earlier than 18...I hope for you that you aren't.By 18 sex may not hurt as much, though it may still be slightly painful. Lots of foreplay will help moisten you and make you less tense and will maybe make it slightly less painful.Like I say though you sound like you're preparing to have sex earlier .i.e soon.Don't let your boyfriend pressure you into anything that you don't feel ready for; be it now, or when you are 18.Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2008): Yes it will hurt and will hurt for the first 2 or 3 times.
You should use a lot of lubrication and do a lot of foreplay
before penetration so you won't be so tense and the pain will be less.
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reader, Beybii_Boo +, writes (25 August 2008):
 Hello annonoymous writer.
At 18 your body will be fully developed so it wont hurt as much as it would now. When you lose you virginity it hurts for a quick second and its very sharpe. You may not bleed or you could depends if your relaxed or lose and stuff. So basically make sure your ready to lose your virgigty you are aged between 13-15 so you may not even be with that boy when your 18. To be honest when you lose it condoms make it softer and use lube which is like a gel which is slippery so it does'nt hurt as much. Speak to your boyfriend about this im sure he will be understanding.
Thanks
Beybii_Boo
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