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writes:Hi there. I have a kind of wierd question, but I'm looking for some opinions. Alright, so i was with my boyfriend a few nights ago, and we were trying to find some movie in his closet. So we're looking and all of a sudden i find this box. Its little and when i look, its an old condom box but no condoms. I was like uhh? Because he claims he's a virgin. He just looked at it and laughed and blamed it on his brother. Then we keep looking and i found an old condom wrapper behind more stuff. Why the hell would his older brother be putting this stuff in his closet? He had a girlfriend before me, and supposedly they never went that far. But still. I'm kind of wondering if he's lying. Help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2008): Sweetness what do you think? He's an obvious liar!!! Break up with him immediately, and if he tried to contact you again report him to police and file charges against him. Guys like that can be truly dangerous. You don't want to be taken advantage of "or raped" do you?!
Do the right thing hun, cut off with this filthy liar now, and report him to the police if he tried to contact you again, without a second thought!
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reader, sexcbaby08  +, writes (19 August 2008):
Hi, i really think that you need to ask him communicattion is the best key in a relationship if you dont have that then it wont work. or you wil just be unhappy. Just say to him if you are not a virgin i dont mind i just need to put my mind at rest, and just mention that use need to be able to talk openly. what you dont want to do is say are you marstabating with them on because any lier anyway would just say yeh. Hun i hope things work out and that he has a simple explanation. Good Luck huni
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2008): Condoms can be used to jerk off.
Most guys I know had some before they went all the way and practised using them to see how they worked and what might go wrong.
It still takes time to get it on and this means that the romance is on hold till the item in question is in place.
Note please that a guy who still has his foreskin will have problems using condoms unless he also uses what they call a cock ring.
The foreskin allows the condoms to slip off during intercourse and it becomes a hide and seek game to try and get them out again, they almost become a cervical cap.
Also I would not worry about his past since I venture he is interested in you, a virgin can be more problems then the novelity of such.
a guy with some experiance will be better able to please you, while a virgin will come to quick or do things wrong or just plan take to long looking you over and feeling his pleasure rather then being a part of you and learning to please himself by pleasing you at the same time.
The difference between love making and having sex is the simple difference between two people join in pleasing each other by the union of two bodies into one or each striving to please themselves before the other one does.
One is shared, the other is selfish.
Some men learn this fast and well, others take a while to figure it out, and a rare few have had lovers in the past who taught them well.
As a woman it is in your best interest to teach him well in loving you, if he learns it well then he will also be able to love himself better and this will reflect in each of you having the other for a long time.
Good luck.
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reader, troysyaussie  +, writes (19 August 2008):
 he probably told you its his brothers cause hes embarressed to tell you why he uses them. he could be masterbating with them. you never know. but he could be lying. but give him the benefit of the doubt. just ask him what you said here. see what he says
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