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*ello kitty
writes:hi, im 17, me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while and he was talking about the next level and by the next level i mean sex and im only 17 am i ready and he says that he got lots comdoms but never used one, how do i know if he has never used one and if not does he know how to put one on properly. and is it easy to take birth control pills Reply to this Question
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reader, 0peachy0keen0 +, writes (29 August 2008):
Honey
If u like want to have sex with this guy then totally go for it :) Your in a commited relationship so why shouldnt u have a little (safe) fun!
But if you wanna do it jsut to please him . stop . and think do I really want to do this?
If the answer is no then there are plenty of other things to do that'l be fun like oral and handjobs. Maybe try taking things to another level (like oral sex) and see how u feel about sex after that!
And its quite easy to put a condom on and take birth control pills! Just ask ur family planning clinic or doctor about both of these things if u have any queries!
Much love x
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reader, lilgirly  +, writes (29 August 2008):
 by posting a question over here and by saying it yourself that you're only 17 it shows that you don't want to really have sex .. you just want to please him..or maybe you're too scared that he might leave you..
talk to him, and tell him that you're not ready,if he stays well you will know that he is there for you cause he loves you not there just to get into your pants take care..
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2008): How do you feel about this? You have not once mentioned how you feel about him (is it love or friendship) or if you are interested/ready for sex with him. Do not allow yourself to be pressured. You will not lose the 'right type" of boyfriend by declining or delaying sex. But you also must communicate clearly to him what your attitude on sex is - "yes" "no" or "maybe later because ...we need to develop our relationship first/I'm not ready"
Condoms and BC pills are easy to use. You can go to Planned Parenthood for detailed advice - they will even let you practice applying condoms on a banana. The most important thing about sex is - always be safe.
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