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Archived questions from: April, 2008 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

Are all guys put off by their girlfriend's sexual past?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I'm a 19 year old who has been harshly judged by her past. Let's see... I'm now single, I guess. My (ex) B/F left me yesterday, over an issue from my past. Not the first time he's done it. However, yesterday he broke up with me, and today he wen...

I love him more than anything and don't want our relationship to end but we're at the verge of breaking up please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6075 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I am 27 and until last year I'd never kissed anyone, let alone anyone else. When I was at school boys just weren't interested and then when I was older I was so embarrassed by my lack of experience that if guys did show an interest I'd pretend that ...

How long does it take a girl to climax through fingering?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

30 April 2008 (M) - Hi, im quite young and still a virgin. I recently got a new girlfriend which i love very much but she is very shy and has not done much with any other boy except me. She is quite shy, and i have dry fingered her (over her pants), but she doesnt f...

Could it be possible that the hymen stays intact after fingering?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

30 April 2008 (M) - my wife and i were watching a tv show and the question of virginity came up. we started to talk about our first times and my wife said she was fingered for over 2 years before she had intercourse. what i do not understand is she says she still had ...

I'm a virgin and have developed a tense brooding state and a sort of unusual complex since my mother touched me sexually!! Please advise.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (M) - Hi friends I am virgin guy in my twenties. Please read this carefully and come out with a good solution. I discuss with my family all my problems. I was a bit tense those days due to my job and also feeling alone.There was whitewashing going on...

How can I miss someone who dumped me because I wasnt ready for sex with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - I know this may sound stupid but I'm not sure if what my now ex bf did to me was right or wrong. I am wondering if he was trying to pressure me into sex or not? Is it possible he didnt realise what he was doing was wrong or considered pressure? ...

My boyfriend is now starting to feel unloved and blame himself as my Church back ground teaches sex is bad!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - This portion has already been posted, but I would like to add to it.....I am 24 years old and I am a virgin. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. I love him with all of my heart and want to marry him but I am so scared to have sex. I was ...

Chastity before marriage is still demanded in our country, and I lost mine to the wrong man, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - I need help. a year and half ago I met this guy. He was from another country and 25 years older than me. He was divorced with kids. He was an alcoholic.I saved his life when he relapsed.He pursed me for months. I finally gave him my heart and lost ...

I'm worried my husband-to-be finds out my hymen has been broken, please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - hi, i broke my hyman whilst dancing. i know this because i found out when i saw blood and felt pain too. im getting married soon n im very worried.will my husband be able to find out. i mean will he able to 'feel' that i dont have hyman.....please ...

I just can't find my girl. I've never even had a first kiss and I just get so depressed every time I think about it!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

27 April 2008 (M) - Hello, I'm new here and was just looking for some advice. I've just turned 28 and am seriously worried because I've never had a girl friend. I just feel like everyone around me is able to move on with their lives but I just seem to be stuck at the ...

What if my husband doesn't give me time ,so I again bump into someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6080 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - hi guys .wud like to keep it as short as possible.i am 19 yrs dating this guy(28yrs)for 1 yr now. I love him and he has been loyal to me but we never had satisfied relationship.we both live in two differnt cities and last we met was 3 months...

I don't want to lose my virginity yet-His persistance scared me so much I thought he was going to rape me!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - I had been dating my boyfriend for 7 months im a virgin and he is not. I have done stuff with him eg oral and jerked him off but not sex. He is getting bored. He says he wants to be inside me and cum inside me and stuff but i dont really want to. ...

I think I want to do it with him but I think it's becoming an issue!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - I've always wanted to wait until I got married to have sex, but I've been with my bf for 3 years (mostly long distance) and I don't think we're going to be getting married anytime soon. I think I want to do it with him, because we've done everything ...

How do I establish that I don't want sex with a guy in a way that he won't try to pressure me into it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

26 April 2008 (F) - I just finished my freshman year of college. I recently (5-6 months ago) broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years, my first real relationship. I’ve been trying to get myself back into a dating for some time now, but in all honesty, I don’t think I’m ...

I'm scared to let lads touch me or get close to me-is this abnormal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5944 days ago

26 April 2008 (F) - This is kind of a sensitive question but one i really need help with! well my problem is that im scared to let lads touch me or get close to me and i really dont know why! im not scared of lads - just letting them see my body and touch me! im ...

Is having no sex unhealthy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

26 April 2008 (M) - Would it be unhealthy to remain a virgin for my whole life?...

I am SO scared to have sex, I was raised to believe it is bad!!! My boyfriend has been waiting for me for years to express our love in that way, help!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

25 April 2008 (F) - I am 24 years old and I am a virgin. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. I love him with all of my heart and want to marry him but I am so scared to have sex. I was raised in the church and to think that sex is bad. I am scared that I ...

How do I know if she had sex with him before we married?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

25 April 2008 (M) - sir actaually i got married six months before.before to marriege my fiance told me one day that she was a relationship with a boy and they were only best friends not more then that.now their relation is broke up. i was not having any problem on this ...

First time sex, how will I perform? Please help!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

25 April 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I are ready for sex. This weekend is best as we'll be alone, but I'm nervous, will I get it up? What position? Will I get my penis in and orgasm? (with a condom on) I also want my girl to be happy. I know it's our 1st time, but tr...

Are we ready to lose our virginity?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

25 April 2008 (F) - Well me and my b/f are always conversing. Right...we've had so much together and were thinking about losing both of our virginty together. I really think i love him to go all the way with him. He always tells me he's not going to rush me into doing ...

Worried about the pain of deflowering, am I ready to take this step?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

24 April 2008 (F) - Ok, so i'm 16 and i'm just about ready to sleep with my bf. i've already seen his 'package' and he is really big (around 9 inches) and i'm scared that when we sleep together it'll hurt really badly! what do you think? ...

She is 23 and says she knows nothing about sex. Could this be true?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

24 April 2008 (M) - I am a male 25. My female friend aged 23 says she dont know anything about sex. She dont know what is masturbation and fingering. She doesnt know what sexual urge is.R there such girls present on earth. Is she a girl or what. She says she will lea...

I have a fear of blood. What will happen when I lose my virginity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

24 April 2008 (M) - Hello. I have a fear of blood. When I lose my virginity, I want it to be with a virgin. If she bleeds, I'm afraid I'm going to faint. The very thought of someone elses blood anywhere near me makes my skin crawl. What should I do?...

How am I supposed to have sex with someone who could be paralyzed from the waist down?!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

23 April 2008 (F) - okayy. my boyfriend went to the doctor like 2 days ago. They said a disk in his back was out of place and if he plays any sports or messes up his back in anyway he will become paralyzed (sp?)from the waist down. when he told me that i tryed to ...

Was this sex? I'm a virgin and I'm not sure what to think of this or how to move past it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

23 April 2008 (M) - I am a guy 24 yrs old and not had sex as yet.I had a aunty in relation whom I am open with. I share every problem with her .I went to a party a wedding in her relation. I was tense those days regarding my job and regarding my girlfriend. i told her...

I'm not ready to lose virginity yet because I'm waiting for marriage but the girls I hang with all think I'm weird

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - im 19 yrs almost 20yrs very attractive well educated n sexy.n guys do think im well pretty..so i do get guys...but im still a virgin..im not ready to loose it yet because im waiting for marriage but the girls i hang with all think im weird..and when ...

Ahe claims sport contributed to the hymen being broken, could it be true?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

22 April 2008 (M) - hi something thats always bugging me ..i wonder if you can help me.... i have been married for sometime/before my marriage my wife use to play badminton quite alot....and crease her legs together to masterbate..... on our first intercourse i noted ...

Could I have lost my virginity and got pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - i'm a 27 year old lady and had sex for the first time with my boyfriend. i did not feel much pain and did not bleed and my vagina didnt expand that much. could i have lost my virginity or not. also i started taking the pill the 5 hours after se...

I sometimes regret breaking up with my ex and think that maybe I have lost my true love

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

20 April 2008 (F) - I was once engaged about seven years ago to wonderful handsome man who treated me like a princess. I broke off the engagment as I feel that i wasan't ready for marriage and I didn't feel that I loved him. After we broke up I found out that my ex ...

Should I tell girls that I'm a virgin if I want to hook up?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

20 April 2008 (M) - I have some parties coming up. If I happen to 'hook up' with a girl who isn't a virgin, should I tell her the truth, that I'm a virgin? I'm afraid of her reaction....

I'm not shallow but she wants to wait to have sex....that could be years!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

20 April 2008 (M) - I'm in a bit of a pickle right now and I could use some advice. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for about six months now. And we started talking about how we feel about sex. She told me she wants to wait until marriage and I'm fine with ...

He had pre-cum on his penis but I'm still a virgin. Could I be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6090 days ago

20 April 2008 (F) - I almost lost my virginity....he went inside of me and we didnt have a condom on.he had pre cum on his penis.can i be preganant...

We found each other again online but I'm still a virgin and she's not! Will she ever be totally mine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6090 days ago

19 April 2008 (M) - To start off, i am an 20yr old male living in canada. Currently in a serious relationship with a childhood friend, whom i have known when we were going to kindergarten. We got separated when my parents have gotten job offers in another country, thus ...

Should I be worried about the blood that came with defloration?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6089 days ago

19 April 2008 (F) - hi i recently had sex for the 2nd time with a guy i'm seeing but after i found blood all over the place , it turns out i'd split !?! now i'd understand (but still be mortified) if it was at the bottom of my vagina or something but it was just a rip ...

We are both virgins and I'll be very gentle, is this a good way to start?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5978 days ago

19 April 2008 (M) - Hi-me and my girlfriend will be having sex for the 1st time.I'll be very gentle going in.I've heard its best not to stroke too much at 1st but try and wriggle the penis around inside a bit so that my girfriends vagina gets used to it being in and ...

How can I make sure my boyfriend doesn't have any STD's??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6091 days ago

18 April 2008 (F) - hi, Me and my bf have been dating a while and the topic of sex has come up alot. Now I am a virgin and he is not and i am not ready to have sex, and he knows I am not and said he would wait fot me, so what I am worried about is Sexually Transmit...

Should he stay a virgin?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

18 April 2008 (F) - Hi all, I find it really disturbing that one of our Aunts (WE ALL KNOW WHO) is ranting and raving over religion. He is clearly very disturbed, and should anyone that has such extreme views be giving advice? We are all entitled to believe in w...

I don't have a clue what I'm doing, and it's going to be her first time too.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

15 April 2008 (M) - I need help. Me and my g/f have been going out for 8 months, it's a long time for me and it's her first serious relationship. We've been taking it slow mainly because i think it's best if we do, she's still a virgin, and she's never even kissed a...

I need him to break up with me, and keep my secret!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

15 April 2008 (F) - hi everyone hen i first talked to my boyfirnd it was great but i lied to him about my past and he got upset so things went bad between us , since then we've been having fights every day and everytime we have a fight he curses at me , threaten...

I am afraid I will not be able to make a woman happy. I don't just mean sex, I mean in all aspects of life.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

15 April 2008 (M) - Heh can't believe I will ask this but anyway... I'm a 22 year old guy who has never had sex, now big thing I fear is that a women I do find that I like I wont know how to really make them happy and I don't mean just in bed. I don't really care abou...

We are both Christians, and she is serious about no sex before marriage, do I confess my past mistakes?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

15 April 2008 (M) - Ok, background on me and my girlfriend, I'm 20, she's 23, we are both down to earth Christians and have been dating for 6 months now, which isn't long but its going brilliantly! She is big on the whole sex before marriage, and am to, BUT...About 3 ...

I'd like advice on having penetrative sex please.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6096 days ago

14 April 2008 (F) - A guy that I've been seeing for a while has expressed interest in ME having penetrative sex with HIM. I'm totally open to giving it a try, but I really don't know how to go about it, or what's ideal to do/use the first time. If anyone could off...

Why do I need to know who my girlfriend has had a fling with?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

14 April 2008 (M) - I know guys come on here asking for help for problems about dealing with their girlfriends past. I have a similar problem but i don't understand why! I keep wanting to know who my girlfriend has had a fling with, the funny thing is she gave her virg...

Was our sex good enough? Am I pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

13 April 2008 (F) - Me and My boyfriend of 8 months decided to have sex for the first time last week. It was both of our first times and i enjoyed it but i feel that i have let him down as he is 2 years older than me. I feel that i have ruined it for him but he says ...

Wish I could talk to women but I am too self-conscious, any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

13 April 2008 (M) - im a 21 year old male and still a virgin and i have scaring from my acne and real selfconcious about it and i wanna talk to women but am too scared is there any way to avoid this the only good thing about me is that im pretty built ...

What position is best to make love for the first time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

13 April 2008 (?) - Hey guys, i would like to know what position is best to make love for the first time. My boyfriend and i are both virgins, i know to have loads of foreplay and to take things slowly because of the pain that may or may not be present. But what are ...

Do you only bleed a bit with your first intercourse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

12 April 2008 (F) - I had first time intercourse last night. We'd prepared well, and relaxed, and did lots of foreplay. We didn't expect too much. At first we fumbled and giggled our way through it!! But we enjoyed ourselves. I did bleed a bit but I expected it ...

Do guys think I'm a loser because I'm a virgin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

11 April 2008 (F) - I am 20 years old, and I am still a virgin. It's not because of religious reasons; I have dated before but I just haven't found the person to do it with. What I am fearing now is how guys see virgins. I have always watched TV and movies that basi...

Trying to have sex but he 'can't get it in' and it really hurts, is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

11 April 2008 (F) - Hi everyone, I am 20 years old and I tried to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time and he was unable to get in me. He tried but just could not get in and it hurt everytime he tried. Is this normal for the first time or do you think there ...

How can you tell is a guy is not a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6095 days ago

11 April 2008 (F) - how would you know if the guys are already not virgin?...