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anonymous
writes:hi, i broke my hyman whilst dancing. i know this because i found out when i saw blood and felt pain too. im getting married soon n im very worried.will my husband be able to find out. i mean will he able to 'feel' that i dont have hyman.....please advice me. im orginally from a pakistani origin and having an arrange marriage, im too woriied about the consequences if he find out. plzzz help....
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reader, codelady98  +, writes (30 April 2008):
Understanding your fiance is part of the game called marriage u're about to get into. From what u've seen so far, how do you think he'll take it? u can pose it to him jokingly one night, create an imaginary scenario (without hinting that it's u he's talking about, though!) hear his response. how he reacts will determine how u reveal this to him. if he feels that it's possible to lose the hymen before actual sex, u can safely let him know what's up straight up. if he's the extremely jealous and possessive type, and judging by his response, he doesn't think it's possible, for heaven's sake let him "hurt" you the first time u are together....it's a game u gotta know how to play baby. no point causing hurt when there's no need to. u know ur pure, if the waters are calm, let them remain calm. take care!
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reader, TT +, writes (28 April 2008):
 he won't be able to tell. The only give-a-way is the fact that you possibly won't bleed after your first time together. Although not everyone bleeds first time either.
Lots of virgins have had their hymens broken long before they have sex.
Blame it on a tampon!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008): He's not going to know the difference. I wouldn't mention it unless he says something. Men have extremely fragile egos - if you just volunteer the info, it may have the effect of making him suspicious, and for no reason.
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reader, softballplaya  +, writes (27 April 2008):
 well from what i know about all this, no he proably wont be able to tell. Be honest with him and tell him that your hymen broke while dancing, im not sure if he will be able to tell. being honest with him may help you in the long run, it may seem crazy now but it will work out for you
hope i helped=]
good luck&& take care!
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