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writes:Hi-me and my girlfriend will be having sex for the 1st time.I'll be very gentle going in.I've heard its best not to stroke too much at 1st but try and wriggle the penis around inside a bit so that my girfriends vagina gets used to it being in and this also helps give her early pleasure.Is this a good way to start?
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reader, I'mheretohelpyou  +, writes (10 August 2008):
 You know what I'll plan your whole night, lol, I'm bored.Take her to the room, turn down the lights or off and put on a lamp. You both take off your clothes, leaving you in shorts and her in a bra and undies. Say in a sexy was, "Do you what I gonna do to you?", if your shy whisper that in her ear. And if she say no say your going kiss her ALL over, all over, all. You take off her bra and kiss her nips and kiss her neck and blow on the wet spots. Lay her down, kiss her neck, her lips, her forehead, stomach, take off her undies, kiss her calfs, knees hehe whatever, kiss top of one thigh, move up and switch legs and do the same. And then: The big WHOA, ya know ya know, lick, suck, eat, or stroke her who ha. GFet her started. And then kiss her and put on a condom, do the pancake thing. Go slow and then fast and slow and fast and ya know. And then when your done, hold her and kiss her and blow on her neck andd stuff. After that when she's asleep and you'll wanna see her when she's sleeping, gently play with her nipples and kiss her and go to sleep.There ya go!!!!!!!!
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reader, ilovemybaby +, writes (20 April 2008):
 I AGREE WITH "daniellexxxx" COMMENT
be jentle and keep asking if shes ok because that will show how much you care.
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reader, Deema +, writes (19 April 2008):
 You sound sensitive and thoughtful, so I'm sure you'll know how to deal with it when the time comes. Just show her how much you care about her comfort and enjoyment and that will show her a great deal about you. Us girls are fine with most things as long as we know our man is respecting us, our feelings and our bodies. We like acknowledgement - in fact that is the top need of a woman I think - acknowledgement that you're listening, understanding and trying to get a handle on things. If you get that one right, you don't have to do much more. Good luck. I know its scarey - for both of you - but it will get easier and better, so don't be let down by any expectations you have, cus thats all they are - expectations.
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reader, daniellexxxx +, writes (19 April 2008):
 Try oil or ky jelly it will make it less pain and more comfatable for her.
Be gentle though as well keep asking her if it's ok for her.
Good luck.
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