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30-35,
*othic Wolf
writes:hi,Me and my bf have been dating a while and the topic of sex has come up alot. Now I am a virgin and he is not and i am not ready to have sex, and he knows I am not and said he would wait fot me, so what I am worried about is Sexually Transmited Diseases, he says he does not have any but how do can I make sure he really doesn't all...all I have is his word....please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2008): That is nice he said he would wait. Why don't you wait till marriage.You can have him go get tested also.
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reader, Dr Vendetta  +, writes (18 April 2008):
 his word is worth as much as my credit.
Tell him.. and you're gonna love this.
Tell him you will not have sex with him Untill he has been tested. And proves it too. ( ie paper work from the clinic)
Now.. remember "Well if you really loved me you'd trust me"
if he loves you then he will do it.
its not unfair, mean or curel of you to ask him that. your reasons are safe and honest and the smart/right thing to do.
if he says oh you can trust me.. i'd knwo if i had something.. this is not true people Can carry std's with out it showing on them.
keep that in mind.
Basicly if he wont. then.. don't have sex with him because it means you can't trust him
And in closing if you Do cave in to pressure at least have the commen sence to use protection. for not only std's but also so you odn't get pregnant. ok?
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reader, AkasunaNoSasori +, writes (18 April 2008):
 Well I think the obvious answer here is to go with him to get checked for STDs that way you'll know he's telling you the truth
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2008): Simple: you ask him to get tested for STIs at the doctor's AND show you the results. If he's anything less than happy to do either, you don't have sex with him - ever - you dump him because he's an ass.
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