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Archived questions from: August, 2016 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Is this desperation? How can I break this obsessive cycle ? Any tips?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3037 days ago

31 August 2016 (F) - How can I overcome this desperation? I have been seeing a therapist after the last couple of years of dating (jerks) led me to this - long story short and since this is anonymous I can be honest. On the outside I'm a grown woman - I try to keep ...

Is Texting to guage interest a reliable strategy to determine how interested a guy is?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

31 August 2016 (F) - From my experience, I know that texting all the time in the beginning doesn't necessarily lead to long lasting, loving relationship. I have always been able to figure out a guys interest through their texting habits and has saved me time figuring...

I pass up most guy I meet, am I crazy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3038 days ago

31 August 2016 (F) - I date a lot and most men dont stand out to me. Am I crazy? They are all good people though, not bad at all and I feel bad about this but its like new faces but almost generic one after another. Even on personality, I can say that some even see...

Why do I keep attracting married men instead of available single men?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

30 August 2016 (F) - Dear cupid I have been single for some years now but the only men that seem to be attracted to me is married men. Why is this happening to me? Do I have some type of vibe that they figure I date married men? I just don't understand this.I been a...

He's shy and in a class above me. I think he likes me, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3041 days ago

30 August 2016 (F) - Hi, I am a freshman in highschool and there is a guy in the class above me who I really like. When he was a freshman and I was in middle school, we were together for a month but broke up because of school and time with sports. This year is diff...

Boyfriend has an adultfriendfinder account?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3038 days ago

29 August 2016 (F) - A while ago I caught my long term boyfriend on a transgender dating website, messaging and making plans to meet up with transgender women and men. He was also responding to Craigslist ads and sending them pictures of his private parts. His profile ...

Am I wrong for being mad at my friends, and not wanting to talk to them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3038 days ago

29 August 2016 (F) - Quick advice aunts Do I have the right to be upset with my best friend? It was my birthday and we agreed to go to dinner and after drinks or a lounge. All my friends have boyfriends ( who they been with for 1-2 years) and I'm the only single ...

We met online. Am I being irrational about his actions? Should I be hurt ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3039 days ago

29 August 2016 (F) - I met a man a few weeks ago on a dating site app. He definitely came on strong and we texted quite a lot til I agreed to meet. I am very attracted to hm and likewise. He has some issues, recent divorce, job changes, relocation but seems very hea...

Are my fears reasonable? I don't want to sabotage the relationship, nor invest emotion and time if he doesn't want what I want.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3042 days ago

29 August 2016 (F) - I met a guy online, we text back and forth everyday, though sometimes it takes hours for him to text back, most of the time he apologizes other times he answers as though nothing happened. We have video chatted quite a few times and each session ...

What can I do? I dream about my fiance's s cousin over and over again

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3042 days ago

28 August 2016 (M) - Little bit of a backround, I met my lady 2014 we fell in love she moved in with me very quickly and within a year we were pregnant we have had the baby now live in a 2 bed with my son who is my world and is now 10 months old. I like to think we are ...

My boyfriend was supposed to accompany me to the health centre, but we had an argument beforehand and I had to go alone. Was he being selfish?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3042 days ago

28 August 2016 (F) - Do you think this was selfish?. My boyfriend and I have been having problems for a while. Lately, his phone has been switched off more, or I have called his phone, and he hasn't answered. He agreed to meet me at my home on Friday to go to a health ...

What is a normal LDR communication? There are age differences and we live on different continents

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3042 days ago

28 August 2016 (F) - We've known each other for over a month. Been together for 4 weeks. He went home 6 days ago. Since this is a honeymoon phase, I am a bit worried because I am the only one starting conversations/texting. If I ask him something he'll answer. If I sen...

Is my fiancee is ruining my chances of having a family?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3043 days ago

28 August 2016 (F) - I have been in a long distance relationship for three years and engaged for one year. We live an hour and a half drive away so I commute to see him every weekend. My problem is I am tired of waiting for him to set a wedding date. I am going to be...

How can I get some truth from him? I just don't want to be the wife who got cheated on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3043 days ago

28 August 2016 (F) - Our son asked me and my hubby what we were doing tomorrow, i said we didn't know yet and see how the Weather is, our son said about a place that his girlfriend as been too and he mentioned this a while back too about her going there. Hubby said he ...

I want to feel loved and wanted. what hope is there when he's so critical and gives me the "silent treatment"?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3042 days ago

27 August 2016 (F) - My partner of 4 years has started not talking to me for days on end if we argue no matter how petty it is. He tells me daily he doesn't trust me, if anyone smiles or is nice to me he says it's because I have looked at them and this is disrespe...

Would this be a good way to lose my virginity? How would I ask?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3043 days ago

27 August 2016 (F) - Is this a good way to lose my viginity? My friends gave me advice for this: have him go down on me until i orgasm, and then we have sex and he gets off and I possibly get off more. I love the idea, but I've never had a guy go down on me either. ...

Never had a date. Should I pay someone to go on a date with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3036 days ago

27 August 2016 (M) - I've never been on a date before, and I've never had a girlfriend. Of course that means I've never been intimate (never had first kiss or sex). I'm very awkward and I'm not very attractive aesthetically. So far no woman has been interested in go...

What compels him to still be asking about me considering we broke up so long ago?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3042 days ago

27 August 2016 (F) - I'm just wondering what compels an ex-boyfriend to ask an immediate family member "how you are" almost 16 years after you broke up? I am led to believe that said ex asked specifically about me, and his current partner was present when he asked. ...

Have my actions cost me my lovelife? How can I start to repair our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3042 days ago

27 August 2016 (F) - My ex and I have been apart for over a month. I've tried the non contact rule and now that the 30 days has passed I've been contacting him about twice a week. (He answers when I call if he's unable he will call back.) Well he talks to me nice but ...

Should I be trusting my Girlfriend? Any guidance on what to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3040 days ago

26 August 2016 (F) - I'm coming up to my third anniversary with my girlfriend but recently I feel uncertain as to whether I truly trust her and I don't particularly know how to approach the subject. I hadn't really questioned my trust in her until a recent excha...

Why are certain men likely to act the way he is being towards me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3042 days ago

26 August 2016 (F) - I decided to cancel a 2nd date with a guy because i dont think hes worth giving a 2nd date . The reasons being he lies and he lies a lot , He told me he was 'fishing' this weekend so couldnt do the 2nd date this isnt the first lie hes told me hes t...

Is it likely that my GF thinks of nothing when she masturbates? Is she telling lies? I'd like to spice things up.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3043 days ago

26 August 2016 (M) - I've been trying to spice things up and find out what turns my gf on but she told me she doesn't think of anything while she masturbates. Is she lieing? ...

Is it still my fault that she ghosted me for being a nice guy?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3044 days ago

26 August 2016 (M) - So some time ago, around eight months ago, i was ghosted by a woman i treated with kindest, but a lot of you put me down saying i deserved what i got, so i found out some things about her i didn't know about. One thing she told me she has only bee...

My boss says he's in love with me? Should I be with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3045 days ago

26 August 2016 (F) - Okay so here's the deal.. I have been working at my job for a few months now. When i went to the interview, i pretty much felt like I had it in the bag during all the interviews. Then the last person was a man and he was terribly gorgeous. I fe...

Do other guys feel this resentment ? It's making me question my sexuality

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3044 days ago

26 August 2016 (M) - I have this issue with my sexual identity and was wondering if other gay men possibly feel the same way. Cutting to the point, I feel jealous towards gay men or bisexual men who have or has had sexual relationships with women I can't exactly desc...

Should I have to put up with this man staying at my home?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3041 days ago

25 August 2016 (F) - Could you stay with your partner if he invited his brother to stay at our home after finding out the brother had an affair with my daughter in law (my son's wife) in our home?...

Is it worth the risk of rejection to ask him out?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3042 days ago

25 August 2016 (F) - There is a cute guy at work. His shift starts as mine ends, but we usually end up talking for 5-15 minutes anyway. He could just be friendly, but Im interested in more. Should I ask him out? Reason I hesitate is that he is younger than me by 10 ye...

Can this disagreement with her be resolved? She has a perfect life. What's her problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3045 days ago

25 August 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid I got in a big fight with my friend who just got engaged. She was mad over something small and I say engaged people have no reason to be unhappy about anything. Engaged people should be in a state of heavenly bliss. I'm still waiting ...

Should I ask this guy out ? He doesn't even know me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3045 days ago

25 August 2016 (F) - There is this guy that I've liked for two years now. The problem is, he doesn't know my name at all. I am a third year medical student while he is a doctor training to be a surgeon. I see him all the time; I pass by him in the hospital corridor...

My family doesn't trust my girlfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3047 days ago

23 August 2016 (M) - Hi. I am in a bit of a tough situation. I love my girlfriend very much and she really is amazing. She supports me, makes me laugh and is generally brilliant. The problem I have is my parents don't like her. They have trust issues with her (I don't...

My lover is sad about leaving. It's due to a job change. How can I give him support?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3047 days ago

22 August 2016 (F) - My lover's leaving to a diff state for a new job. We will still be friends but when we said bye he said he doesnt want me to miss him ..then he said he will miss me a lot and that weve gotten so close but hes leaving. We held each other for long...

Is he moving things along too fast? Is it normal to try to turn a hook-up into a relationship in this way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3048 days ago

22 August 2016 (F) - I hooked up with this guy one night (no intercourse) and figured I'd never see him again. Through mutual friends, he got ahold of my number and asked me out. I said sure. In the past week, we have seen each other 3 times, although he's ask...

I know my ex has a new Gf, so why is he bothering to text me when he's drunk?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3047 days ago

22 August 2016 (F) - why do ex boyfriends send text when drunk? my ex continues to give me false hope with random contact, I know he has a new gf so why the drunk texts?? ...

Do I lie to avoid hurting his feelings? I did have a crush on him, but I've fallen for another

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3047 days ago

22 August 2016 (F) - i have had a crush on someone for over a year now and i know he likes me to but just as he asks me out i realize i have fallen for someone else i told him to give me time to think about it but i dont want to hurt his feelings by telling him i do...

How do I stop going into a panic while waiting for medical test results?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3048 days ago

22 August 2016 (F) - Need help! I am terrified of tests and physicals. It took all I had to go in recently to my doctor because of prolonged menstrual bleeding. My doctor ordered ultrasounds and other tests. I went through them but panicked and cried the whole time...

I know I worry a lot. Scared of getting hurt again. How do I stop myself over-thinking things through?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3045 days ago

22 August 2016 (F) - I've been talking to a new guy for quite a while now and it has been going well.. we have both admitted we like each other quite a bit and have spent some good time together. I never thought I'd get over my ex who I broke up with over 4 months ag...

How can I ignore her attention seeking toxic responses and move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3047 days ago

22 August 2016 (F) - I am in love with my straight best friend I have been in love with her since i met her...but by then, we were young. She partially reciprocated my love, because i have told her i love her. She however is afraid of really coming out...s...

Can people rise out of a depressing life to achieve good things? Or am I destined to achieve nothing?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3035 days ago

21 August 2016 (F) - I'm going nowhere in life. I contrast the way things are now with the dreams I had as a young girl and I feel like a pathetic drip. I thought I was going to do amazing things in the world and leave a legacy but all I've done is fail at life and...

I feel awkward about my crush. She's 16 and she's the niece of my mother's boyfriend. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3050 days ago

21 August 2016 (M) - Hi hopefully someone can offer me advice on an issue that is playing on my mind, I'm a 27 years old and male. So down to the problem, I am starting to become infatuated with my mum's boyfriend's niece. I never really noticed her before but she ...

Was my Bf being insensitive for not texting me all day? Or am I expecting too much ?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3048 days ago

21 August 2016 (F) - I need some objective advice. I am too close to the situation and too emotional I think. My boyfriend and I have been together for more than 3 years. Yesterday, he had family over for the day and did not contact me at all. I texted him at th...

Is she playing me? Should I send her my love letter to her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3048 days ago

21 August 2016 (M) - Hi everybody I am a senior in high school and on the third day of school I walked into class and this girl said hi to me and didn't know me and I said hi back. When I walked to the other side of the classroom she asked me to come and sit by her and ...

When I was much younger I wrote love letters to a teacher. Yes, inappropriate, at the time. Why didn't the teacher report me at that time?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3049 days ago

21 August 2016 (F) - I use to write love letters to my teacher, I did not know the boundaries of teacher students I obviously knew you can't have a relationship with a teacher but I had no idea you could get into trouble for writing love letters. Until a different ...

Should I reach out to guy S? If yes what do I say? Or wait to see if N is still interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3050 days ago

21 August 2016 (M) - Okay. I’m going to start off by saying that there is probably a shorter way to explain my situation, but I can be sort of long winded. So I’m a gay man and I just finished college back in December. Five years ago, during my freshmen year of...

He treats me with disinterest. How can I get the courage to tell him to ''get lost'' ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3050 days ago

21 August 2016 (F) - So this is a bit complicated and I will try to keep it short. I used to have a thing for a guy when I was 16. I asked him out when I was 19 but he said no since he was in a relationship(which I was unaware of). Then I decided to move on and ...

Is it reasonable that I'm very concerned that my husband prefers to spend his time with single people and not with me and my children?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3048 days ago

21 August 2016 (F) - My husband is not the man I met four years ago. I think he started hanging out with single people and he do things single people do. I'm not going to bore you with every bad thing in our marriage. My biggies concern is why do he always find tim...

I've tried medication and therapy and yet still I feel alone and miserable. How can I overcome these feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3051 days ago

20 August 2016 (F) - I used to be a go-er. A girl on the move I used to go out and party or be around fake friends 4 out of 7 days a week. I used to be a people pleaser and chase men relentlessly to fill the loneliness. I most recently I got so tired of getting ...

Is this marriage worth saving? 11 years together, married eight years

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3048 days ago

20 August 2016 (F) - When I met my husband I fell madly in love with him, I was still a Virgin he was my first love. Life was good.....two years later I realized my husband LOVES attention from females, we fought and fought about it so he called me names..... I'm j...

Is he just using me to forget the girl he used to date? Should I keep seeing him or breakup too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3048 days ago

20 August 2016 (F) - Hi!i've asked for help here many times,and the advices helps a lot,and I want to ask for help again. I've been making out with this guy a few times,his not my boyfriend neither my friend,our relationship can be called more than friends but less tha...

Does this checkout operator have a crush on my BF?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3048 days ago

20 August 2016 (F) - Recently I was standing in the local store with my boyfriend standing behind me,waiting to pay for our purchases separately! However the female assistant blushed when she realised she was going to see me through the checkout. She kept her composu...

Am I stupid for wanting to help him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3042 days ago

20 August 2016 (F) - I have been in this relationship for 4 yrs now. And ive basically hit the wall of frustration to where I don't know what to do anymore. My guy and I used to have the most amazing fairytale relationship. Everything was perfect. Then months pa...