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I pass up most guy I meet, am I crazy?

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Question - (31 August 2016) 2 Answers - (Newest, 2 September 2016)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I date a lot and most men dont stand out to me. Am I crazy?

They are all good people though, not bad at all and I feel bad about this but its like new faces but almost generic one after another. Even on personality, I can say that some even seem to have been people I met (due to personality, same outlook on life, even facial features)but I know they arent.

I worry that I will be alone forever but I dont have crazy standards but I like to select a guy that stands out to me, pretty sure everyone wants someone who is deemed special to them and unique. I hate friendzoning every guy I meet.

And I like nice nerdy guys too, not big into athletic or very masculine mean people, also money dont matter to me and I prefer men who dont make over 100K plus and the generic handsome doesnt do much for me. I like a guy that is unique but it is proving to be unattainable. Im 30 in a few years ....

Also I know I am stupid for being selective but I am generally a very accepting sweet person and my friends come from a walks of life. Im the girl my friends come to if they need to cry or if they just won the lottery and needed to tell someone.

Ive also come to conclusion nothing is wrong with the people I meet, but that something is wrong with me!

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A female reader, NORA B Ireland +, writes (2 September 2016):

You are a very nice person and not at all crazy.Because you are selective and waiting for that Special man..you are being you and that is all any of us can be...true to ourselves.When you meet that Special man you will know immediately and will be worth the wait,and he will be a very lucky man.Enjoy being you.Kind regards NORA B.

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A female reader, malvern United Kingdom +, writes (1 September 2016):

malvern agony auntNo you're not crazy at all, it's just that so far the right man has not come into your life. He'll be out there somewhere and when he appears you will instinctively know that he is somebody you would like to get to know better and you would like to spend some time with.

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