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Do I lie to avoid hurting his feelings? I did have a crush on him, but I've fallen for another

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Question - (22 August 2016) 3 Answers - (Newest, 24 August 2016)
A female United Kingdom age 22-25, *rincess precious writes:

i have had a crush on someone for over a year now and i know he likes me to but just as he asks me out i realize i have fallen for someone else

i told him to give me time to think about it but i dont want to hurt his feelings by telling him i dont love him.

What should i do?

Should i tell him or lie to save me from hurting his feeling

thank you

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A female reader, Andie's Thoughts United Kingdom +, writes (24 August 2016):

Andie's Thoughts agony auntI'm all for trying dating someone, but you already prefer the new crush over the old one, so I don't think it's fair to date your second choice.

Just thank him, but decline.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (22 August 2016):

Honeypie agony auntNo don't lie.

IF you ARE seeing someone else (not just crushing on someone else) then tell him, thanks for the offer to go out, but I am seeing someone else.

If you think you have fallen for someone else... are you doing anything about that? Or not...

If not, then WHY not go out on a date? Or are you hoping that the other dude will ask you out?

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A male reader, Fatherly Advice United States +, writes (22 August 2016):

Fatherly Advice agony auntDear Princess Pre.

Are you actually dating someone else or just crushing?

Because you may be missing a good bet here.

FA

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