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Is he just using me to forget the girl he used to date? Should I keep seeing him or breakup too?

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Question - (20 August 2016) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 August 2016)
A female Philippines age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hi!i've asked for help here many times,and the advices helps a lot,and I want to ask for help again.

I've been making out with this guy a few times,his not my boyfriend neither my friend,our relationship can be called more than friends but less than lovers.

But he once told me he have feelings for me,that I don't give attention.

I cant see him as my boyfriend in the near future,but this afternoon my younger sister told me something about this guy, she also knew this guy,she told me that the guy i'm seeing didn't like to broke up with his ex.

He just broke up with the girl not too long,and I don't know why but I suddenly felt disappointed?

If that's what I feel.I am not sure if i like him..

or

I'm just thinking that he's only using me to forget about her.

I want to ask if I should stay away from him or keep on seeing him?

I'm also confused on what I feel..should I just act like a stranger like we never met before?

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (23 August 2016):

aunt honesty agony auntThe thing is though, you told him you did not have feelings for him, yes maybe he is trying to move on and forget about his ex, or maybe he does truly like you. My advice would be to stop hooking up with him if you do not want to be with him or he may get hurt again.

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A female reader, llifton United States +, writes (22 August 2016):

llifton agony auntI see no reason why you can't keep talking to him. Just try to keep it casual and see how it goes. You don't have to dive head-first into a relationship. Just take it day by day and gauge his feelings for you from there.

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