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Archived questions from: April, 2014 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Help, my dreams are making me paranoid!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3894 days ago

30 April 2014 (F) - Hey, aunts and uncles, Just a quick question, lately I've been dreaming about my boyfriend cheating he's never cheated, but my dreams are making me think he is, I've had some wheres married and my best friend new I have children with him and.he'...

I feel like he just wants to go around and sleep around and then I'm just stuck here waiting for him to be done. How do I move on with my life?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3892 days ago

29 April 2014 (F) - So me and my boyfriend recently broke up. Maybe about 1 week ago. Our relationship has been very difficult, we dated for a little over a year. (14 months) our biggest issue was trust. I have caught him texting other girls throughout the ...

How to tell if she's only dating you for the money?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3893 days ago

29 April 2014 (F) - There are some things worrying me about my girlfriend. At first, things were great and I never really had to spend much. Lately, the more I shell out, the more she expects it and doesn't really say thank you. I take her out all the time, we go ...

My husband's chasing another woman.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

29 April 2014 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 6 years and it's been great but in the past 4 months he has got really close to a female at our workplace, he then asked me to be friends with her which I was ok with because she seemed nice, however I noticed ...

I'm fine with being polygamous but he just likes to cheat!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3893 days ago

29 April 2014 (F) - Hey everyone. I have been with my boyfriend for two and a half years and we got engaged in November. We started off very casually because we don't live in the same city - I happened to be visiting his town on a business trip, I met him, we hooked ...

How can I get my boyfriend to trust living with me again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3894 days ago

29 April 2014 (F) - We've been together for almost a year and a half and lived together for 10mo. We've been having a lot of arguments and most of the time it is him misunderstanding something and having short tempers. His divorce finalized last December and he has one ...

I haven't told my boyfriend I'm pregnant yet, and now I'm back to checking his phone for texts! I need your help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

28 April 2014 (F) - Is it ever possible to truly move on from finding out your other half has cheated on you? The reason I ask is because for the past ten months, since getting back with my boyfriend since finding out he had cheated on with a mutual friend, I have tho...

Am I too pessimistic about relationships?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

28 April 2014 (M) - I went out yesterday with some friends and I was looking around me. I kept seeing all sorts of couples hugging, holding hands, kissing, looking happy, etc. There were really a lot of them and I felt a bit sad and awkward. All this was kinda weird ...

What is the deal with my husband and this strange woman?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3888 days ago

28 April 2014 (F) - I am a newlywed. 6 months married. I am starting to see some really off things about my husband and I want to get some advice or opinions from others. I love my husband, he has some wonderful qualities but I think I may have made a mistake in ...

Retrograde Jealousy: After 4 years of marriage, out of nowhere, I have begun to play out the STI image and what went on in my wife's life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3892 days ago

28 April 2014 (M) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, Please let me share my question with you which I have discovered by reading up on articles, is labelled as ‘retrograde jealousy.’ I am 47, (male) and my wife 52. We have been married for just over 4 years since 2010. We...

Nothing in common but he makes me laugh. How long should I let this continue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3896 days ago

28 April 2014 (F) - Call me shallow but I've just started dating a guy who is stunningly good looking and I'm only into him because of his looks. Him and I have absolutely nothing in common....all I know is he makes me laugh like I've never laughed before and whenever ...

My boyfriend wants me to leave my husband.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3896 days ago

27 April 2014 (F) - First and foremost, please do not judge me. We've all gotten into weird situations and not always made the best choices. I'm currently married, 14 years, living with my husband and 2 children. For the past 4 years or so I've been seeing another man ...

Can my boyfriend change his controlling, possessive ways?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3896 days ago

27 April 2014 (F) - Is it possible for a person to change there controlling ways? Been together with my boyfriend for 4 years and he is everything I could wish for but the last 6 months he's become very controlling. I have started a new job which is very physical...

His focus is not on me anymore. Is this the beginning of the end of our relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3892 days ago

27 April 2014 (F) - I need to start by saying i feel like a stupid teenager for feeling the way i do bout the changes in my relationship. Like i'm being a whiney, clingy, insecure, jealous teeny-bopper. But, this is how I feel, so here goes. We've been together 10 ...

How do I handle this? My long term Bf cannot look me in the eye. He is also sleeping a lot. What could be wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3898 days ago

27 April 2014 (F) - I need some people to talk to please.. Ok now today my boyfriend wouldn't look at me all day. We been together half our life's i know something is wrong. But finding out what it is will be hard. He just keeps saying everything is fine nothing is w...

Sex/Intercourse with a partner versus Head/Fellatio with a partner? Why can't I orgasm from the latter and prefer Intercourse instead?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3895 days ago

27 April 2014 (M) - So is something wrong with me that I can't seem to come from getting head? I've only ever gotten it from my girlfriend (she's my first) and I never come from it, I got close once but generally it doesn't feel as good as sex. Is this normal? I me...

Why is my boyfriend secretly meeting up with my ex friend, when we agreed not to see her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

26 April 2014 (F) - I've got (had) a good friend who made it clear she liked my boyfriend. She instantly liked him but whenever we had an argument she would always side with him and text him make sure he was OK and I wouldn't hear from her for ages! One time she w...

Is it always the guy's fault when things go wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3880 days ago

26 April 2014 (M) - Its going to be a long story so please be patient. In Dec 2010, I met this girl in a party, we clicked instantly and hooked up in the next week itself. 2011 was a breeze, we had an amazing time, took vacations, had sex like crazy. We were a fun co...

Dating just 3 weeks, I'm discovering more and more things about him that don't match what I'm looking for. Am I right to ask?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

25 April 2014 (F) - I've been dating a guy whomImet online for about 3 weeks now and I'm finding that as we're getting to know each other, I'm discovering more and more things about him that don't match what I'm looking for. I'm a fairly private, reserved woman a...

If I break up, I'll hurt! If I stay, I'll lack trust! What do I choose?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3896 days ago

25 April 2014 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for three years. Four months into our relationship I found out that he cheated on me with F. I confronted him, we fought, he begged for forgiveness and I stayed with him. A year later I found out that he cheated me on ...

Is it awful for me to wish my mother was nicer to me? And bad to wish my father would leave her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3899 days ago

25 April 2014 (F) - I live with my mum and dad and two brothers. My mother has never been the loving type toward me. One of my brothers is older than me and my other brother is younger than me and when we were younger they both used to team up against me when we'd get...

Too Good to be true? Yet he can be VERY controlling. To the point that he scares me sometimes. What to do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3899 days ago

25 April 2014 (F) - I would like some level-headed unbiased advice on this please. My boyfriend is so good in so many ways but a few traits let him down and I don't know whether these should be deal breakers. We've been together 2 years. I have two children from a...

Tries to make me jealous. Phones, flirts. Then treats me like I don't exist? What's he up to?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3898 days ago

25 April 2014 (F) - So. Again with that guy that I went to homecoming with. Everything has been like really shaky and I don’t know because he is seriously so confusing. He got a girlfriend, they had dated for 3 months and during those 3 months we did not talk at ...

I want to keep this private. What should I say if classmates ask about my absence, without sounding rude and mean?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3899 days ago

24 April 2014 (F) - Hi I'm 14 and need advice on what to tell people when I go to the therapist. I will go on Monday for the first time. It is weekly and will fall on the same day, time and lesson. The teachers know but I'm unsure about what I'll say to my 'class...

Am I deluding myself? Should I make a move on this aged 40s guy who I think flirts with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3900 days ago

24 April 2014 (F) - Hi, i want to know if this man has a thing for me or i am deluding myself? I know a man professionally and don't see him often but when i do he is always looking at my chest, flirting with and more importantly always going above and beyond when i a...

Have you ever found hard physical evidence of an affair?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3890 days ago

24 April 2014 (F) - My husband had to go to a branch office to concur with people, because the branch office was closing down. It was a day trip. When he got home from work at his normal time he changed into a t-shirt, I noticed 3 long scratches on his left bicep. ...

I imagined having a boyfriend would be a nice experience, but I find myself alone, fighting to be by the side of a person who is thinking about someone else

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3900 days ago

24 April 2014 (F) - Today is my boyfriend's birthday, we've been together for one month and a half (we were friends before becoming a couple). I baked a cake, bought candles, made a card, bought tons of presents, I just want to make him happy. First thing he ...

My husband is having an affair. Am I stupid for staying with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3893 days ago

24 April 2014 (F) - I discovered when I was 8 months pregnant that my husband of 10 years was cheating on me. I confronted him and his lover in a text message and was assured by both that it would not continue. I had several times where I caught him texting her but her ...

I feel like I can't compete with the girl that my B/f kissed and it's torn my self esteem apart!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3874 days ago

24 April 2014 (F) - My boyfriend kissed another girl on a night out a few months ago. We were having problems at the time. I was suspicious and checked his phone and then I text the girl and asked her (very nicely) what happened and if she wouldn't mind not getting in ...

We are both virgins in a LDR together. How should I initiate touching her chest?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3900 days ago

24 April 2014 (M) - I have been in a long distance relationship with an amazing woman for over 2 years. We are both virgins, and I just wondered how I should go about touching her chest? Should I ask her first or just go ahead and try? I really have no idea what I s...

I'm gay, but my family are worried about possible abuse I might get. Any advice? Should I try to ease their concerns?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3899 days ago

24 April 2014 (?) - I quickly want to point out that this is not a complaint about my family, I completely understand what they're saying and why, but just wanted to hear some other views on the matter. I am gay, it's no secret, I've always known and my friends a...

He was almost perfect for me. If I should forget him, then how?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

24 April 2014 (F) - It's been 1 year and I still think about him every day! I met a guy that was almost perfect for me. You know what I mean by "perfect". Like you are the star of a drama/romantic comedy series and he's the guy that all of the show's viewers keep eag...

Does my colleague have bad intentions? He's definitely a bad boy and my engagement nearly ended because of him!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3899 days ago

24 April 2014 (F) - I'm engaged. I became friends with a fellow colleague. He's definitely a bad boy and I've been trying my hardest to stop all connection with him. At first it was harmless I thought and we would just spend short breaks together because we have a lot ...

If it's over, why does he care?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3901 days ago

23 April 2014 (F) - I had recently connected with an old boyfriend via Facebook. When I was 20 and he was 28 we dated on and off for 3 years but he ended up breaking up with me to marry someone else. We went our separate ways, both married other, had kids etc... ...

My retroactive jealousy and negativity is ruining my relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3901 days ago

23 April 2014 (F) - I bring up one of my boyfriends exes a lot as I am very retroactively jealous of the girl. This has caused many arguments between us as I have been quite suspicious and controlling of my partner because of this. It's coming to a head now. My ins...

I hate the fact that I am with someone that carried on an affair with a married man in the past, and I actually know this guy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3782 days ago

23 April 2014 (M) - Recently I found out that my girlfriend has (in the past) dated and slept with a married man. I happen to know him too. We're not close, but we've hung out before. I had no idea they had that type of situation in the past, and even though it is in ...

Should I get rid of this guy because he seems to be hiding something? I'd love to hear your interpretations of his text messages

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3900 days ago

23 April 2014 (F) - I have had the most awful experiences with online dating, and am really skeptical about every man I meet now. I'm not sure if I'm looking for red flags because I'm so afraid of not spotting them. I've been on three dates with this 29-year-old...

Four children, a husband who lost my trust, why am I never in the mood?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3901 days ago

22 April 2014 (?) - Hello Everyone, I have been with my husband for 8 years. I have four kids and my youngest is ours together. She is six now. In the last year my husband has done some shady things to me to lose my trust. Not physicslly cheating but other things. ...

I am barely treading water in this relationship, holding on by a thread!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3903 days ago

21 April 2014 (M) - I just found out the other day that my girlfriend of over a year and a half has lost all her passion for the relationship and has been miserable lately and doesn't know how or if we can fix it. My constant worrying of where she's at or what she's ...

On and off for a few years, will it ever get serious?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3903 days ago

21 April 2014 (F) - I have been on and off with this guy for a few years now. He's a great guy, he obviously has commitment issues. Do you guys ever hear or see an on and off relationship become solid? Or am I seriously wasting my time? Maybe it's the naïve girl in me ...

I think he is cheating and that makes me not want to see him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3903 days ago

21 April 2014 (F) - Hi. I need some honest opinions on this. My boyfriend and I are now in a long distant relationship due to work. Normally we would see each other every other weekend but it so happened that we haven't seen each other for almost two weeks this time. ...

He doesn't know I have access to his emails ....

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3903 days ago

21 April 2014 (F) - Dear All, I have had a volatile 2 year relationship with my bf for around 3 years. In the last few months I have felt stronger and been going out again with friends, standing up to him and generally getting over it. He has responded by bei...

I may have already sealed my fate .....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3904 days ago

21 April 2014 (M) - I'm really looking for some guidance and advice, and I hope there is someone here who can give me some, even just a little. I may have already sealed my fate in this scenario but I am not one to give up, especially when its something that I...

I can't stop thinking about it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3902 days ago

20 April 2014 (F) - I'm worried about this. My boyfriend and I have had some problems lately. We sorted things out recently, but this is worrying me. I looked on his facebook page today ( he asked me to log in to it, as he wanted to check it on my phone ). I saw some ...

I don't believe him when he says he won't seek sex elsewhere when I'm recovering from childbirth!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3904 days ago

20 April 2014 (F) - hi all i am seven months pregnant with my first baby. she wasn't planned but my boyfriend and i were over overjoyed. my boyfriend and i have been together for 5 years and are deeply in love. we've always had a great sex life and since i've be...

Is it appropriate if my boyfriend of a year visits a female friend who is currently studying overseas alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3903 days ago

20 April 2014 (F) - Is it appropriate if my boyfriend of a year visits a female friend who is currently studying overseas alone? Frankly, I do not feel comfortable with this arrangement at all, even if they are good friends. He did not tell me where his accomodations ...

Genuinely interested or wasting my time? What does it take for a guy to approach a gal, where he is genuinely interested?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3902 days ago

18 April 2014 (?) - I've been single for nearly 5 years and am ready for a committed relationship. I feel that I have been single this long due to choice but know that I know I am ready I beginning to think I am doing something wrong. I have this tendency to crush over ...

Fighting, trust issues -- I don't know what to do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3905 days ago

18 April 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been having a ton of problems lately this will be somewhat long and I apologize. To start with in February we had been fighting A LOT! It was every day we was fighting about something and then he started talking to another ...

Recently single and want to take it slow

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3902 days ago

17 April 2014 (M) - Dear Aunts, I recently ended a very serious long-term relationship with my girlfriend of many years. This was a woman I felt I might marry and the breakup was difficult for me. It made me question a lot about my judgement and indeed whether p...

I don't want to appear insecure

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3905 days ago

17 April 2014 (F) - My bf and I were talking today about tv shows, and I had mentioned about a girl in the show who was very pretty. And he had said that she wasnt pretty, and she has a flat butt. Which I thought was strange, because I have a flat butt. So why woul...