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Archived questions from: March, 2012 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

I need to get past this shock!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - I've been in a serious relationship for 16 months now and everything has been perfect. We never argue, enjoy each others company. Have lived together since August and continually talk about our future together. This morning however, he popped out to ...

He thinks its okay to toy with my emotions!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - Why the need to hurt me? My ex and i broke up a few months back, it wasnt a good relationship, he had been hurtful and abusive to me, we also had kids which is why i choose to end it. He has continued to try and get back with me even though he still ...

I now regret taking him back after his fourth cheating episode!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - my partner of two years has technically cheated on me and i have taken him back for the fourth time and now i am regretting it what should i do?...

We've been together four years and I've always hoped he would change!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - Hi, I've been with my bf for about 4 yrs. We've had our share of issues. I always hoped somehow he would change, but I don't believe he will. Sometimes its incredible he's sooo complimentive, charming, he will cook for me treat me great and o...

I just don't want to hurt anymore!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - Ok well I was.with my boyfriend for two years the first year was wonderful. Then he cheated on me hurt me bad but I loved him so much that I gave him anither chance then he started accusing me of cheating the whole time ive been fathful.he dosent ...

I really like him and I want him to like me too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - This guy i like and I are both fourteen my mom doesn't want me to date him and doesn't like him. She doesn't know him as well as I do. He sits at my table at lunch and his name is Kai. He is super nice, and mentions some other girls a lot. We ...

Was I wrong to discredit all the good we had in our relationship? Did I take it all for granted and basically throw a good thing away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - Just wanting to know people's opinions.... I asked a question about this before, but there is new information now... My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year. From the beginning, he has been very loving towards me, tel...

Is this girl pregnant with my boyfriend's baby? I cant even ask him because he's locked up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4614 days ago

31 March 2012 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a long time he's bad but I really love him and he loves me very much,I'm only16 and I need help?...I found out that he was texting other girls...one of their names was Gina,now this was about five months ...

Over the past few months our sex life has declined, and he is spending more time taking care of himself.....what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4623 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly two years. I realize that over time, sex can dwindle a bit as relationships progresses, but I'm trying to keep the flame alive. He seems, overall, less enthusiastic. I find myself initiating sex most of ...

I feel trapped in a faux relationship! She broke up with me but still expects me to fund her!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

30 March 2012 (M) - Hello people I wonder if you can help me I am in a big big dilemna in my life at the moment, 8 months ago while I was travelling around in north america, I hooked up with my 'girlfriend' who i stayed with for 3 1/2 months to cut a long story ...

What are the boundaries of cheating?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

30 March 2012 (F) - Ok so I feel like I should know this already but I don't. What are the true boundaries of cheating on ur bf/gf ??? Cause one of my friends thinks it's when u have sex with someone else, another thinks it's when u make out with someone else, so ...

I want to spend my life with her, Please help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - where to begin.... i guess im really just looking for advice or even just to get things off my chest with an outside perspective. I guess i should tell you a bit about my situation. I met the woman of my dreams five years ago. we met on myspace.....

Should I go on holiday without him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4623 days ago

29 March 2012 (F) - hi i have a bit of a problem. i have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and we are both 26 the thing is we planned to go abroad this summer for a week. But i would also like to go abroad with my girlfriend later on this year for 1 week. He thinks...

Is it ok to flirt with someone so young whilst doing business? Or am I just jealous?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - I was on my partners computer tonight sending email for him on his instructions as he is away when a message came up saying Sally was wanting to talk. I clicked on link and I saw there were messages dating back a few weeks. I was surprised by what I ...

I have serious insecurity problems and they are going to ruin our relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - Hello Can anyone help with my issue? I have serious insecurity problems! I have been with my bf for 6 months, when I first met him he was a bit of a jack the lad, out all the time, had girl "mates" calling him all the time, would reply to his girl...

She's the one who is getting him to cheat on me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - the guy that i've had a crush on finally asked me out, we've been dating for almost a week. and i think he's cheating on me. he's been texting my friend ******** and she's always getting him horny. at first, she said she was happy for us both ...

Is something going on between my B/f and his second cousin? What did those text messages mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

28 March 2012 (F) - I’d like some input. I, begrudgingly, checked my boyfriend’s phone back in October because I had the strange feeling I couldn’t trust him. I found some text messages he had sent to his second cousin, but they were so obscure that I couldn’t tell for ...

I think he behaved so badly as a defence mechanism...is he worth it anymore? Should I try to keep working on this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - Am I trying too hard? Okay, I have major trust issues--so much to the point I never liked anyone who showed me too much affection, I saw it as clingy. Even though I'm very emotionally needy. Heard of abandoholism? Anyways, I finally decided to let ...

He is looking for his ex and pictures of other girls online....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - I need some advice. My boyfriend and I have been together since may 2010. We have had a very happy relationship, no one has ever come between us, we have never argued or had a "break". We have been totally content and in love since day 1. But ...

Is it really over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - Hi everyone. I really need help with this as I don't know what to think or do myself :( My boyfriend and I split up last night after two and a half years together. I am so upset because it is like he has suddenly become a different person...

I am in a LDR- how do I stop feeling jealous?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

27 March 2012 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years and we have been in a long distance relationship for exactly a month now. The first two weeks going really good, he would even stay friday nights in his home to Skype with me! I thought ''wow, this ...

How do I get my boyfriend to start showing other people we are together so they know not to mess with our relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

26 March 2012 (F) - Hello guys I need a mature advice of dealing with this situation. I am in a LDR. There seem to be a trust issue that I have gotten over after I did all my homework and realize that my man is not physically cheating. Hey I have friends too in my area ...

I trust my boyfriend with my heart, but I can't trust his "friend" whatsoever. Should I be worried that something will happen between them?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4610 days ago

26 March 2012 (F) - Here's my situation: I've been officially dating this guy for a little less than a month, though we've been together for about a month and a half... When we first met we instantly clicked! I couldn't take my eyes off of him, and from what everyone...

I'm dating a girl who sleeps in the same bed as her male friend and doesn't see anything wrong with it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

25 March 2012 (M) - This is a bit long winded but I just want to give you as much info as possible so bear with me. I started seeing a girl (shes 24, I'm 28) and we had been on like 3 or 4 dates. I was also seeing her most nights after work as we live very close. W...

Will he cheat with her again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

25 March 2012 (F) - Here I go: I meet him at work(we worked in different dep) We started talking and doing activities together. Sex came in the picture, everything was fine, we started going for lunch at work, seeing eachother after work for movies, drives out of t...

Nervous, or leading me on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4628 days ago

25 March 2012 (M) - i met this girl who said she is looking for a relationship. but she does not want to get hurt again, she sent me questions would i kiss her if i had the chance. she said she enjoys hanging out with me is she leading me on?...

All the signs say he loves me but still I am scared he doesn't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

25 March 2012 (F) - Hello there, I've been with my boyfriend for a year almost (like in two weeks we've been together a full 12 months) and I am smitten with him. When things are good they are 'perfect', he adores me, buys me everything, spends time with me, loves me...

I just used her for sex so how do I end it and still look good?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

25 March 2012 (M) - I started screwing, nothing serious, around with this chick from my job when I'm home from college. She was a rebound girl from my last relationship and i wasn't being to pick when i choose her. I'm not saying I'm a great catch but I'm way out of ...

He will kiss me on a Monday through to Friday but never on a weekend when its my day of rest!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

25 March 2012 (F) - i love my boyfriend very much, but i dont understand something he does. we hang out every day, and everything goes well, but on my days off (weekends) he goes and does other things, for instance tonight he is at his inlaws. i did work today for the ...

My sex buddy and me kissed other people and then had sex with each other.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - I have a sex buddy , were a little bit more cause he holds me threw the night when I have to leave he pulls me by the waist in bed just to fall asleep next to him, we hold hands and watch movies we are so close and are always there for each other. ...

I was tired of being his mother!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - I just recently broke it off with my boyfriend of nine months, I was tired of being his mother. I did everything for that kid, and he appreciated none of it. I wasn't happy at all in the relationship. I was belittled and treated wrongly. I paid ...

I can't trust my partner when we are out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - i dont feel i can trust my partner....when we are out an about i see him looking around i have said this too him but he says im imagining it...........

What can I say to make him understand?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - i went to the beach with my friends and we took pictures of the day. I posted them on facebook like i normally do when i have an event that i want to share with friends. My boyfriend is a jealous person, he's trying to fix it but he believe he could ...

I want to change to stop this happening again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4628 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - boy keep using me and its making me so depressed, theres this boy iv been texting a while now and he stated clearly he didnt want a gf but he did like me, we only met up once, as we do live about a hour drive from eachother. i accepted this...

Is he abusing me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years has been verbally and emotionally abusive. I have been devastated but he says it's not abuse. Again today he shut off the cable, the Internet and the phones. All meanwhile he is calling me a slut, dumb bitch, stupid and my 10 ...

He says no but my gut says yes!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - Hello! I'm a female, 40 yrs old. I've been with my husband over 24 years, been married for 15 yrs. There's NEVER been anyone in between, for him or I, I know. However, bout 2 n a half years ago, a problem arose. It was my fault. It has nothing to do ...

I try to be nice but he takes everything the wrong way!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4630 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - Two friends, one guy? I like this guy that my best friend and I hang out with all the time. I am so confused by the way he treats me. I don't know if he likes me or my friend. He's really nice to her He treats my friend like his buddy. He playf...

35 years late he insinuates himself into facebook conversations with emotional references to the past!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4629 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - my first boyfriend went away to college said we should date and sleep with others while he was away said we should start doing this before he left he did not take me to his prom I found out later that he even slept with my best friend he came back ...

I need help breaking up with my clingy boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4630 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 months now. Thing is I feel like I should break up with him because he gets clingy at times and he's already said I love you to me because I had told him that by accident. We were texting and we would ...

I would like her to be more comfortable and less shy around me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4628 days ago

24 March 2012 (M) - I'm talking to a girl that is always quiet and whenever we talk I would talk so much but she would only response with little words like two or three words. So I ask her if I was boring her or anything and she said that I'm not but she just quiet, ...

Is my guy friend jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4629 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, I need help sorting this out. I realized after almost a year of knowing him, that I have a small crush on my guy friend. We share and talk about everything, including moments where he will come over for takeout and eat at my house ...

I wanted to extend an olive branch but was confronted with the truth instead!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - What are the chances of a relationship ever working out for the long term if the person is an alcoholic and after breaking off a long term relationship continues to become seriously involved with one woman after another. My ex left me after 7 ...

We had sex for the first time then he told me about all the other girls he had

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - Hes been with a lot of other girls, and I want to be the last one. We just had sex for the first time, and when he was taking me home he started talking about all the other girls hes had. It made me feel really bad, but i didnt tell him cause I know ...

She's a real sweetie, should I wait until she breaks up with her boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4630 days ago

24 March 2012 (M) - i like this girl i sit with in my class. she's really sweet and she's always hugging me, even messes with my leg under the table, we go the same way home so we do talk a lot . the problem is i think she has a boyfriend. recently they've been walking ...

I've a new boyfriend but still suffering panic attacks!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4620 days ago

24 March 2012 (F) - hello, i dont know whats wrong with me! A good few months ago i had a boyfriend i really liked after he broke up with me i had a small panic attack i'd never had one before but now i have a new one and ive been with him for nearly six months w...

The family hate him, but I am falling in love with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

23 March 2012 (F) - Hello, i am in love with my bestfriend. He is 19 years old like me and we have known each other for 17 years. He lives pretty much two houses away. Our friendship has had its ups and downs. There was a point in time when we didnt talk to each other ...

How do I know if her emotional affair got physical?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4270 days ago

23 March 2012 (M) - I think I am ready for a divorce. It has been 15 months since I found about my wife's affair. She was having an affair with my little cousin brother/best friend. He is married also with one child. We have three children, and have been married ...

Is looseness a sign of cheating?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4628 days ago

23 March 2012 (M) - Okay I'm a young male around 18-21. My girlfriend lately has been very distance and when.we do have sex she feels loser. Is this a sign she is cheating?...

Should I be suspicious of my ex husband and our mutual friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4630 days ago

23 March 2012 (F) - My husband and I separated 3 months ago. He thinks I cheated on him, which I did not. And this is still something we are trying to work through. We have some mutual friends and it has been kind of awkward trying to remain friends with them. And he ...

I don't know if I'm afraid of committment in general or if I'm afraid to commit to my boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4631 days ago

23 March 2012 (F) - I don't know if I'm afraid of committment in general or if I'm afraid to commit to my boyfriend. We've been together for just over two years and although I've had little doubts about our future I always managed to work it out (nothing bad on his ...