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writes: My boyfriend of a year and a half has never really gave me a reason to not trust him. i mean we have had arguments about other girls and things. the main thing that is a problem is he is a dj and does lighting for different clubs so there is always other girls around. i go with him to all these events but thats mostly because i dont want him going by himself or having one of him guy friends to go and create a problem. he always tells me "dont worry your the only one for me, your gonna be my wife and the mother of my children" ect. but because of our previous problems i still worry. i think it also has to do with my own insecurity too. so do i forget the past and trust him or be worried?? Reply to this Question
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (19 January 2011):
 hi
why have you argued about girls? is it just that you are worried because he works in clubs where there will be girls or is there more to it than that?
if it is just your own insecurity you will have to get to the bottom of your exact insecure feelings, you cannot just say 'i'm insecure' its a big problem that you will need to analyse properly before you can solve it.
if his actual behaviour seems trustworthy, get your jealousy sorted out and be happy that he is working, i mean he is not just going to clubs for fun, its work, doesn't mean he is gonna go with other girls just because they're there. jealousy is an awful feeling that hurts the sufferer more than anyone else so get help with it. if you don't and you end up losing him because of it, the jealousy will still remain and you will take it into future relationships too
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