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Archived questions from: December, 2011 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Would texting him at midnight on NYE be a good move? we fell out, but he said to try things again in 2012

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

31 December 2011 (F) - i really like this boy and we've been meeting up, texting and stuff like that. we fell out but we are ok now, he said to try things in 2012.. seeing as its new years eve i was thinking of texting him how i felt at midnight? but i wouldnt know what ...

To text or not to text? And if I do text her, what should I say to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4713 days ago

31 December 2011 (M) - Hello! I am a 16 year old guy and I've been working at a pizza place (Donatos) since I was 14. I got a girl's number when I was working the other day, she wrote it on the back of a receipt that I gave her to sign (and she tipped me xD). She was real...

Who is better for me? who will be better long term?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4705 days ago

31 December 2011 (F) - so i have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years, it has been a rocky relationship from the start, so much cheating, he's cheated on me and i have cheated on him, but he changed and became a better person these last 7 months, but then about a ...

I'm 19 years old, and my parents won't let me do anything!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3294 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Hello. Thanks for having a great community like this. I hope you can help me with my problem. I'm 19, I go to college and still live at home with my parents. My parents are really strict. They treat me like I'm 5 when I'm clearly an adult. They w...

An ex wife, an Autistic son, a crazy ex girlfriend, and another son-that's my B/f's life. Any thoughts on how best to handle this situation?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a wonderful man for nearly 2 years. We were talking about marriage..etc. He has been divorced for over 10 years and has a 10 year old Autistic son from his previous marriage. He is a dedicated father and pays ...

My fiance doesn't want to disown the child that he is said to have fathered with this dubious woman, for fear of hurting the child!! What do I do?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Could anyone who has been through this help. My fiance has a child. It appears that no one in the world believes the child is his. The mother became pregnant within a month of them getting together. It has now surfaced that she was sleeping with ...

How can I stop this suspicion???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

30 December 2011 (M) - Hi all, I was lucky enough to gain some help from you a while back and it was so helpful - I am grateful for that. There’s no short version of this so for those who take the time to read I am really grateful! Having got out of the relationshi...

After 2 years I don't know if I can believe anything that my boyfriend says!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Whwn my boyfriend and I started dating 2 years ago it was wonderful and we got along so well, but as time has passed it seems that he has either deliberately misled me or he's doing it without realising how it could be interpreted as misleading. He ...

Is it normal to suddenly feel insecure in a new relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - I am a 29 year old woman with a not-so-great track record with relationships. I have not been in a normal relationship for several years. I have been dating a wonderful, kind man for almost six months now. I took things very slowly in the beginning, ...

He's my ex. I still love him. Why does he keep me as his FWB? How do I heal myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Hello, I will make this brief. I am a 23 year old female, who just got out of a relationship with a 22 year old male. We'll call him K. He and I had a lot happen between us that was mainly my doing, I was not ready for a relationship since I had ...

Is my boyfriend being thoughtless by refusing to change his facebook status?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Hi, I was having some issues with my bf because of his ex and his friendship and working with her. Anyway he swore to me that although he did really like her, they didn't really have a great relationship, that they didn't have a connection l...

My younger man wont pull his weight!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - OMG!! I really do not know what to do? My situation is cunning, baffaling and powerful. I am a 37 young African American Female who is a college graduate, hard working, intelligent, parent. Who tries to do the best in all situations. My problem is ...

What exactly goes through a women's head when they allow me to keep treating them like trash?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

29 December 2011 (M) - I am in awe at the way women let me treat them and I just don't get it. Ill see a girl I like and treat her like complete garabage but she still chases after me so I continue to do it because it works every time but I've had enough, I just don'...

I'm 20 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend will not tell his parents. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Dear cupid. Im 20 weeks pregnant with a baby girl. my bf of 2 years. still has not told his parents and I dont know what to do. I gave him option to leave if he wanted and he decided to stay but is still making no effort. His parents need to know ...

He cheated with me, now I am paranoid about people finding out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Well i met this guy the other night and the first time we met we connected like he was the one to say this too me and that we couldn't stop looking at each other... The next night him and his girlfriend who is one of my good mates came around to m...

I want to move out. Without him coming too. But how do I tell my BF this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Hi everyone here my problem my boyfriend and i been together for 4 years since we been together he hasn't worked. But i work 40 hours a week. we said from the start we.want to move in together but i'm thinking of moving into a studio alone for a wh...

My friend made a move on me. I pushed him away. How can I still be friends but still be clear that his move on me was not ok?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 December 2011 (M) - My best friend made a move on me a while back and i sort of freaked out at the time and pushed him away. I regret my actions at the time but he did sort of scare me. We have been friends for years but since that incident he avoids me. I still want ...

Should I tell My Mother that my Uncle withheld money he owes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 December 2011 (M) - Last year i did not do so well saving for Christmas. Everybody got something from me but it was not much. I decided to make the effort to save for this year and my Uncle offer to help. I gave him £2 every week for the whole year but when i asked for ...

He prefers to spend NYE with his mates rather than with me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - My question is quite a short one, and I’d love to hear lots of opinions on this – since I have been with my bf I have always felt that he likes to be with his friends and not me NYE. We tend to spend Xmas together and although last year we were ...

The Other Woman .. are they JUST friends.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship. My boyfriend and I met through a chat forum online and hit it off. We now spend most of our day (even with the time zone problem) talking with each other in one for or another. but I have a problem. Jealous...

When I flirted with him he didn't flirt back, does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - - We kissed once. He was my first kiss. - Even when he was in another country, we chatted a lot. He always initiated them first. - When we were at a party, he'd follow me around (not creepily). - He was touchy around me and whenever we talked, ...

He didn't tell his ex he is TAKEN so she keeps texting him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months now and we have a great bond. I trust him fully and trully. He is very honest with me and tells me everything about him and his only ex. They have been together for 2 years and so. He thinks that ...

My new boyfriend is really sweet and caring but I am in love with his best friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - I've just begun dating a new guy. I'm 17 (18 in 1.5 months) and he's 22. I haven't known him that long, we've only been together for 3 months. He's a really sweet and caring guy and he makes me really happy. The only problem is that I think he is in ...

I want to know how to get my wife to change her mind

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 December 2011 (M) - My wife used to hesitantly perform fellatio. A few years ago she quit. There is no discussion. Just to bring it up pisses her off. I feel like I am worthless because she will not do this for me. I am not a kid, I am over fifty. How do I cha...

He ends his messages with "love (his name)"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - When a man you dont know that well writes "love" and then his name at the end of a message, does that mean he is interested ?.We met last week and he bought me drinks and danced with me and he also said in the message that he would like to go out ...

He hasn't texted me at all today! Is he losing interest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - So this will be super long, but I don't really have anyone to vent to. Here goes: I've started talking to this guy, (we'll call him Steve) who is a co-worker of mine and a friend of my good friend John. My friend John says Steve has confidence i...

Should I leave my boyfriend? If yes, then how?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4715 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - Hi Agony Aunt's, I need an advice about my relationship... its a little long but please every one i need help... :( currently i do not know what am i suppose to do at the moment... I am with my boyfriend it's being 2 years now, at starting it was ...

He wants to stop chasing women. So he dropped me. What can I do to encourage him to not just walk away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - Hi, I have been really foolish and now I'm stuck in a love relationship with someone who doesn't want to be with me. I'm 31 and female and met this amazing guy last year in a bar with friends, he's 3 years younger then me, funny, intellig...

I don't know how to get the trust back into our marriage!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - I don't know how to get the trust back in my marriage! Not long after we made a committment to each other he rec'd an email from a woman he didn't know, who started flirting with him and making sexual offers; one thing led to another and he told her ...

Do I live him or give him a second chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - i need advice...i am with this guy that i am head over heels in love with but something in my gut keeps telling me not to trust him and i can't....well i would be lying if i said i can't but i can pin point what makes me nervous and makes me not ...

How do I let go of him and move on with my life? or should I stay and fight for him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

27 December 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, So here it goes...a year and 1/2 ago, I met my soul mate...online. I know this sounds very cliche for this era, but it happened. What seemed to be attraction and coincidence, I soon found to be a connection deeper than I had felt bef...

How do I make this work? He claims to hate women!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

27 December 2011 (F) - Hi, i'm 22 and currently dating a guy who is about to turn 29. I have know him for two years and he has been trying to get me to go out with him, but i had a boyfriend and when i became single, questioned going out with him because he seemed too ...

How Dear Cupid has allowed me to be myself and express myself. How strangers saved me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4696 days ago

27 December 2011 (?) - Dear Cupid is one of the only places I can express myself; liberated from self-consciousness by the mask of anonymity, I can write from the heart. There was a time when writing was the love of my life; my understanding of the English language and ...

Was the whole explosion of feelings just a mind game?...what should I do? Continue to be in his life, just stop, or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4717 days ago

27 December 2011 (F) - So this guy I have had a "crush" on for three years told me on christmas that he cares about me and wants me. But he has a girlfriend who is manipulative (they have had a break in the summer because she cheated). And I told him that I have cared a...

I'm really confused. Do I stay with my BF or go to this other guy? And how will it affects the kids?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - Need advice please. I have been with the father of my kids for six years now. We have had our up and downs. We have even split up a few times and got back together within days. About 1 1/2 years ago I started my job unknowing at the time that this...

How do I completely cut my ex out of my life? He keeps writing to me as if there is nothing wrong. He's put me off Online dating forever

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - I "dated" this guy for a year before we broke up. We met online and during that year I never fully trusted him. I always felt like something was wrong or off in some way, that he wasn't telling me everything. I mean, I never met his friends, I don't ...

How do I make this older guy stop following me around? He doesn't know me, but I know who he is. He creeps me out.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - Hi erm well theres this guys who older like in his the 30's or late 20's not really sure how old he is but really hes been following me around when ever he see's me and just stares like seriously its kinda staring to creep me out i don't ...

His Mom tells lies about me. We have a baby girl. Should I wait until he wants to come back to me? Or contact him first?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4718 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - Just had a huge fight with my boyfriend, his mom and sister. He was drunk and was arguing with my mom and me....he was saying all kinds of things to us and well my mom was screaming things back so it turned out to be a huge fight! We ended up ...

My Bf thought I was a virgin, because I lied. But someone sent a pix to him disproving that. How do I fix this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - Please don't judge me, I know what I did was wrong. But when I meet my current boyfriend I couldn't believe having found such a lovely guy. Having been used by guys in the past, my previous relationship were just sex. No love at all. But this guy ...

He teases me and can be sarcastic. But could he like me romantically?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4715 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - We've been working together (I know, work is not the best place to get a crush, but I can't help it!) for about a month now, and in that time we've created a pretty friendly relationship. We're very jokey and sarcastic with each other and we tease ...

He's a really sweet guy. But now it's been 2 days of silence? Should I phone him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4718 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - Hi, I met a very sweet guy online who I really got on well with. Due to him working abroad we spoke almost everyday for around 2 months before we met. We had our first date just before Christmas and I thought it went really well, we have lots in Comm...

I haven't heard from him for 2 days!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

How do I explain my love for my new Bf to my family? I am afraid they will not accept him due to his military background

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - Hi Everyone, Things in my life were difficult for a few years. Over the last year, life took a turn for the better and I'm so much happier now. I have got a better job, moved into a home of my own with my kids and built up a circle of friend...

I was told to get a grip and that my issues were causing me to be ultra-critical...The problem is that I keep doing it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

26 December 2011 (M) - I have been dating a woman for about two months now and dont seem to be able to stop myself destroying something that could be great. I was previously in a long term relationship which was ended by my partner kissing another man. This devastat...

What hope is there that this could become more? His friends tell me he doesn't want a relationship now. But I really like him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - One year ago I danced with a guy on a beach party in LA but nothing much else happened. We talked for a few weeks and then things just fizzled out. I have seen him a few times since then with mutual friends, and then at a party one month ago we kiss...

What lessons can I learn from this? My Boyfriend left without any warning after almost 1.5 years

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - I’ve read a lot of wisdom on this site so I thought I’d seek some guidance and advice from you wonderful people. My BF of 1.5 years left me without any warning a month ago. I came home and all of his stuff was gone and only a note left saying...

Should I tell my mother that I have a boyfriend? I'm not sure she can handle the truth without flipping out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

26 December 2011 (M) - I am bi sexual and I have a boyfriend. My parents dont know. I don't know if I should tell my parents, because my mother flipped out when my sister told hert she was bi-sexual i dont know what to do....

Everyone is telling me to walk away. Should I wait as he asked, until his health improves?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4719 days ago

25 December 2011 (F) - I am going through a hard time at the moment with my feelings towards someone special and I don't know what to do for the best. I'm so wrapped up in the situation I can't seem to make sense of it all. To start from the beginning, I have only bee...

Help me save my relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

25 December 2011 (M) - Please help me! Me and my gf have been 2geva 4 nearly 5 years, we have a briliant relationship, wel that is wen she ay got her cell phone in her hand, she wont tell me what she doing and who she texts, she has a password on it to. She says she not ...

Was my disappointed reaction to be expected? He visited a lap dance place after his work Christmas party

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

25 December 2011 (F) - Hi everyone and merry christmas. so i wanted to ask some advice and opinions off of you. so i met this guy online 3 months ago and we have totally hit it off and we have chatted loads and got on really well and plan to meet up in a couple of w...