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Archived questions from: 18 December, 2011 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

How can I stop my Bfs Mom making life difficult?. He feels she sees me as competition, but not in a sexual way.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

18 December 2011 (F) - Hello everyone! I've wrote about this situation before, but this has taken another twist, which is awfully strange. After a very stressful week with his mother, my boyfriend has admitted that he sees his mom is "jealous" of me and "feels as if she ...

I need answers please! We're friends after his rebound. How to win him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

18 December 2011 (F) - My ex of 5 months broke up in August. He rebounded and contacted me immediately after. We hadn't talked during that time. We went to a movie and we acted the same as before. We hung out a few times since then but not as often as when we were ...

How do I get the Spring back in my step? Feel positive? Could I be depressed? What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4759 days ago

18 December 2011 (F) - Hi, I have some life problems that I need sorting out. I think I have low self esteem as I am constantly comparing myself to others. I'm 31 female, attractive and have a degree. But I am a complete failure in life. Everyone of my relationships ha...

How do I learn to connect with people and turn it into a friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

18 December 2011 (M) - Something I've really been trying to get my head around. I have probably not had the courage and the confidence to put myself out there socially, and this is something that is really starting to do my head in and something that I am desperate to get ...

How to improve intimacy between us? Help! there is no sex in our relationship...or very little

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4756 days ago

18 December 2011 (F) - Hello! I am in a quandry at the moment about my sexual relationship. I have been together with my partner for almost 2 years - we started off on a long distance relationship, I then fell pregnant to him and we now have a gorgeous 7 month old baby...

My ex an I broke up but she still flirts with me and I think she is confused. How else do I keep rebuilding a connection? I love her.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4757 days ago

18 December 2011 (M) - my girlfriend and I broke up almost 2 months ago, and we still live together. A week ago before bed she asked me for a hug so I gave her a hug and she ended up holding me for a long time and cried a little saying she was confused and wasnt sure what ...

How do I break away from my abusive ex and stay away from him? He confuses me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

18 December 2011 (F) - i have been with this man for five years, this is our second break up. what led to our break up was he started doing more drinking and smoking weed. he has never done this before. it seems like when we got back together for the second time is when...

Why do my parents never want me to leave home? How to become more independant and not alienate them?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

18 December 2011 (F) - My family thinks we have to be married just to leave home. I don't know why, as we aren't remotely religious and not an ethnic minority. NONE of my extended family is like this at all. So why are my parents? Even the movie Failure to Launch m...

I like women and want to connect with a girl. So why am I only a shoulder to cry on? And not taken seriously as a love interest connection?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

18 December 2011 (M) - Hi everybody. I seem to have problem, a problem I want to try and fix desparately. why don't women like me or at least why don't the girls who I like like me back? I'm pretty normal, I'm good looking I'm not nerdy or anything, I'm relatively s...

Do we have to endure this? His family treat us like kids and are often rude to us

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

18 December 2011 (F) - This might sound really silly but i sometimes worry about what my fiances family think of us we didnt have a very good week with them, we attended a large family meal last week and were told where we were sitting (which i was fine with, its their ...

Is my wife embarassed by me? She told me "not be obnoxious" when I meet her friends.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

18 December 2011 (M) - We have been married for 13 years and have been together as a couple for over 18, over half of our lives, and have multiple children together. Tomorrow, we are supposed to meet with my wife's friends, maybe some of their husbands, and one friend has ...

I don't feel like I'm part of his future plans. Are we meant to be together? Who knows what he's thinking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

18 December 2011 (F) - So the other night my boyfriend went out with 2 mutual friends. We'd had a spat-things I'm just trying to sort through to see where we are in this relationship. They asked him point blank, "Do you want to end the relationship?" He emphatically said...

I've left him several times. He doesn't buy me presents? what are my options? and how can I make a new life without him?

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18 December 2011 (F) - my boyfriend of 14 years doesn't buy me gifts and all he wants to do is sit at home... if i mention getting a job, we argue..i have no income and little work experience.... I don't know what to do. i have lefthim several times, but I always come bac...

I have feelings for my personal trainer and I am a married woman. My marriage is dead. How can I tell if my trainer is serious?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

18 December 2011 (F) - I have been training with my personal trainer for a year. At first I looked at him as only a trainer but recently I have been feeling differently about him. We have become good friends and there is a chemistry that has developed between us. We shar...

She tried to break us up. At the first chance he slept with her. How do I get over him cheating and betraying me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4751 days ago

18 December 2011 (F) - I'm in need of desperate help! My husband and I got into a huge fight 3 nights ago because I found out he was still talking to a woman whom had admitted she had feelings for him. She even tried to get us to break up and he promised after that time...

I talked to him for 3 months. Then we met. How do I deal with him now that I know he has Anger and emotional issues?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

18 December 2011 (F) - This is a bad story... I met a guy and we've been talking for 3 months and I realized he has emotional problems as well as anger problems. Aside from that, I care very much about him. We aren't dating because I needed some time to myself because ...

Was this coincidence? Or did my ex really put a curse on me? She said she did and then after I had a vehicle accident. Is she that powerful?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

18 December 2011 (F) - I was just involved in a vehicle collision tonight. I'm okay but my car had to be towed away for repairs. The other driver was okay and only had a few scratches to the car. Last night my lesbian girlfriend wished evil on me after we broke up. She...

How soon is right to date after my break-up? I'm torn about what to do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

18 December 2011 (F) - Hey so I posted last week about a relationship problem that ended in a break up. We dated for almost 2 years. I was just wondering when you think is the appropriate time to start dating again would be. I don't want to jump into anything too soon...

My husband tried cheating and there are still issues of trust

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

18 December 2011 (F) - Married n confused.Husband has tried cheating online as well as done other things that are wrong.Says he's no longer talking to or doing anything with other females but he wont be open with me on anything.Made clear to me he's not doing anything so ...

Have I ruined my chances with my Ex Boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

18 December 2011 (F) - Hey all, Recently I've been talking to an ex from a long time ago and he admitted to me after a year of being apart that he still had feelings for me. I'll admit that I've always had feelings for him and have wanted to get back together with hi...