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*milybear
writes:Hi,I met a very sweet guy online who I really got on well with. Due to him working abroad we spoke almost everyday for around 2 months before we met. We had our first date just before Christmas and I thought it went really well, we have lots in Common and laughed at lot. At the end of the evening he offered me a lift home and gave me card he had already written saying he hoped to see me again. Before we left we said again maybe we could meet in the New Year or speak on-line and what were the chances of us meeting online after discovering we shared many interests, he also said that he would tell his friends and family abut our date.I didn't kiss him goodnight but text him that night saying that I would also like to meet him again soon and had a great night he reply the same night. The next day we continued texting but now I haven't heard anything for 2 days? Could it be because of the Christmas holidays or because he doesn't really like me and was just being polite? He is such a sweet guy I can image him ding that to save my feelings?What do you think? I do suffer from low self-esteem and cant really believe that he would like me, I haven't text him either but if I don't hear from him this week should I ring him or just leave it?Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2011): Men,if they are interested will not waste time. They look at it like someone else could move in if they dont act fast. Dont build your hopes up.
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (27 December 2011):
Relax. Now that you two met and it's more "real" guys will still play it cool. He's expressed interest, it's the holidays, so just chill out. If you don't hear from him in a week then give him a ring, but a week of no contact is not the best sign either.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2011): It's just because of the holiday season, it's a busy time, you had agreed to meet after new year's so don't stress about it.
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (27 December 2011):
 Hi..
Take it easy love. I agree that it is the holidays that has him perhaps delayed in his responses. It's a hectic time for all and if you already decided that you'll see each other again in the new year, then I suggest you look out for that.
If you want to drop him a line and say hi, just touching base to see how your holidays went...then do that as well. It won't hurt anything.
2 days isn't a long time in the scheme of things, settle down a bit and follow your heart.
Ana
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reader, fishdish +, writes (27 December 2011):
 yea...it's the holidays...let him breathe a little, you said you two would meet up after new years!
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