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writes:One year ago I danced with a guy on a beach party in LA but nothing much else happened. We talked for a few weeks and then things just fizzled out. I have seen him a few times since then with mutual friends, and then at a party one month ago we kissed and danced. He sent me a really nice birthday message but I havent heard much from him since. My friend told me that he doesnt want a relationship with anyone, not just not with me, as he has some work committments. I think he does like me but he has a lot of friends that are girls and Im not sure if He's flirting with them as well. In the past it has been one of us makes contact, then the other, then the other and vica versa, so I guess it is my turn to talk to him first. But I dont know what to do because I think I really like him and I cant stop thinking about him???
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2011): Talk to him, and ask if you could be more than friends. I know it will be difficult if you don't get the answer you want, but you won't have to WONDER... ''what if?'' Good or bad, you will have your answer.
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reader, HippyChick  +, writes (26 December 2011):
 There is nothing you can do, he's had a year, if he wanted to ask you on a date he would of, done it by now.
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reader, aster  +, writes (26 December 2011):
So what is it that you want? A committed relationship? Or just a fling? I guess your friend has a point here because he seems to be quite a social guy, so if he really was looking for a relationship with you, he would have taken a big step. Since that is not happening, I think maybe he is just having a good time with you. If you really want to take a risk just to free you mind from questions, you cold put it across to him in an indirect way. Look for signs. Have fun!!
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