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Archived questions from: March, 2010 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

I'm in pieces because I feel like my boyfriend no longer loves me! And my period is late, he's not exactly there for me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - im in pieces because i feel like my boyfriend of a year no longer loves me. last night i was next to him in bed crying in pain as i had a stomache ache, he just rolled round and fell asleep, despite me led in pain crying my heart out, he must of ...

Girlfriend is begging to not lose me... I need as much advice as possible!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

31 March 2010 (M) - Recently, I posted an a thread about me and my ex having some issues with other people in our relationship. This is the last post I wrote..Okay so, me and my girlfriend got back together after a 1 month split up and we are doing great. Before t...

Why would he not say a word after everything that's happened? What's going through his mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - im really confused at the moment and recently ive had no sleep.' the reason i think this is happening is because of this one lad. ( sorry about poor punctuation as my full stop doesnt seem to want to work [Mod note: I put some in for you, thanks for ...

What are the odds that her new relationship won't work out, and if she'll realize I won't lie anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

31 March 2010 (M) - i lied to my girlfriend for 5 months about hanging out with friends and then confessed and stopped lyin.she lied in the beggining of our relationship about her ex boyfriend for about 6 months and i forgave her. she wont forgive me and started lyin ...

I was mortified by his comment! What did he mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - ive known this guy for 7 months and weve become close friends in that time. i really like him but notice sometimes he says things which dont add up for example he owns 3 houses, has 60 k in savings and want to buy a 350 k house in london. hes ha...

I'm worried by his behaviour, am I just over-reacting?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - my ex and i have been talking for a few months...he needs time to get his head together before getting back into things with me. Noone did anything bad, I think he just needs time...not ready to be in a relationship again. The times we talk it seems ...

She said she would stop talking to him late at night, but now I have found that she is still taking his calls at 3am! How should I take this?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

31 March 2010 (M) - Okay here I go again... This is the last post I wrote..Okay so, me and my girlfriend got back together after a 1 month split up and we are doing great. Before the split up we been together for like over 3 years. Anyway, when we got back togethe...

Paranoid controlling boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

31 March 2010 (F) - Okay so ive been dating this guy since June 20th, 2008. I am 15 and he is 16. Things started out perfect but then everything slowly went down hill around 6th months. Fighting all the time. He would get jealous if i was talking to guys and he would ...

My overbearing girlfriend seems to have broken up with me. I'm not sure what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

31 March 2010 (M) - I have a quite overbearing girlfriend we've been together for close to 10 months now , we're talking about moving in together (mostly her pressure i'm not sure if i'm comfortable with it yet) also pressuring me to pop the question by trying to get ...

I believe he never physically cheated, but things are unresolved. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - Unfortunately when I was pregnant with our son my husband took it upon himself to seek out other people on craigslist and sent private pictures of himself to one of them, well I found out and confronted him. He swears that he never met with any of ...

Am I just his booty call or does he really like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - So i met this guy off facebook. He actually initiated the conversation first. We never spoke before, but one day he just decides to message me and we have a nice conversation, we exchange screen names and start talking on aim. He would always be the ...

Help! What can I do to get him to trust me more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for over two and a half years. We currently live together overseas but are going home soon and I am going to start studying next year. I have always wanted to study drama and so will hopefully get into the course I want. ...

Can you give me one good reason why I shouldn't just dump him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - I love this guy with all my heart; he's my first love, and every time I think about us breaking up I just start to cry. We began our relationship online in 2008, but since he and I were both under 18 and living on opposite sides of the country, we ...

I don't know if he really means to break up or if he is rethinking his decision

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - My ex and I were together for about a year. We were in love, he moved in with me, I spent every Sunday with him and his family, the whole 9 yards. In the last few months we started arguing a lot. He was staying out late, drinking more, etc. ...

He says he wont divorce her because I wont put his name on my house

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - I have been with my partner for 4 years now and we have a 2 year old son that he never wanted, took me to the abortion clinic 11 times but each time i could not go ahead with it because i wanted it and he ended up leaving me but came back. I have ...

Usually I am an all too confident man but this girl has knocked me for six!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

30 March 2010 (M) - This is kind of silly for me, but being an all to confident man, Ive recently ran into a new experience, ive found this hot interesting girl, we started hanging out as she showed up at my next door neighbors house, a freind of a friend, we have been ...

A much older married man says he loves me as well as his wife, how can this be?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5160 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - hi, i m a 25 yrs old acrective girl,my problem is that i m in love with a married man he is 43 yrs old.he has one child 14 yrs old.and his marrige is also love marrige.he loves her too much,but he saying he loves me too much also how can its ...

I feel romantic towards my bestfriend, and bored with my boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - How do I choose between two guys I am very close to?? Nr. 1. I am together with him about one year and two weeks ago still loved him. Then suddenly there was nothing left.I lied to him once or twice but told him everything about me.. there are n...

She introduces me to other women as her boyfriend, but to other men as just a friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

30 March 2010 (M) - What does it mean when my girlfriend continues to see other men she claims are "friends" for drinks. She introduces me as her boyfriend to other girlfriends but only as a friend when introducing me to other men as to not offend them it seems ...

I want him to give me a sign about how he feels.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - I am going on a date with a guy this week who knows I have a huge crush on him. He's been playing hard to get for some time now , but not completely ignoring me. I think we both know the ' lets be friends' routine is a nonsense. I would like him to ...

How can I regain my boyfriends trust?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend are on a rocky patch and he doesnt trust me. he says everything will be better once he trusts me again. i've lied about stupid things one to many times. i really want to regain his trust. any advice? im guessing it will just take ...

I am totally out of control over my feelings, and can't see how a counselor could help me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

30 March 2010 (F) - Hi Everyone, You may remember some of my posts about my text cheating husband. Well, things are no better (because basically I can't move on). Last Fri/Sat he went on a golfing do for a mate's 60th birthday and when he returned home I start...

Should I confront her and let destiny run its course?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

29 March 2010 (M) - I'm in-love with my wife, she is my soul mate, the love of my life! We been married for 16 yrs and 13 yrs ago I caught her cheating on me, it broke my heart. She promise me that she would end the affair and begged me to stay I forgave her and took ...

I still have feelings for my womanizing ex boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5387 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - How do i cope with this. Im totally confused about my feeling for my ex. Do i still love him? Dont i? I spent 3 yrs of my life chasing this man it wasnt really a proper relationship but i was besotted with him! We were on off all the time i wanted...

Why is a nasty ex still on my mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5387 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - why do i still think of him? over a year ago ex bf lied about sleepin wit me to his buddies. i found put through a good friend. i spoke to him online about it then cut off all contact. i didnt sleep wit him but i snuck him over to my house and we m...

He loves me but doesn't believe me...!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - hi, I have a bf and I've been in a relationship with him for about one year! He is so sweet and caring. I love him a lot and he loves me a lot too but he always doesn't believe girls..!! We both are studying in different countries and we are ...

Evidence of a possible affair from years ago, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - Hello Agony Aunts Please can you give me some advice. To cut a long story short, I am recovering from finding out that my husband was having an affair - this was over two years ago [2008] and we did the counselling thing. And to date things have...

I'm disappointed he didn't trust me enough to tell me he's gay. He knows I look at facebook!

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29 March 2010 (F) - I have a male friend since 2007 with whom I have had some nice times. I really liked him but despite his kisses and sharing a bed sometimes, no sex ever. Of course, the thought that he could be gay crossed my mind, but each time I saw him I ...

He promised it would never happen again... and now the emails have started again!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - I have been married for a couple of years and have a beautiful son. Over the last 6 mths or so, I found my husbands email account open and he was asking his ex for nude photos etc and emails about their past relationship. My husband is away ...

Dumped, badly, and now worried about heartbreak again!

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29 March 2010 (F) - Ok so here's the deal. I have just got out of a serious relationship well lets just say the dirt bag left me on the day of my grandma's funeral harsh huh ! there was no warning or anything he just said that morning as I was getting ready to leave, I ...

He's going to tell me to take down the facebook picture!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - my boyfriend starts fights over my face book dp! there is absolutely NOTHING slutty or anything about the picture i put up, it was actually a picture where i was in the background and i thought i looked good so i put it up as my dp.. now he is angry ...

Help this stressed out hubby whose wife was sending naughty texts to another man!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

29 March 2010 (M) - A few months ago I started suspecting my wife was sending naughty messages to one of the truck drivers that delivers to her work. I asked her about it and she said it was just a friend and they talk about their day and nothing more then that. We ...

He says he's not sexually attracted to me because of my job!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - Im not sure what to do i have been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years and he tells me loves me but he isnt sure that he is sexually attracted to me anymore because of my job (Escort) he and i have sex on occasions but for the part he just goes ...

He wants me to let him go...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - we been together for almost close to 4 years now, my bf and me have an off and on relationship. we broke up many times and back together. for this past months, we been in a rocky life. we fought and we were then ok after patching up things. and ...

I need him back! I felt pressure and lied to him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - hello im alex, my boyfriend was looking through my phone and saw a picture of an old guy in my saved recieved pictures. he asked why i saved it and i said that my pictures automatically save, he knew that they dont though. he hates lying but i felt ...

How can I learn to be less emotional?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

29 March 2010 (?) - Okay I'm a very, VERY emotional person, I always have been and I'm very sensitive. I've had at least 3 people say I'm the most sensitive person they've met. Anyway.. it's actually really annoying and I have a boyfriend who I love alot. I was alwa...

Should I be concerned about his dodgy, alcohol-related past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for a month.We're not exclusive but we see and talk to each other almost every day. He's incredibly sweet, loving and not a flake (which seems hard to find in SD), however there r some things that bother me - he d...

I gave my guy friend some relationship advice and now my boyfriend thinks I'm cheating on him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - ok i really love this guy and hes my boyfriend but then a couple of days ago i talked to another guy and he told me about his relationship problems and gave him advice and he is only a friend that i gave advice to and my boyfriend doesn't believe ...

Should I get back together with the ex I love but don't trust?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - Hi All, I've been dealing with this decision for some time now.. sometimes I feel I've made up my mind, then I come undone and feel confused again. I was with my ex for 3 years, we had a break as I felt he needed time to sort out his issues. Dur...

Each time it happens he says that he's sorry! Now he's done it again!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - so my boyfriend has hurt me in the past in terms of flirting with women, he tells them that he wants to be with them, calls them baby, asks them if he can come over, wants to get stuff for them and more, (never had sex with them though that i know)! ...

Can people change?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

29 March 2010 (F) - My husband had a 3 year affair with his niece who was 15 when it started. He was 30. He says she initiated it and that he was to far in to get out, he said she threatened him with suicide if he left her. He was raped by family members as a young ...

She thinks it's okay to flirt with other guys in front of me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

29 March 2010 (M) - I've been dating a girl for about four months now. I've met her parents, and we're going abroad for a holiday next week. Things are great when we are together, except for one thing: she neither loves me (she 'likes me a lot'), nor does she consider ...

Why is he doing things that he knows will hurt me then lying to my face about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

28 March 2010 (F) - Ok... My boyfriend of a year and one month is a sweetheart, but lately he has been absent mindedly hurting me. For example he missed my last performance of the first show that I was cast as the lead in, now he did this to go to a friends birthday...

He won't have sex with me anymore...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

28 March 2010 (F) - I had finally met him! The guy, the right guy. He was more than everything that I wanted, he was what I needed. We are both in our 30's and have been together now for over a year. While things are not always perfect, they are comfortable, safe ...

My boyfriend is addicted to sex chat lines

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

28 March 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm not sure what to do. I found out today that my boyfriend has been ringing sex chat lines on a very regular basis, sometimes two or three times a day. I also found that a couple of weeks ago he rang a woman who he used to sleep with. ...

He said his Dad is in the hospital - is he lying and just changed his mind about me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

28 March 2010 (F) - ive currently going out with a guy i havent met yet (i know this sound stupid) we met on a iphone app and started chatting. i asked him to send a pic of him posing with a spoon to prove it was him and we been texting ever since. yesterday(saturday) ...

How can I know he's not playing me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

28 March 2010 (F) - Hey, I'm 25 and my boyfriend is 30 years old. His first interest is "sex" and nothing but sex, 15 years having sex as he wishes, I knew him at work I didn't have any relationships before him, he's the first man I know in my life. I kept myself from ...

Why is she lying about snogging him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

28 March 2010 (F) - Me and my friends have this thing that you should never go out with a guy if one of your friend s like him Like this includes snogging. I recently found out that One of my friends Broke this thing with a guy i Really like and whats worse she's ...

Do you think I'm headed for a heartbreak?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

28 March 2010 (F) - I used to be a happy go lucky kind of girl really, i met a man last year around this time, i met him on line, we got on so we met and things are brilliant when we see each other, we have a alternative relationship D/s (bdsm)..there have been some ...

I know I shouldn't have cheated, so how can I have a future with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

28 March 2010 (M) - Im currently engaged to my beautiful fiance, who i have been with for a year now... We started dating in march 2009. It started out as a physical relationship for like the first month, and eventually the emotions got deeper. But at the same time i ...