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female
age
26-29,
*uby014
writes:Okay so ive been dating this guy since June 20th, 2008. I am 15 and he is 16. Things started out perfect but then everything slowly went down hill around 6th months. Fighting all the time. He would get jealous if i was talking to guys and he would say smirky comments like "why dont you go talk to your best friend 'Joe' over there" and i would re assure him i had no interest. this happened with several different guys. I am not allowed to text any guy no matter what age. On weekend he always HAS to be with me, he guilt trips me when i hang out with my friends that are GIRLS. He does not let me tan or workout, he seriously stood infront of the sun so it wouldnt touch me. He always checks my phone and doesnt want me going on myspace, he checks my login dates. He makes sure i ride the schoolbus home, i cant even stay after for SCHOOL related activities without him getting very pissed at me. When were together we do have fun, and he does really sweet things i know he loves me but he is getting obsessed, hes so insecure and i havnt gave him any reason to be. At football games he plays and I am NOT allowed to leave the bleachers or he wont talk to me for a while "silent treatment" He doesnt want me to feel good about myself it feels like, one time i looked in the mirror and smiles and he said "wow think highly of yourself much?" and i just didnt reply. he makes me cry alot with all this stuff he does to me. i feel so trapped. Also, I KNOW I am TO YOUNG for sex, but he took my virginity, around the same time he started acting like this. And he also BEGS for sex, and if i say "babe i dont feel good, or please not now" he turns away from me and even when i cry he doesnt care. I just DONT UNDERSTAND. He has never called me names, or hit me. Hes just emotionally tearing me apart. PLEASE HELP.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (31 March 2010):
End it. He won't change. He'll just continue to tear you apart until you look into a mirror and don't see who you are. End it and move on.
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