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writes:im in pieces because i feel like my boyfriend of a year no longer loves me. last night i was next to him in bed crying in pain as i had a stomache ache, he just rolled round and fell asleep, despite me led in pain crying my heart out, he must of heard my sobs but still didnt even comfort me... ages ago he would of never ignored my cries, is this a sign that he doesnt love me anymore, also he walked away without even saying "luv u" like he always does, it made me feel so upset, i dont expect him to say it all the time its just he normally does, my sister was in the room so could this be why he never said it?i have been moody with him lately because i have alot on my mind (me being late on my period, could be pregnant) he knows im late but he aint exactly being there for me... im planning on talking to him and asking if he still loves me, but i just dont know what to say to him, any ideas?also im thinking of just walking away from him, but i love him, i just cant take the way he is being with me lately. i have been with him for a year, we use to be so close but i can see it slipping away right before my eyes and i cant bare it...please help!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2010): to tell you the truth i was in the exact same situation with my soon to be husband after the year mark he moved out to his moms for working perposes and ever sence he stopped talking to me for weeks then i got pregnate and he wanted an abortion asap but i just couldnt do it.
he cheated on me when i was trying so hard to make us work because i loved him so but as well wanted to say goodbye it was hard but in the end he left and didnt have any emotion torwards me or our baby i had a misscareage shortly after. after a few months of being apart he saw me again with my friends and i was having fun and he feel back inlove with me ever sence. i went with the marines to the mountains and he was so jealous he has changed for the better and now he wants to get married stop his party life and have a baby again. sometimes breaking up can be the best thing for you but if it turns out for the worst just remeber that hes the one that doesnt want to grow up and you if you are pregnate just do what you need to do i was prepared to take care of my unborn child alone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni spoke to him last night, i said " do you even still love me", he looked me in the eye and said "of course i still love you, what gave you the idea that i didnt" so i told him some things, the only thing i couldnt say to him was about my period being late, i told him im waiting for it to come the other day but we haven't mentioned it since, i just dont know what to say.
im also a week late on my period.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2010): If he's aware that you are late he could be dealing with his own issues right now and not sure how to help you. Talk to him tell him everything you wrote on here. He has a right to know that you are unhappy you can't just walk out with out knowing why things have changed. You will probably regret it and it will probably blindside him.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (31 March 2010):
You need to talk to him first before we can really give you any advice. We need to know more about what he thinks.
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