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Archived questions from: July, 2010 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Is this girl just playing games, and a liar?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - This is a bit of a story, but please bear with me. I guess i probably know the answer anyway, but typing it out might be theraputic in itself. 4 weeeks ago I started chatting to a girl online, she approached me first. We chatted and really hit it ...

Mum walks in on me having sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Titled by Poster: What a mess i am in. Had a gathering the other night, well i would'nt even call it that, there was like five people and myself there and that's it. Things went well, wasnt anything crazy, nothing broke, i dont think. However, the...

Is it a break if we are still talking...or should I take a total break...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5231 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I recently made a post on here...and I received lots of great feedback and thank you all for that. I have one last question and situation to share with you all...I need help because I have been given advice from friends but I need unbiased or ...

All I've done for weeks now is chase after him and try different tactics to get him back. I desperately need advice on how to get him back...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Well mines a long story. Really hope you can help. This is th second split from my boyfriend of 7 years. The first split was in 2008 at christmas and alsmost killed me, i went completely mad and was totally heartbroken. I ended up moving miles away ...

Dumped because I got too close to another guy! How do I get my bf back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - ok well basically my boyfriend broke up with me 6 days ago and im actually devastated. The reason he broke up with me is because he saw me being a bit 'too close' with another guy who is my friend and broke up with me right there and then. I know I ...

This is just a rant but I really need your thoughts and suggestions...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5231 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - this is just a rant, but suggestions and thoughts are appreciated. My gf has trouble letting go of her ex, no matter how nasty he is to us and our friends. She dosent see that he's pushing my friend base away from her....they dont want to speak to...

Should I fake an affair to teach my cheating husband a lesson?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - should i fake an affair to teach my cheating husband a lesson? my husband for last years has been constantly cheating on me. i have caught me several times and everytime he begs for my forgiveness telling me that he has really changed this time. i ...

We talked, he made promises, then stopped calling, now he's back, what do I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - okay well i'm not really sure what to do. theres this boy and he and me meet through another guy friend of mine. hes 17 almost 18 im 15. we had a really big thing but i would always have to sneak him in because I live with and abusive/strict father. ...

My husband has cheated in the past, being dishonest now, what should I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, My husband is 27, I am 47, I am told that we look the same age, I weigh 142, smooth skin and nice looking. My husband had cheated on me several times in the past. I asked him about his cell phone last night, he had hid it. I check his ...

What can I do to believe and trust him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5232 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Ok I am lost and in a daze right now. I found out my husband has been cheating on me for the past year. The one girl had a baby recently and said its my husbands but its possible its someone elses. I also found out he was seeing her and talking on ...

In Search of Truth

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - I'm in a situation that is driving me insane. My wife of 6 1/2 years says that she has only had sex with 3 men in her life; a high school boyfriend, her ex-husband, and me. Following her divorce she dated a guy that I now work with (they proba...

Do you women think this could have happened?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - Hello, i'm older male that is wanting to know about something that happened yrs ago. I recently caught my wife in a terrible lie! When my naive gf went upstairs with a guy at a party to talk she told me that they made out, he touched her bare ...

How can I win my husband back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5232 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Hi everybody, My husband says he loves me but i am not his love... his love is virtual.. he will not say it to anyone.... but i found some e.mails to his colleague, he admits his love for her. This girl was teasing me for 3 years, long cals, ...

Boyfriend heading off to college, how do I keep up a long distance relationship without being paranoid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Alright so my boyfriend is a year older and heading off to college in a 2 weeks. While he's not a hardcore party junky, I'm sure he'll attend a few over the next year, and make new friends, some of which will inevitably be girls. My question is...

Who gave me this STD? Was it my cheating ex or my 1st love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I was with this guy for little over a yr. We met in dec and by the end of Feb we were having sex. He cheated on me with his ex in apr. She stated she was pregnant and he didnt deny it. I was hurt so i left. He kept calling and sending me ...

I have been married for less than 2 months and we are talking about divorce. Can you advise?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5213 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I have been married for only a 1 1/2 and we are already talking about divorce. We argue all the time, lately he complains about the way I kiss him while having sex. At times I feel that he does not wants to kiss me or touch me. I have the feeling ...

Why do I always get stung by those I'm nice to

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - ok so i'm a really nice person, probly the nicest person in my whole skool, i'd do anything and everything in my power for the people i care about and i'm pretty much friends with everyone worth talking to. My problem is is that i get so close to ...

Can someone explain this cheater to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Why would a guy cheat before getting engaged, not tell their partner they cheated on them, proceed to get married....and then say that if HE were to find out that his fiance cheated on him before marriage, that he would definitely leave her, and not ...

How can I gain my husband's trust back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - My husband and I have been together for almost 7 years. We have been married for a year and a few months. I would never cheat on him, but I made a wrong choice. After I found out that he was talking with another girl and was hiding it from me, I ...

I got a call from a woman who said my partner of 8 years was her fiancee! He said she was just playing a joke!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - hi im 32,ive been with my partner for eight years. he keeps saying he isnt ready for children and doesnt want to get married. just lately he hasnt been coming home and says he's worked late and is staying with a friend? a few months ago he went to ...

I want more than that but not sure show to play it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - I met this guy on a dating site about 3 months ago. We have met about 8 times and get on really well. After the first date he said that although he fancied me he would prefer to become good friends and see what happened. I was fine with that but we ...

I cant stand my boyfriend hanging out with his ex, I'm sure she wants him back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - me and my bf have been going out for a year and a couple of mouths. every thing started out grat till he started hanging out with his ex that he dated for 6 years and her bf. I live with my boyfriend and his grandparents. My family dont wont any ...

What do I do with my flirtatious boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - OP's own title: My boyfriend is a flirt. I'm okay with that cause I can be too, but he's started flirting alot with this one girl in particular. I don't know if they text each other. He has mentioned her to me a few times. The other day I met up with...

Show him I'm not playing him? (hes not replying)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - MOD NOTE: OP's own title: hey,so i like this guy and he said he liked me to. we went on a date,but in the end up invited a few others round to to his to have a drink/play the wii etc. after we watched a dvd the guy i liked asked me if i wanted t...

7 year relationship.. make it or break it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5234 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - MODS NOTE: OP's own title. To start off with, my boyrfriend and I have dated for 7 years. it was great up until last summer. In the summer we dont see eachother much due to us working everyday, we are both 21. whe broke up with me last summer and ...

Do I have the right to ask what he's up to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - hi, I have been with my bf three months now, he was my ex, four years ago we had a relationship, it was a very powerful relationship in the positive and the negarive side, we broke up and we kept loving each other in a secret way, now we are back, ...

Why is my ex ignoring me and hanging around with lots of other guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

28 July 2010 (M) - Hi ok im actually at the point where i have been having an emotional breakdown almost every day and dont know what to do anymore. I broke up with my girlfriend 3 weeks ago and I have been left feeling very confused and hurt and need some advice...

I want to live with him, but I feel so negative, am I right to feel this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - I have a problem, my partner of 6 months has a daughter from previous relationship, the child is nearly 3,he has his little one 2 nights a week, we have kept this completly seprate from our relationship, he has now asked me to move in with him, also ...

He used me, how do I get over it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5233 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - how do i get over a guy a who lied to me saying that once he sleeps with me i would be the only girl he sleeps with cos he dont sleep around, few months later i asked him if he is having sex with someone else he turned away and said no then got up ...

His secret email address is attached to porn site, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4313 days ago

28 July 2010 (?) - I was fiddling around the net and I googled my bf secret email address: I found out he commwnted an erotic pic on an amateur porn website stating how beautiful that woman was and telling her to email him, if she wanted to. I don't even know ...

PLEASE I NEEED ANSWERS AS SOON AS POSSIBLE

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5234 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - OP's own title: Hi everyone i'm new here and i have a problem that is occupying my mind all day .. so i go out with a guy who i like he started to tell me that he loves me and all and that he likes me since the first day he saw me in college we a...

Am I wrong for wanting to know??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - OP's own title: Ok so to it keep short...my husband has never really trusted me due to me cheating on him before we got married. We've been married 9yrs now and I have been faithful. Recently he told me that a source of his told him that I have ...

He turns his phone off at night - does this mean he is cheating on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - Do you think a guy is cheating if he use to turn his phone off at night during our relationship? He saids it was because he didn't want no one to wake him up while he was sleeping or no one look through his phone, meaning his parents because they ...

I cant trust my sister and my boyfriend to be alone together anymore, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend cheated on me with my older sister, but then I took him back. He somehow convinced me that it will never happen again and that I should work on my trust. I was really convinced that he would never hurt me again. But, then I found out my ...

Will my boyfriend oneday return to his family? He has only been separated for 4 months and I am scared of losing him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5234 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - ..im in a commitment right now for 6 months...i love this guy so much and i know he love me so much too..he is separated just for 4 months..and i am also separated for 3 years..im afraid of losing him....he is my life..he told me that this is his ...

Am I wrong to demand she only speak with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

27 July 2010 (M) - Hello All, I am 26 years , I will marrying soon withing couple of months . I have a porblem i love very much my financy , before marriage we are now speaking all things on phone , she told all things about her and she said that she is having a ...

The New Tough Love

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

27 July 2010 (?) - He was charming, sexy, funny, and all about me. From living in his brother's basement with his dog, I allowed him into my house with my three children. One by one the true colors were mind blowing. Each layer peeled back to show his verbal viole...

Should I break up with him for talking to an old friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5235 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - ok so I have been with my bf for 9 yrs. live together for 6. I have been having a hunch of him talking on his itouch (through facebook) with an old friend. well come to find out I was right they having been talking back and forth for a few months ...

Should I run away, or keep rescuing her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5235 days ago

27 July 2010 (M) - I met my former fiancee four years ago in a philosophy class on a community college campus while we were both still seniors in high school. We were both in emotionally fragile states at that time. I was recovering from an alcohol issue, she was ...

How do I know he's really changed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5234 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. We live together, share a life and goals, and he has right out told me that he is in this for "the long haul". During the first 3 or 4 months of our relationship, he continued to "play the field" - ...

Should I marry someone who betrayed me like this?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - I recently found out that my boyfriend cheated on me 1 time. We've been dating for nearly 5 years, and we recently got engaged. I found out that a year ago he slept with this girl, after major flirting went on between them for a few months (i.e., ...

Can a leopard really change its spots?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

27 July 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I have a very honest relationship. She is several years younger than I, she is 38. She was married for 10 years, cheated on her hubby and they divorced. She carried on with her lover for 7 years until his divorce was final, t...

Boyfriend wants to take a break!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been fighting since forever. We love each other alot but we don't trust each other. He just lost his job so he's stressed out about that. I'm trying to be supportive but he just ignoreS me like if I'm not even there. Last ...

He now says he never felt that way so why did he want me to tell him so badly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5235 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - Hello, after a long, confusing and heartbreaking few years my lifes finally ended on a dull note. Me and a friend had known each other a while and although we never really spoke something felt weird. As time went on sitruations changed and we ...

My boyfriend slept with his brother's wife before he met me?? Please help?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - Ok, so before my boyfriend and I started dating, he slept with his brothers wife supposedly just once. We started dating maybe about 5 months after this happened and he told me about 7 months into our relationship out of guilt. At first, I was ...

Insecurities a problem in my relationship!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have been together for roughly a year, we have had ups and downs like any couple. I am quite insecure and this is something that constantly causes a problem between us. When we first got together I had no worries at all, but ...

Boyfriend got roommate pregnant...what to do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - OK, my question is what should I do??? My boyfriend broke up with me six months ago for less than a week and slept with his roommate and got her pregnant. Apparently she just realized NOW that she's pregnant and told him just the other week. What...

True love or game player?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5235 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - i fell in love with a guy over ten years ago. we were madly inlove, but i had to move to another country. we stayed in touch, and i visited regularly. but over the years i started to want more, and found someone whom i thought made me happy. ...

She cheated so should I just break it off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

27 July 2010 (M) - Hello all, I am in a relationship that is pretty green, six months into it. I have been friends with this girl for a long time, and really like her a lot. I have started to have to work away from home for a week to two weeks at a time. The fir...

Is my online guy giving me the bum's rush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5235 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - Arrrrrggghhh!! I have been having an internet relationship for months. I am 28 and he's 41!! We speak everyday about everyday things...how we're getting on at work etc.... Recently, I have been being a bit of a bitch to him!! I dont know why...ma...