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writes:Dear Cupid, My husband is 27, I am 47, I am told that we look the same age, I weigh 142, smooth skin and nice looking. My husband had cheated on me several times in the past. I asked him about his cell phone last night, he had hid it. I check his voice message through my phone, someone calls and hang up, He pretends at times that he is talking to a friend whom he drives trucks with, he go outside,or if someone calls he pretends its the wrong number. I am so tired of his lies. I asked him to be honest with me but he keeps telling me that there is no one, what shall I do?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (31 July 2010):
Oh dear. I'm sorry. but if he cheated on the past several time, and he's acting suspiciously now, then the truth is he is cheating again. I think the time has come for you to accept that this guy is just not the one for you. He has no idea about marriage, is a total liar and a cheat and you couldn't trust him if your life depended on it. You can't stay married to a man who just cares about himself and no one else. Time to end it and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2010): You obviously don't trust your husband because of his history, and you're going so far as to invade his privacy by checking his phone messages. You will never be happy if you feel like you constantly have to research who he's with and what he's doing. Whether he's cheating or not, it will wear on him if you keep asking him to be honest with you about any affair he's having, particularly if he's not even having one. Do you have evidence, other than people don't leave him voicemails or people dial the wrong number? Because that's honestly not valid evidence.
You'll have to decide how you want to live the rest of your life: paranoid, or separate from him, living your life without worrying if he's having another affair.
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