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Archived questions from: July, 2008 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

How does chlamydia happen in a monogamous relationship?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - Hello, I have a very weird question. I have been with my man for a few years, in what I thought was a monogamous relationship. I got a checkup a while back, and they said I had chlamydia. They also said that chlamydia can only be spread through ...

I'm getting paranoide about my boyfriend's marrieds, female friend. How can I keep myself calm.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - Maybe I am blowing this all out of proportion (past scars and all that), but i am very anxious about tonight... my bf has a friend who's a girl and they've been hanging out a lot, and enjoy each others' company. Also, they have nearly identical ...

I feel she's changed, and now it's making me feel very insecure. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5943 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - I've been seeing my girlfriend for about 6 months now. Since she got back from holiday she has been different. We were very much in love. Telling each other every day how we felt. Since she has been back we have been different. She doesn't tell me h...

Any suggestions as to helping me sort out these problems I have with my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5914 days ago

31 July 2008 (?) - My girlfriend and me have together for a year. But there's a few problems: 1: She has some body issues. She wears baggy clothing. (She thinks she's fat and she's not). 2: Trust issues. (Thinks I'm cheating - which I'm not) All because most of my fr...

I'm heartbroken. I want to confront him about what I discovered, but I don't want him to know how I found out. Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5954 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for only like a month. i have fallen pretty hard for him. everything about him is perfect to me...and everything always seems to fall into place. the other day he lost his cell phone and i found it today at my house. I...

He was into foursomes in the past. How do I make sure he isnt into that anymore?

This question has 42 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - My question is My boyfriend was once married, and then come to find out he and his wife were into foursomes, when I ask him about it because I just want to make sure that he doesn't still have those feeling because I won't do it he get mad at me...

Please let me know how to handle my crazy jealous wife!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I need advice this issue is tearing us apart. I met a friend online from another country. I find chatting with her interesting. There is nothing being said that is inappopriate. She is just interesting adn from a country I have always been ...

Am I over-reacting about this 'friend'? She and I are on a break.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I are on a break, but she has told me that just just needs some space and time for a little, and then we can be back together, when she has sorted her personal things out. She has said she won't do anything with anybody else in ...

I think my wife is having an affair. Am I just insecure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - Dear Readers: I feel my wife is having an affair on me. Thsi has happened in the past feeling this way. She doesn't seem to come on to me or is not interested in sex. She never really wants to look at me when we do it. I initiate it all the time she ...

Even if I tell her cheating is not my intention, she insists that I am lying and that I ought to just "confess" and she'll forgive me!?!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I'm seeing a woman whom I feel that I want to spend the rest of my life with, the problem is, she doesnt trust me as far as she can throw me. If I contact any other women whom she isn't familiar with, she accuses me of cheating on her, and she won't ...

He tells me he loves me but it just does not feel enough! I have a fear of our relationship going wrong due to my past!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - hi agony aunts ok ive been with my partner a few months and it got a bit complicated with things going on on both sides..but in the end we really do love each other..just i sometimes have a hard time explaining things or how im feeling i want him...

We are having a break while trying to sort our problems. I fear he's not truthful to me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - We been together 5 years we been broken up for almost 5 months. He told me he wanted to work things out and become faithful to me. He even told me I could see his phone records so I know he won't be cheating. But right now while we are just gett...

The guy I like is five years older than me and flirts a lot, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - here it is. I am falling in love with the guy who is 20, and I am 15, well the age difference isnt my biggest conserne. what realy makes me sad, that he is a very cocky person, he isnt mean to me, and doesnt put me down, but i see him do that with...

I know she cheated, but I don't know what to do, is this a waste of my time?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5906 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - I am completely in love with my gilfriend. We were just friends for 5 months or so and we've been dating for about 6 months now. I cant tell if my girlfriend really loves me, or if she just playing me. She always talks about how hot other guys are, ...

My g/f has trust issues because most of my friends are girls. It's so annoying!.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

31 July 2008 (?) - My girlfriend and me have together for a year. But there's one problem, she has some body issues (she wears baggy clothing) and trust issues (thinks 'im cheating - which i'm not) all because most of my friend are girls, It's annoying. ...

Does he chat with her instead of spending time with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5959 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - My boyfriend had this girl add him on Msn, he doesnt know who she is and she started talking about sex and trying to have cyber sex with him. I told him i wasnt too happy about it (he would go mad if it was me!) He says he deleted her and doesnt t...

A girl said she loved my boyfriend, now I am being hysterical. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - My boyfriend just told me a girl at work made him a card say "I love you *his name*" and hugged him, andi cant stop crying and idont know why. Why am i sp upset? i know he loves me and wouldnt chest but i still cant sto p crying :(...

I think these women are after my husband...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - Me and my husband have a large group of friends. We all meet up for events in our area and have a good time, but lately i have become suspicious of him. My best friend lives down the road and we get on great and most of the time it is just us an...

What do I do about knowing my girl is lying to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - hi, i already asked a question earlier and got some good responses thanks. im going to change my question as i have had time to think. me and my g/f of 9 years have never had it easy as regards to our relationship. she is a very dishonest perosn ...

I'm 8 months pregnant and he is calling other girls on line the pet names he calls me. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - i think my boyfriend is cheating on me im 8months pregnent and i dont know what to do. he left his myspace screen up and i went in took a look in his messages he's calling these other girls baby and sexy and tells them that their fine and it hurts ...

I know my girlfriend is lying to me, but is she cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - ok its so complicated. ive been with my girl for 9 years and we have 2 kids. theres been a lot of crap went down between us in the past. shes been going out a lot latley, and isnt really honest about what goes on. so ive done a stupid thing....

I feel as if I am the only one trying to make our marriage work, after 22 years together. I also suspect she is cheating.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - My wife and I have been drifting apart after 22 years of marriage. We don't spend much time together as our jobs are in different shifts. She works from 9AM to 3PM and I work from 3PM to 10PM. She never initiate love making with me and I am the one ...

Do men in relationships want to have sex with other women? How much and how often?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

30 July 2008 (?) - How much do guys in a relationship want to have sex with other females? I'm curious. I don't ever get the urge to have sex with some other guy. I wonder if it's the same for men? Today I was telling my boyfriend how weird it'd be for me if he was...

Why was he so angry when I kissed him, yet he was happy to have sex with me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I met a man recently and he wanted sex but i didnt because I held back. We met up recently and when we went I kissed him on the lips and he wasnt too keen I dont mean a long lingering one, just a quick one-and he doesnt want to see me anymore, not ...

I get upset when my BF starts joking with his friends' girlfriends, could you offer your point of view?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I do not know if I am the problem or not but everytime we meet with my boyfriends' friends I get upset that my boyfriend starts joking with their girlfriends. I feel not respected and the problem is that one of them even touches my boyfriend or sits...

Silly things lead to my boyfriend to distrust me, can I hope that he changes? I have always been truthful.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I am divorce have an 8 years daughter, after my marriage I stayed single for almost 4 years, then I met my boyfriend online 3 years ago, eventually he moved in with me because I did not want to get married again. The first year was so happy I though ...

I have trust issues. I've fallen for a friend, he's bi. I don't want to ruin everything.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5963 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - How do you know if you are completely over your ex boyfriend? My ex boyfriend dumped me, then a day later him and my best friend (of 19 years) were going out together. It broke my heart as I lost two people at once :( It was an awful time for ...

Knowing she has had one night stands makes me wonder if the rumours about her cheating on me are true...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - i have been going out with my g/f for 7 months now. I love her to bits and am thinking of proposing to her. We communicate really well and one day she told me how many one night stands shes had and how many partners she's had. I even know some of ...

He's lied once - does that mean he's cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5964 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year, it has been good most of the time apart from his female best friend constantly taking advantage of him, we have got over this. Recently, his mother has become ill and he had to move home 5 ...

My wife is talking to an old lover, should I feel jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - My wife said she loves me but is not IN love with me. She said I didn't pay attention to her just after I found out I have MS. Now shes talking to an old lover, but said they are "Just Friends". how should I feel? I had a bad time for about a year ...

How do I stop my jealousy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I'm soo jealous over my boyfriend,how can I stop?...

My boyfriend has become abusive and controlling since he found out I wasn't a virgin. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5946 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - i need help. there are many people on this site who ask this same question: what should i do my boyfriend is controlling i dont have a life. What should i do? But see, my boyfriend of a year and a half is mentally abusive hes selfish, he goes out ...

I do not know how much longer my husband is going to put up with my trust issues

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I will start off by saying that I am a very jealous person. I am 28 yrs old and have been with my husband going on 12 years. We have been married for almost 6 yrs. My problem is this and I hope someone can give me some advice. My husband is a ...

Will I become just a sex object for my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - Hello I have been having this relationship with this guy, he is wonderful with me, he does everything to please me, we always have great time together, we have been together for a little bit more than 5 months, so when we had 3 months of ...

I love him so much, but it makes me scared, I don't want to get hurt.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5942 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - hi just wanted to ask a question mostly to females. how do you cope with a relationship thats long distance and you have fallen head over heels and the first thing you think of is i dont want to get hurt because it seems so wonderful and i ...

Why doesn't he like me? Why is everyone else better than me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5937 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - Having met a man a few weeks ago on holiday we didnt have any sex (although he was keen to) he gave me his address and phone number and e mailed me and we met after a seminar he was attending which was just four days after returning. We e mailed a ...

My boyfriend is very jealous, how do I help him to not be so jealous, and to love me more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - what does a girl have to do with her boy friend like sexual things? what to do when your boyfriend is really galous? what to do to keep ur boyfriend inlove with with you? ...

Did she cheat, lie or is she innocent?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5964 days ago

28 July 2008 (M) - i have been seeing my girlfriend for a year now and ive always trusted her, i joined the army which put a bit of strain on our relationship, but its fine now. One day whilst i was in training she told me she was busy and couldn't phone, but i later ...

Am I over-reacting to him groping me while I slept?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5961 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - I've been in a relationship for a year and a half now and about a week ago my boyfriend and I were on holiday together; we'd gone away with my family. We shared a room but not a bed; we're both virgins and I want to wait until I turn 18 before I ...

My fiance trusts me about the night I went clubbing but my mum threatens she isn't coming to the wedding!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - hi all i am getting married in five weeks time last week me and partner had a big fight due to the stress of it all and fri night he was not feeling well so i went out on the lash and got talking to a guy we chatted nothing else and went clubbin...

Doubtful about physical closeness as I am very self-conscious about my stomach area... will he care?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5963 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 months now and we haven't gone beyond making out. I know he wants to feel me up and I want him to, but I'm not skinny and I'm self-conscious about my stomach area. Will he care? I don't want to be ...

I still worry and check her phone, and I still find weird messages... what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

28 July 2008 (M) - my girl gave me a ton of reasons not to trust her. I went into her phone (which the password for texting was just changed) and found very dirty messages to other guys. I brought them up and she said they are just jokes but i couldnt handle it. I ...

He was smoking behind my back, should I forgive him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5964 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - I love my boyfreind and he gave up smoking for me when we started dating nearly 8 months ago.I found out on the weekend that he has been smoking behind my back and didnt tell me. I forgive him because he didnt want to tell me cause he knew i would ...

How can I be sure my crossdressing fiancee isn't gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5944 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - hi, i am a 39 year old mother of 2 kids... i met a wonderful man about a year ago.. he has been honest from the begening with me about his crossdressing, and i thought i could except it i really try, but recentally i have been having suspesions..... ...

Sexy texts on my girl's phone have me heartbroken. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

27 July 2008 (M) - i found some sexy texts from a guy in m girlfriends phone, she also replied to it, they even called each other...and i confronted her and she assured me that it was only txts and calls and nothing else and how text dont mean a thing...now i put on a ...

How can I trust him after he texted an old high school "friend"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - I have a boyfriend who I have been dating for two years now, well just recently he got drunk at the bar and text some "old high school friend" "I just want to hold you" I know he loves me and I love him too, I just can't seem to be forgiving him ...

I cheated on my boyfriend with a female friend of mine. How do I regain his trust?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - About 2 months ago I cheated on my boyfriend. I recieved oral sex from another female friend of mine. It tore me up to do it, but I was under the influence. Not that that is any excuse. The whole time I was with her it hurt me so bad to hurt him, I ...

My guy thinks I cheated on him. He thinks I don't love him and don't trust him. How can I make him understand?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5965 days ago

27 July 2008 (?) - Hello, I donno what to do about my guy… We had an argument for the last few days and so he thinks I’ve cheated him… I donno how to make him understand As we hardly get time to speak to eachother… He’s in 11th and I m in 10th so I have my cla...

He is in the army and is going on a lads' holiday, I feel I am chasing him for his company...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - I'm 30 weeks pregnant and im scared my boyfriend has gone off me. He used to be the one who chased me all the time now i seem to be the one chasing him. He is in the army and he gets 3 weeks off in august and is going on a lads holiday, is this ...

We split up 3 times before; I am scared of letting my defences down in case he pulls the rug from under my feet again!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5965 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - In the past two years my partner and I have split up three times, we have been together for 8 years in total. Each time it has been because he feels the grass is greener and then he returns begging forgiveness, crying, promising me he will change, ...