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51-59,
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writes:Dear Readers: I feel my wife is having an affair on me. Thsi has happened in the past feeling this way. She doesn't seem to come on to me or is not interested in sex. She never really wants to look at me when we do it. I initiate it all the time she lets me do whatever I feel like to a certain extent. Do you feel I'm just insecure because I don't feel that way about her.
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (1 August 2008):
I agree, communication is key here. Women don't exactly have the same sex drive as men. Sometimes having sex is a "chore" and we just do it to get you to quit bugging us about it. I'm not speaking for all women, but that's how I have felt in past experiences. It's probably you just worrying/being insecure. I'm sure it has nothing to do with you. But definitely talk to her.
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female
reader, hlskitten  +, writes (31 July 2008):
 Hi
Theres lots of reasons women go off sex, the least possibility is usually an affair! Menapause, depression, general knackerdness!
Communication is needed. There is definately nothing at all wrong with asking her if there is a problem. You're a couple!
C xxxx
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (31 July 2008):
 The good news!! Yes I think you are insecure. Unless you have proof, she is most likely inocent.
The bad news is you will wreck your relationship if you dont try to trust her. Tell her your fears by all means, but if she assures you that nothing is wrong, then please just drop it.
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male
reader, Danielepew  +, writes (31 July 2008):
 If this is all you have, yes, you're just insecure.
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