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Archived questions from:
February, 2014 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)
Troubled relationships: Help and adviceI am starting to get angry at his attitude!
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3955 days ago
28 February 2014 (F) -
I have been dating a man for 3 years. I have stupidly "overlooked" some interesting behaviors on his part including: does he like and respect women? (Example: if it's breast cancer awareness month he goes on about how come its all about women? If ...
My marriage was a huge mistake but I'm too scared to get out of it
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6 answers
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3956 days ago
28 February 2014 (F) -
I'm too scared of what will happen after I leave my husband that I can't bring myself to do it. I got married at 21, and he was almost 24. We had been together for two years when we got married and had lived together for a year and a half. I thought ...
Do men find it difficult to cope with a very independent woman? And how can an independent woman prevent a partner from being needy?
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11 answers
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3956 days ago
28 February 2014 (F) -
Hi aunts and uncles. I wonder if someone can help? I have a mixture of two problems in one. Firstly, do men find it difficult to cope with a very independent woman? Secondly, how can an independent woman prevent a partner from being, for want ...
I want my ex back but he's not interested. What can I do?
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6 answers
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3956 days ago
28 February 2014 (F) -
I still like my ex but he does not want to get back with me. We are both in our thirties, and our relationship was very complicated. He had kids, I have a child, ex-partners etc etc ......it was very difficult at times for us to be happy. We live in ...
Why would she deactivate her profile after mine?
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2 answers
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3956 days ago
28 February 2014 (M) -
Dear Cupid, I know I'm young. I know I've got my whole life ahead of me. But I was with my on/off girlfriend for a couple of years. Rumour had it she cheated. The usual stuff I guess when you're young. Anyway, things got a little messy. W...
How do I deal the stress of knowing my parents don't want me home for 5 months before I go back to uni?
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3 answers
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3956 days ago
27 February 2014 (?) -
I am an extremely calm and laid back person as a rule, but recently I have been struggling with a great deal of things: 1. My parents are having some serious issues with their marriage (I know there is nothing I can do but it is on my mind). ...
Can I ever really trust her after I found out about her threesome?
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25 answers
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3923 days ago
27 February 2014 (M) -
6 months into our relationship my girlfriend went on holiday and I later found out that she had a threesome with two men she met in a nightclub while she was away. After she said it was just a crazy one off I forgave her. But I just can't get ...
How can I help my colleague and friend? Afraid she's having a crisis and may lose her job.
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10 answers
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3899 days ago
27 February 2014 (F) -
Hi, I have a frienship question. I work with a woman who has, over the years, become a friend. Though we don't really socialise outside work, we do confide in one another when we go for lunch etc. I am fond of her. Her home life has spirall...
I resent that his ex-wife expects me and my family to run errands for her!
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7 answers
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3957 days ago
27 February 2014 (F) -
I am frustrated and unhappy and thinking of leaving my 3 year relationship. My live in divorced boyfriend's ex wife seems to think it is appropriate for everyone to run errands for her and thir child. She instructs him to tell me to pick up art ...
I am overreacting or is he purposefully putting me down?
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8 answers
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3956 days ago
27 February 2014 (F) -
I am older than my husband. He is from a different country and keeps calling me old woman. This has been going on for a while now and I find it very irritatating and annoying and when someone persists in keep saying and doing something that you ...
I feel intimidated and insecure due to boyfriend's female friends.
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5 answers
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3957 days ago
27 February 2014 (F) -
I’ve been with my boyfriend for just under two years and we had a distant relationship for the majority of that time, although we lived within half an hour of each other for about six months. Just over a week ago we moved into a flat together. I ...
Partner hooked by a particular type of porn... and has acted on it. How secure is our future?
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7 answers
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3956 days ago
27 February 2014 (F) -
I just found out that my boyfriend of a year has an addiction to SHEMALE porn. He has been watching now for about 10 years and he is about to be 30. Not only does he masturbate to it on a frequent basis, but he has actually acted on it a few years ...
What can I do about my Bf's extreme aversion towards contact with me when I have my period? His actions are hurtful.
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18 answers
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3952 days ago
27 February 2014 (F) -
my boyfriend is good to talk to, not a great listener, but he is very passionate when he cares, is helpful, understanding and not egotistic and is generous. but when it comes to me been on my period, it is a whole different box of cookies, i cannot...
Does a past abuse relationship impact on my future relationships? I keep pushing people away.
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3 answers
- newest was posted
3949 days ago
27 February 2014 (M) -
Hi folks, i have a problem. I was in a rather emotionally abusive relationship that i broke out of almost a year ago and ever since i have been kind of rude and pushing people away to keep from getting close to any women, is this normal? what shou...
Do I need the hurt again? He's trying to get back with me. I still care for him. But I keep on rejecting him
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8 answers
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3957 days ago
27 February 2014 (F) -
It's so easy to say dont answer his calls or respond to his texts. I really love him and I want it to work but i know that he has to change. Someone said that he needs sex and that is why he is trying to talk to me again but i am pretty sure he w...
I need help with how to relate to my LDR, please? I don't know what to do to make things better.
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1 answer
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3957 days ago
27 February 2014 (F) -
I need urgent help. So this guy I met a year ago or a little more (in person) have recently started talking. We share a lot of things in common, we're both creative and both of us are in college although I'm in a gap year staying with my family a...
I don't think I love him as much as he loves me, what do I do?
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5 answers
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3957 days ago
26 February 2014 (F) -
Hey its me again.I've been hurt by guys from time I started having boyfriend Which is at 19 .I have never had a real boyfriend before until now,I'm someone who likes older guys but this one I have now is only 20 and doesn't seem to be what I want. I ...
She's upset because I didn't change my FB status, am I in the wrong here?
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5 answers
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3956 days ago
26 February 2014 (M) -
Thanks for reading - not sure who to ask so going to ask you lovely people :) I have been on a few dates with a girl - i am 26 and she is 24 and she is very pretty and when we had our first date, we hit it off. She gave me butterflies and ...
His drinking is affecting the way I see this relationship
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3 answers
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3957 days ago
26 February 2014 (F) -
Hi, I've been dating a guy for 6 months, but have known him for a year through a work contact. Since we have become official I have noticed when I call on week day evenings (we only meet at weekends due to distance) he isounds drunk at least 3 times ...
Left a troubled relationship and now he's being threatening. How do I cope when I go back to college?
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3 answers
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3954 days ago
26 February 2014 (F) -
I m a 21 yr old woman, I was in a troubled relationship, initially he was really serious and in love but then later on he would abuse me for small things like not going out when I told him I would. Once I told him I would leave him in a fight an...
Why is the ex back in touch? Is he just playing games or is he for real?
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13 answers
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3957 days ago
26 February 2014 (F) -
Dear Cupid... Its me again.... its been over a month now and I have not talked to my ex, he started calling me back about a week ago and he is still calling and sending me text messages.I have not responded to him at all. I mean he said that he did ...
Tell me what I already know but don't wanna believe
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10 answers
- newest was posted
3959 days ago
25 February 2014 (F) -
Hello! Heres the situation; I've been dating a guy for about a month, 'talking' for about two. In those two months we have been Facebook friends on and off, I have deleted him 3 times now, the first time was because a lady was putting comment ...
He doesn't know how to have a conversation with me!
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6 answers
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3959 days ago
25 February 2014 (F) -
I've been seeing a male friend for a few weeks. I think he's a lovely person... he admitted he has feelings for me last weekend and he said he wants to be in a relationship with me in the future. The only problem is, I'm confused as to whether I ...
My boyfriend is going through a tough time at the moment .....
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3 answers
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3959 days ago
25 February 2014 (F) -
How can I help my depressed boyfriend? It hurts to see him so down So my bf have been really distant lately and we had a big arguements cause I was so frustrated and angry with him. I said he doesn't deserve me. and he was really hurt about th...
Hurt me once, shame on you. Hurt me twice, shame on me?
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4 answers
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3960 days ago
24 February 2014 (F) -
I dated and fell in love with a guy in the summer/ fall of 2012, but who ultimately went back to his ex (a prior very long term relationship) and was living with her. We reconnected some months thereafter where we talked about how much we still ...
Why am I kept separate from his friends and family after dating for over a year?
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3 answers
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3960 days ago
24 February 2014 (F) -
Okay me and my boyfriend have been dating over a year. Ive only met his mom once, 2 of his friends once and that was a year ago when we first started dating. He doesnt take me around anyone for whatever reason because he says im boring. Our ...
I am losing sleep and feeling really down on my self because he is having trouble getting over this, he makes me out to be such a horrible uncaring person!
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3 answers
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3960 days ago
24 February 2014 (F) -
Okay I am having issues getting through a little speed bump with my boyfriend. There has been absolutely no cheating or lying just something from my past he cant get over. We had known each other for quite some time but only started seeing each ...
How can I trust him to be a nice guy again?
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3 answers
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3960 days ago
24 February 2014 (F) -
Hi everybody there, I have some trust and reliance problems with my boyfriend. We were in a long distance relationship about one year and now he's living at mine. I'm from East Europe and he's from West part and spends his holiday in my country....
How can I get the conversation away from these topics with these people??
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7 answers
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3959 days ago
24 February 2014 (?) -
This may seem like a weird question but I need to ask. I have a couple of friends, (not close "see all the time friends") that I see ever few 4-10 months or so, usually for coffee/lunch. After the initial "hi how are you, whats up", etc etc the...
My crush says she doesn't trust men, but I really like her!
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3 answers
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3961 days ago
24 February 2014 (M) -
now being a freshan in high school, dating is fairly useless. I like this girl and we are great friends, so i decided i wanted to date her. i have given her gifts, hugged her, and put my arm around her all in order to get her to like me a little ...
He lied to me about being married and now I feel wrecked!
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4 answers
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3958 days ago
24 February 2014 (F) -
Hi, I met this guy who seemed to b really nice he treated me pretty well I don't know he was a married man, we had sex a couple of times but within 3 months he felt like he needed some space to study about a month, I felt hurt like i was gonna a ...
My boyfriend thinks I am cheating because I am 'too loose".
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9 answers
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3952 days ago
24 February 2014 (F) -
Help, my boyfriend, we've been together for 2 years and he thinks I'm cheating because I feel "loose", and I feel it to. We used to have sex everyday, but it began to lessen. Now we have sex once every two weeks, and even then I still feel loose, I ...
When my girlfriend gets mad, she doesn't scream, she doesn't shout, she just shuts down!
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2 answers
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3960 days ago
24 February 2014 (M) -
Hey guys. I'll go ahead and jump right in. I'm a 30 year old male. I've been seeing my gf for just over a year now. We have talked about moving in together within the next year or so and marriage, but her behaviors are totally destroying our r...
I am being shut out by his language!
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8 answers
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3960 days ago
24 February 2014 (F) -
Hi! I need advice on a relationship with language differences. When I met my boyfriend he didnt know any English, but he insisted on being with me. He worked hard to learn English and did well. Now his daughter came to live with us full time and he ...
After four years of dating he still avoids talking about committment.
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2 answers
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3961 days ago
24 February 2014 (F) -
Hi cupids, I'm looking for some advice because I'm really upset and I don't know if I'm doing the right thing. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 and a half years, and we've been having some issues lately because he has been avoiding th...
How can I tell if he is addicted to porn?
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2 answers
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3960 days ago
23 February 2014 (F) -
Ok aunts ... Please help... Is there any way for a woman to know before she gets too deeply involved with a guy whether he has a porn addiction? It is clear that he uses porn regularly but I have come out of a marriage where my husband was very ver...
LDR boyfriend talked terribly to me and now I think he's broken up with me
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7 answers
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3960 days ago
23 February 2014 (F) -
Hello I am a 36 year old female in a long distance relationship with a 48 year olf man. I love him very much but, in the pass he has been very verbally abusive, calling me bitches and saying fuck you! I forgave him when he asked for forgiveness and ...
Husband says he can't make love, but I caught him pleasuring himself! What should I do?
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5 answers
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3960 days ago
23 February 2014 (F) -
My husband I have been married for 28 years. Second marriage for us both. He is 71 now and I an 10 years younger. The problem is that I still have a healthy sex drive and since my husband turned 65 he has claimed he doesn't get excited anymore....
Boyfriend cannot express his emotional needs and its driving me away!
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7 answers
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3960 days ago
23 February 2014 (F) -
I have been with my boyfriend for a few years but have only recently lived together. Up until lately we have been doing very well 99% of the time. We have strong feelings for each other and are an ideal couple. I am 28 and he is a few years youn...
Wrong name caused husband's family to miss flight to see ill family member. How do I help husband get over the guilt?
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3 answers
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3961 days ago
23 February 2014 (F) -
The other night my husband's close friend's sister who lives in the south (we live in the north east) hung herself (very sad as there was no indication just 1 day before in social network posts). She was actually found and revived, then sent to a ...
Even if I started something with this co-worker it couldn't last. What do I do?
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2 answers
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3960 days ago
23 February 2014 (F) -
Hi, i am so disturbed because I like this guy very much.we started out as friends but he took it to another level by really engaging with me, getting at a very personal level.I have a partner but my relationship with him is not strong.This guy on ...
We have rekindled our childhood romance.
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3 answers
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3960 days ago
23 February 2014 (F) -
Hell!!! I've been dating a guy for three months and we both still have feelings for each other from when we were kids. We dated when we were 16 years old and I still feel like a nervous teen since we rekindled the flame. At least twice a week...
It feels like I am no longer good enough for him!
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4 answers
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3960 days ago
22 February 2014 (F) -
Hello Dear cupid ladies and Gentlemen. I'm in a very confusing situation with my boyfriend of a year. For starters our relationship is going straight to the ground. Since January we've been fighting a lot every single day! And he's been acti...
All are blaming me for reporting what I had to. What are your thoughts on people be allowed to bring their children or baby to their workplace?
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16 answers
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3961 days ago
22 February 2014 (F) -
What is everyone's opinion on people bringing their babies/ children to the work place? The reason I ask is because last week 1 of my colleagues, who is on maternity leave came in with her baby who is 7 months old. We work in a call centre and...
We were in a rut. But has our break of 5 months gone on too long for us to start again?
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2 answers
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3961 days ago
22 February 2014 (F) -
Hi all, Cut a long story short, me and my ex boyfriend were together for four years. We started arguing all of the time and the relationship became stuck in a rut! We were making each other miserable so we decided to take a break from the re...
Do I stay or let him go? Just found out that my Bf is expecting a child with his Ex
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4 answers
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3961 days ago
22 February 2014 (?) -
I have just found out that my boyfriend (whom I have crazily fallen for, never had a man treat me so amazing) is expecting a baby with his ex. I am a jealous person (unfortunately) and I see myself becoming pushed down on his priority list when thi...
After a year this is what our sex life has become?
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5 answers
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3957 days ago
22 February 2014 (F) -
My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year. We used to have sex alot! But this month we've only had sex once he's 21 and im 20. The last time two times we've started having sex he just stops and says he's to tired, or his legs or whatever is ...
Girls: getting over your crush. After all, if he can't value and respect you - then who needs him?
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so you had a crush on him, and you were pretty sure he had a crush on you too. you gave your precious heart to him, and he totally stamped it in to the ground, because the next thing you know, he's with another chick! so, what to do? firstly,...
She's confusing me... where do I stand?
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3 answers
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3962 days ago
21 February 2014 (M) -
I am really feeling confused with this girl. I sometimes have the impression she likes me, but I also have the impression my mind is playing tricks on me. I will begin with a small summary about me: I am a 29 yo guy who has little experience in lo...
I don't think my boyfriend finds me attractive - help?
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10 answers
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3962 days ago
21 February 2014 (F) -
We have been dating for about 5 months but we were good friends first. I really do believe he loves me and he tells me I'm pretty all the time but I just don't believe him when he say that. I feel like he says it just to make me happy, but he ...
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