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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year. We used to have sex alot! But this month we've only had sex once he's 21 and im 20. The last time two times we've started having sex he just stops and says he's to tired, or his legs or whatever is hurting he hasn't finished at all this month and he always stops. But he jacks off with no problem at all. And he's been doing it quit a bit. Could he be cheating or just interested in me anymor?
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reader, kittykatt131313 +, writes (27 February 2014):
well it is because it has gotten boring. sorry to say but he is bored of your sexual relationship. mix it up as much as you two feel nessiary. maybe you could do a few things that you normally don't do that would turn him on, or better yet, instead of guessing, ask him! ask him about what turns him on the most. then open yourself up to exploring what turns him on. ive been in a relationship with my lover for almost a year as well, and he has a thing for my backside. so I show it off (to him only) as much as he wants to see it. just be a sexy strong lady!
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reader, _Sandra_ +, writes (24 February 2014):
Maybe he has some health problems that spoil all satisfaction? You should talk about it seriously. Just tell him that you miss him and are up to listen to him if he has some trust issues or something else
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reader, CMMP +, writes (22 February 2014):
He's obviously not terribly interested in sex, that doesn't mean he's not interested in you. At his age I didn't care how tired I was, I would have sex all night long of the situation called for it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2014): Just because you guys hardly have sex, it doesn't mean he's cheating or he's not interested in you! He may not like sex very much, or maybe something else. If he wasn't interested in you, you wouldn't be together, right?
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reader, person12345 +, writes (22 February 2014):
He needs to masturbate less. He's desensitizing himself to sex because his hand has a totally different feel.
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