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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:2 years ago I met this guy online we became friends straight away It seemed we connected really well we had almost everything in common He asked me to meet in real life and I accepted. He didn't try anything bad with me and we had a great time In fact he asked me to go and see him alot of times afterwards but I couldn't because of exams We Spoke very often trough email although he was always the one to start a conversation with me.I guess I kept quiet alot of the time because truth is I hate to start conversations with people. We went from speaking every so often to once every week to about 2-3 times a week it seemed great he asked for my phone number and we spoke trough phone as well.Then one day we stayed up for two days talking and it was absulutely amazing.Troughout our conversations he would always cheer me on and tell me that I'm an incredible woman and that he loved the fact I'm smart. Then summer came we both had summer plans so we only spoke about 5 times during summer.But still although he was out with his friends i found it incredible he still found the time to say hi to me.After that we spoke for two days straight then 2 weeks after and then again.But I felt afraid I was falling for him so i deleted him off my facebook [wich would have broken up our main form of contact] he became very quiet and I understood it to be honest but I was having a very difficult time with my best friend and I found that if I did fall for him I'd be really hurt since we live about 2 hours from each other.But truth is those 2 months we didn't speak were really hard I missed how he always made me happy how we always insulted each other and how he'd speak about when I moved closer to him we would make a world of our own. After two months I sent him an email we spoke for quite a long time and he even asked me to go on a trip with him.I could't go because of family issues.He asked me to talk to him more often I said okay but i disappeared again because of exams. When i came back after about 2 weeks I wanted to set things right so I added him on facebook.I saw he had just gotten into a relationship with this girl he had knows for years.I was very surprised he had never shown any interest in her but she was always after him.I saw the posts on his page by her [there were quite a few] and only one was answered and even that one had just one reply.I logged out very quickly my heart was racing.I logged in again that night I went onto his page he had deleted anything to do with her. I sent him a message saying sorry for not keeping up to my promisse and explaining everything.He then deleted his facebook account only to come back one month later. He began talking to me again [4 times in a week] and Once again I had to leave because I'm getting ready to move.I went back they've been dating for maybe 4 months now but he's still deleting her posts os his page,deleting his link/status anything that she comments on he wont allow her to tag him in her pictures but allows his friends to.He wont post pictures of them two either although she does.Basically she seems very clingy. I posted something on his profile see if he'd delete it-He didn't. Should I forget and even be friends with this guy? Does he seem in love with her? Or should i just wait and see?
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reader, sammy1986 +, writes (25 June 2011):
i think think guy is not interested in her she seems very clingy if he is deleting her msgs all the time that shows he is not interested it sounds as though he is interested in you i would try talking to him just be very honest with him about how you feel and say you expect him to do the same hope things work out how you want good luck
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