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writes:I'm falling for my boyfriends friend, what do I do? He gives me more attention then my boyfriend does! Reply to this Question
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reader, trublonde  +, writes (29 May 2011):
I have been dealing with the same problem.
My boyfriend's friend likes me back, and treats me like I'm his girlfriend, more than my boyfriend does.
I think the thing is that once the guy is your boyfriend, since you are already a couple, he thinks he doesn't have to pay any attention to you or work as hard to be with you. That is just my oppinion though.
I would stay with your boyfriend as long as things are alright between you guys. Because if you go out with his friend, it will cause problems in their friendship, and any relationship between you and him.
Hope anything I said helped!
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reader, MilkPudding  +, writes (29 May 2011):
Asked my brother about this:
Sometimes, boys tend not to show too much care to their gfs because they are like afraid they might be showing too much care and invading their gfs' privacy. So, it could be that your bf is trying not to suffocate you or something like that. At the same time, your friend's bfs is a no-no. That's ,my opinion, I guess.
How long have you been with your bff? A few years? And just how long have you been with her bf? A year or so? Which one do you treasure more? If you think 'my bff is not important', go for her bf, if you still treasure your bff, forget about him. If you don't want to give up either, you can try talking to her, but there's a risk she'll not be able to accept this, either for a while, or forever.
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