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What is the definition of a real man?

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Question - (18 May 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 May 2011)
A female United States age 36-40, *nt323 writes:

just need answers, i want to know what is the definition of a REAL MAN. ive been dating this guy for over 3 yrs and he tells me he is a real man..... first of all he is 26 yrs old, doesnt have a high school diploma, or ged, doesnt have a job at this moment,he lives with his mother but he lived on his own when he was 19 and came back home at 23 and he has the nerve to say he already moved out on his own he dont need to do it again so soon, he has a daughter but she lives in florida with the mother and he dont do nothin for her, i on the other hand am a single mother of twin boys, im unemployed because of this recession but im collecting unemployments benefits and im going to school to get my associates degree which he hates because he doesnt like me going to school because he is afraid of losing me to another guy, he doesnt trust me, he constantly askes me for money like im workin, when i cant even barely take care of my self, and he says he loves me? he forces me to give him oral sex but he doesnt pleases me, when we having sex is all about him, tease him,kiss him, please him, ride him, everything is about him, and i gets no pleasure at all, and theres ALOT OF OTHER THINGS but is wayyyyyyy to long to even write about it, so all im asking is whats the definition of a real man just being boyfriend and girlfriend?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (18 May 2011):

A real man is the opposite of what you have. I can't really ad to the other posts below. I'll just tell you get away from him.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2011):

take everything you just said here...and make it the exact opposite. there's your answer of a "real man."

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (18 May 2011):

Tisha-1 agony auntYou don't have a real man. You have an abuser. Get out. If you don't feel you can, here's a website for you: http://www.thehotline.org/

Good luck to you.

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