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writes:Hi!Here's my story...My girlfriend (of three years) has gone to university about four months ago, while I am on a year off (going to a diff uni in sept..8 months from now). Her uni is only 2 hours away away so we would see each other often and everything was going great until 5 weeks ago! 5 weeks ago we meet up (after not seeing each other for 3 weeks) and i was pretty grumpy and we just didn't really connect that night. ever since then she has been weird (through text since we only meet up in person every 2-3 weeks). well she said no no its okay and things went back to normal for about a week afterwards then she was being wierd again for the next two weeks! I knew something was wrong so we met up in person for the first time since the one night when I was grumpy and she said she needed a break etc. to figure out if she still likes me as much and stuff. well we didn't talk for 10 days then she called me and wanted to break up but decided we should just meet up in a week when shes home and hang out and see if the spark ignites again in our relationship. the hangout is approaching, what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2010): Thanks for the help!
I'm still wondering what to do on the hangout though? if she wants to get back together do i accept? do i kiss her when i see her? ahh
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2010): The fact is when you go off to university it is a life changing experience. A great chance to develope as a person. I saw a few friends who had boyfriends 'at home' when they started end things because they wanted fully to socialize and enjoy the whole uni experience. This may be what is happening here. People change and it is a natural process. Meet up when she comes home, take it easy. If you are meant to be together, you will be.
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