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What should I do about my persistent ex?

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Question - (17 December 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 18 December 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My ex keeps calling me like 5 times a day and wants me to be his gf, what should I do?

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A female reader, allmyheart United States +, writes (18 December 2010):

Ignore him. I was in this same situation...my ex called me over and over again, leaving several voicemails a day, and emailed me everyday also. This went on for a month, until he found out that I moved to college. Like others have said, DON'T ANSWER. It was really hard to ignore my ex...he'd leave messages and made it sound like he was really hurt and depressed, but I couldn't give in. Luckily, I had good friends to help me through it and not give in. It stops eventually. Be strong.

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A male reader, TimmD United States +, writes (17 December 2010):

TimmD agony auntDon't answer. The second you answer your phone it opens the door for him and gives him hope. DO. NOT. ANSWER.

If he comes by your house, do not open the door. If he sees you at school, ignore him.

If you truly ignore him he will have no choice but to go away. But the second you engage in a conversation with him you lose and he wins.

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A female reader, Tbosse South Africa +, writes (17 December 2010):

Tbosse agony auntTell him to stop calling you. And that you dont wanna his girlfriend anymore

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A female reader, OliviaAna United States +, writes (17 December 2010):

OliviaAna agony auntConcentrate on your education. He sounds like a desperate idiot and needs to stop calling. Get your parents to file a restraining order on him if you need to. Stop taking his calls!!! Ignore him! You're only 16 and you have other things in life to worry about...not boys!!

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