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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:i have been with my boyfriend for 4 yrs but not sure if its what i want anymore im so confused i just dont no how to feel about him. He doesnt really show me any affection unless i ask and sex is a very sore subject to approach to him because every time i do, it makes him feel under pressure to perform. It has become boring its always in the mornings when he wants it and always the same position i dont mean to put him down but i need this kind of intimacy from him i haven't had the worst of upbringing's but i haven't had the best either my mum moved away when i was 18 leaving me to find a place to live and having to stand on my own two feet which makes me feel like i need attention and want to be made to feel loved i dont have much family around me so need him even more he's the only long boyfriend ive had i sometimes feel to young to settle down im now 21 and think i should be out there having fun but i dont want to be on my own and regret the decision of gettin rid of him. I feel like im just floating along in life with him im not sure if im answering my own question's here i think i'd rather have someone tell me wat to do rather than make the decision myself im scared and confused i know other people have bigger problems in life and i feel a bit pathetic in complaining but i feel really unhappy and just need some wise and comforting words from someone else because when i cry my boyfriend tell's me to stop bein silly so i try to keep it all ive struggled alot in the last four years from moving out and things i have found out so it doesnt help that he makes me feel unwanted and unloved i have spoken to him and asked him o change but he doesnt i dont feel he does there things on purpose wat should i do x
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reader, Nic390  +, writes (20 October 2009):
 Maybe you should try to seduce him at night or in the middle of the day. Tell him you wanna try new things different positions. Tell him if he doesn't change then you are going to have to move on.
Or you can just ask if you two could be friends so then you have a friend even if you don't have a boyfriend anymore.
Thats what I think but wait for more people to reply to it.
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