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writes:My. Boyfriend and I have been together for almost four years. It has had it's ups and downs but we have been getting along very well lately. I recently snooped on his computer even though I know I shouldn't have. But there were a bunch of messagages from old girl friends. One saying she still loved him and miss him. He also wrote to different girls saying he missed them and he missed being happy with them. That was it. I know he is not cheating. I asked him about it but he shrugged me off and didn't say much. It has been bothering me like crazy. We are still getting along great and I love him very much and would like to marry him one day but I can't stop thinking about it. Should I ask him to stop talking to the girls because I think he still is. Should I try to forget because he is with me and I shouldn't have snooped? Help Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (19 October 2009):
What's done is done. And perhaps on this occasion snooping has found something. The fact is that he's been telling these girls he has been missing them and when you confronted him, he simply shrugged it off, offering no other explanation. That's not good. Either he stops talkin to these other girls, or you'll have to make a decision about whether you want to be second best. Hope it works out for you.
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