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writes:Me and my ex just got back together and i dont know what it is but i dont think she wants to be with me. Two times when i ask her for us to go out she tells me lets just be friends. I ask her y and she says cause she dont like going out she would rather be at her house. I dont belive that cause i know sometimes she does go out. I think its just that she dont wana go out with me. I told her that when i asked her out again why did she say yes if shes gona be telling me lets just be friends. She said that cause she wants to be with me. I told her if u really do wanna be with me and if u care show me u do dont just say it. I dont know what to do. Can anybody help me plz
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reader, helpisathand  +, writes (19 October 2009):
in my opinion there is a reason why you broke up and are you just getting back together because its easier? does she pick and choose when she wants you to suit her? i dont want to sound horrible but is it because she has noone else?? if so you are better than this and do not deserve to be treated in this way. if i were you id tell her you do not want to be with her. things clearly are not right between you and life is to short to make things work with the wrong person. it may be hard short term but in the long term you will meet someone who respects and appreciated you for you and would love to be seen out with you and spend time with you. hope this helps
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (19 October 2009):
 Yes I can help you.
She is keeping you on the back burner in case the guy she is seeing does not work out. So she hides at your house when she wants to be with you.
She does not want to spoil something with the other guy by being seen in public with you. Its an age old game that young and old people alike play when they are playing selfish little games.
Make her decision for her...DUMP HER!
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