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Archived questions from: 21 January, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Ready to live with my boyfriend and become estranged to my parents... HELP!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm so desperate I've resorted to asking over the internet. My parents told me they are never going to accept my boyfriend. He is 36 and I am 20. We've been dating for 2 years. He is a nightclub promoter and has been having money pro...

My own mum makes me feel unwanted and depressed...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - Hi, sorry but this is a little long. I'm realy wanting some advice as I'm feeling like I'm going out of my mind at the moment. I'm 21 years old and I still live at home with my parents. The thing is they both drink a lot. To get to the point...

I don't want to mess everything up like I did last time.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - Hey everyone, I need as much advice as I can get please! Basically, ages ago I wrote about a stupid thing I did (met a boy on the internet, fell in love but I was using pics of some random gorgeous girl instead of myself) I deceived him and went to ...

Baby mama drama

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - Just wanted to know should I be concerned if I'm dating a guy who has a daughter with his past relationship and he says that he has a close relationship with the mother of his child but she be acting like their back together like when she calls him ...

My ex boyfriend today called me a cling on.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - Hi all, my ex boyfriend today called me a cling on, yes I still do like him but I'm no way like that, Anyway I rang him 2 confront him and I said comon then what do you really think of me, he said that I was annoying sometimes but I know that any...

I talk to other guys on the phone, should I tell my BF?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5775 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend been together for 2 yrs now and i really love him and everything but i like to conversate with other guys. i never technically cheat but i talk on da fone wit them late @ night and go out with them places and thats where it ...

Is this only friendship or could there be more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - ** I had ask this question already, but I only got one response. I would like several people to answer so I can get an idea** had been chatting with this guy for 4 years and I decided to go meet him. I went over to his state to meet with him, h...

My boyfriend never wants to see me, but always has time for his XBox!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend never wants to see me. We only ever see each other at school. I ask him if he wants to meet up on a weekend but he always says he's busy, and half of the time I know he's not busy because he'll be on his Xbox all day. I feel like he ...

Follow-up: Does he plan to stay married to her?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - I have a question in regards to my previous post I'm 18 he's 28, and he's married. Anyways the back story for those of you who don't know is that he likes me everybody knows, but he's married to an evil 50 yr old lady who has recently been arrested ...

He changed his mind about wanting to marry me when his parents said they don't approve!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - HI, I am in a major predicament. I met my boyfriend in the UK, and we have been dating for sometime. I am 30, and he is 35 and we are both Jatt Sikh (same caste and religion). We are also both divorced. I am madly in love with him and he tells...

Is my boss opening up to me emotionally so that we can have a closer relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - I'm in love with my boss and we have worked together for quite some time, we both shared personal details of how we had been mistreated in the past which resulted in both of us crying openly and at length in the privacy of his office, I told him I ...

Is there a chance that my guy will fall in love with me after all this time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - I have been living with this guy for four years. We have been seeing each other for 4 and a half years. Everything is good we don't fight we get along. On news years eve of this past year he told me that he was not in love with me. He told me he ...

He just likes to look at porn ALL NIGHT, and jerk off..

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - OKay so, I talked to him last night about the asian porn and everything he lusts after.. I told him. When I stress it's not good for the baby.. And he told me porn is fine.. And I said "every day" He was just well, there's the door if you don't like ...

So confused about this relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - I recently joined a dating site and got talking to a local guy we exchanged mobile numbers and he invited me through to his for a meal. All went well we text a bit and we were due to meet again but something come up, the texts stopped. I sent him ...

It seems impossible. How can I get him to cum???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - I've been with my bf for three weeks, we have a good sex life, but he hasn't came yet. I've asked if he's nervous, but he says he doesn't know what's wrong. He's never been like it before. He did say he hasn't always used condoms with his exes, they ...

My g/f hates my ex wife and its almost destroyed our relationship

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

21 January 2009 (M) - Hello, I'm a divorced father of three girls. I have known my ex wife for over 18 years. We vowed to stay friends after the divorce for the sake of the kids. We talk on a daily basis about the goings on with our girls. They are in many activiti...

We're breaking up, getting together over and over..what is wrong with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

21 January 2009 (M) - Been with her for a 1 1/2 years. She has broken up with me at least 12 times. I leave her alone and she comes crawling back, calling, texting, emailing, until I agree to see her. We end up back together everytime. Then when we are back together she ...

Do I break away or give it a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5775 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - Hi Im very new to this - infact this is the first ever time i have posted a question but im really interested in an outsiders point of view. Basically i met a guy 2 years ago now and i fell for him hook line and sinker, we were only togethe...

G/f & I want to live in different countries & neither of us wants to give in

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

21 January 2009 (M) - Hi. I've been with my g/f for the last 18 months now in UK. All is great but I have an issue of her wanting to live in the UK when I want us to live in Oz. Seems that neither of us are willing to budge. Seems that she expects me to let go of ...

His ex is a friend of mine but sometimes I questions her motives

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - Hi guys. My boyfriend and I have a mutual friend, who is a girl, who happens to be his ex from about 4 years ago. We have been together for 3, and have lived together for 1. The thing that upsets me is that a long time ago, I know that when h...

Should I marry him? Or wait?

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21 January 2009 (F) - I'm divorced with young children and engaged to a man I love very much. We've been engaged now for over a year and I haven't set a date for the wedding. He recently found out that some members of my family think he is too controlling and he may not ...

B/f upset--pastor says no fornication!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - my pastor says i should not commit sin of fornication(sex between young ones) and my boyfriend is really pissed off cos wev neva sexed since we started dating for 10months now. am 20yrs and he is 26yrs working in a company.... wat do i do i really ...

My boyfriend says I whine

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - so my boy friend says i whine but i dont believe i am when he says i am we use to be like best friends now i feel like were barley friends i feel like all he care's about is playing video games and smoking w/ his friends i no im kinda clingy but ...

Will I be making a mistake if I dump him now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - Guys, my boyfriend of almost 2 years hasn't really been treating me well, we have been in along distance relationship but calling and messaging has been my responsibility alone he calls only when he wants,alot of things and i mean alot of thngs have ...

He left me for another woman but I'm not convinced it's over

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - my boyfriend left me just before christmas after 11 years for another women he met one night after getting drunk he told me he been seening her for 3 wks before at least he been honest with me there. he moved straight in with her she has chidren too ...

We always fight and I feel like he doesn't want me sexually anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - ok so me and my bf have been together over 2 yrs and we are always together we live together and everything we always fight over the stupidest things i hate fighting with him and he says it's cuz i whine all the time and cuz im to clingy what ...

I don't want to lose her but she's not ready for a relationship now. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

21 January 2009 (M) - i have recently met a girl n we have been talkin for about 6wks now n we get on like a house on fire and have met up a few times aswel. we both enjoy each others company cos we have so much in common n feel we can tell each other everything. the ...

I don't love him 100% but I want to settle down with him. Any tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5776 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid I have been in a relationship with a guy for three years now and we are planning to get married soon. the problem is i dont love him 100 %. plz help with tips to improve on my love life because i feel he is the right guy for me and i want...

Is this considered cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - I went on my bf of 1 years my space account and saw that a girl emailed him something called a hubby appliction. On it he said that he wants to have sex with her, kiss her and stuff like that. He has never met this girl and she lives across the ...

Is it okay for a guy to give me oral sex but not kiss me? I'm getting turned off, what do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - I'm seeing a guy for 2 months now, he seems quite ok, but my worry is I noticed he doesn't like kissing me. He has been on vacation for a month and came back 4 days ago, we met and he just hugged me, I spent the night with him, cuddled no sex coz I ...

My husband doesn't like engage in sexual intercourse

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - hi,its not even a year that i have got married.we had a love marriage.my husband does not like to indulge in sex.we hav sex once in three months,which is again initiated by me always.there is absolutely zero intimacy between us.he does not like to ...

My friend won't respond in over 2 weeks!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5776 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - IDK, my best friend just up and left me. Ok, here's the story my best friend came into town and I wasn't able to see him. I could sense he was a little upset but that was two weeks ago. I call and txt he won't respond what happened?...

Difference between gut feeling & being paranoid

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - Hi, After a partner has cheated how to you differenciate between "am I just been paranoid" or is this "my gut feeling". My b/f cheated last year. We're trying to work things out and it seems to be fine. We live apart which dosent help me at all e...