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Archived questions from: 25 January, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He claims he didn't get my texts... something fishy here don't you think?

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25 January 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and just recently had to switch it up to a long distance relationship when he moved this past summer. We seemed to be holding strong but now for some reason I think he is lying to me. This past Friday ...

Is he now avoiding me?

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25 January 2009 (F) - I recently wrote asking advice about my bf who has been blowing hot and cold. No intimacy since April and did not see over xmas. He's tried to make contact and I could not/would not speak to him. Got his son to phone and he tried to speak t...

Fireman blues...

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25 January 2009 (F) - I went out with this man and he has now started shifts as a fireman for the first time. Working 2 days shifts 9am till 6pm and then 2 night shifts 6pm till 9am and then 4 days off. Everything was great until started working these shifts, he even ...

Footie Thug But I Love Him

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25 January 2009 (F) - I've met and fallen in love with the man of my dreams. We started in September last year and we are besotted with each other. He's 15 years older than me - I'm 26 - but it doesn't matter. We just click. However, there is one snag. He comes ...

Can a grown man with experience be this weird?

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25 January 2009 (F) - I've know this guy for a longtime. I really love him but we have never been bf gf though he treats me like it when we are out together. He is ALWAYS making really sexual remarks. However, nothing actually happens even if I let him know I'm ...

I want my b/f to grow up!

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25 January 2009 (?) - My boyfriend and me have been together for 4 years now. Well hes been a bit of a jerk lately, here's why. 1. He forgot he had to meet my parents and me look stupid. 2. He forgot my birthday 2 times in a row. 3. When he make it to me we bot...

I build up the courage to tell him to go and then chicken out

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25 January 2009 (F) - I have been married for 7 months and with him for 6 years. I have a 12 year old daughter from a previous relationship . My husband and I have had various problems like most couples and my daughter and him do not get on, I know she would prefer i...

Is this an affair?

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25 January 2009 (F) - Ladies:- If your man was meeting up with a woman behind your back, just to help him out financially because she likes him a lot - would you consider this as having an affair?...

My b/f is constantly attacking and has tried to kill himself

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25 January 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend very dearly but now I'm unsure how to act with him because of his constant attacks which are pretty much unprovoked and the time he tried to kill himself. For example, I might mis pronounce something and he will totally fli...

I can't remember what happened after drinking

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25 January 2009 (M) - Hello i have been with my wife 15 years we have been married 8 years we have got two lovely kids i love them all very much but the thing is when i go out drinking i never know when to stop and i always end up out of it and my family just get ...

He seems the same as what he's always been, except for this strange lying!

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25 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for a year and a half, and we're extremely close and have never argued or had any problems. He's usually very honest and open with me I'm the same with him - we tell each other everything. So this i...

My g/f never wants sex now

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

25 January 2009 (M) - im a 21 yr old guy im pretty good looking. ive been with my girlfriend for 3 years. the first 9 months our sex lives for great. we would have sex at least once or twice a day. my girlfriend is 22 yr old. we had a baby about a year in a half ago. my ...

If a woman never complains about him, will a man take advantage of her or be more responsive?

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25 January 2009 (F) - If a woman never complains, and is always pleasant and supportive, will a man take advantage of her or will he become more responsive? My sister privately agonizes over a gentleman who has admitted he is only interested in dating. She, however, i...

It's like he's got cold feet- only we're not getting married.

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25 January 2009 (F) - I am having a huge problem. My boyfriend of 3 years has recently revealed he has started to have doubts. In the last two weeks. He confessed he has only slept with two other people and he thinks that he is "missing out" and that he is "too young". ...

A troubled long distance relationship...

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25 January 2009 (M) - I'm in a bit of a pickle. I met this girl online, around a year and a half ago, and we have been together pretty much ever since. The thing is, she lives in the US, I live a couple of oceans to the right, in northern Europe. She's all I have ever ...

Jealous and mistrust is playing a big part into our relationship

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25 January 2009 (F) - Right well this isnt really a life or death situation but any feedback,as always,greatly appreciated... Im with my boyfriend a year the nd of april.However, weve been childhood sweethearts,so we know the ins and outs of each other. The only ...

He's about to ruin everything for us

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25 January 2009 (F) - I am having a huge problem. My boyfriend of 3 years has recently revealed he has started to have doubts. In the last two weeks. He confessed he has only slept with two other people (he did say a much bigger number as he is a man) and he thinks that ...

He runs hot and cold and its been going on for awhile now

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25 January 2009 (F) - My question is whether to give up on this relationship. I have been with my boyriend for a year and a half. We are in our late thirties, both divorced, I have kids. We seem to have a great relationship, fun, passion, affection. We have been on ...

I'm pregnant, boyfriend doesn't understand I want an appartment of my own...

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25 January 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend has been living together for almost 1 yr now. I do love him, but I think we should get seperate apts. I dont want to break up with him but he thinks I does. By the way, I am 7 months pregnant with my first child, his second ...

How can I deal with not being able to see my long-distance lover??

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25 January 2009 (F) - Hi there, I got so stressed due to my long distance relationship. Hmm, both of us are High School students which is the most troublesome problem.. (he's in OH but i'm CA, we've met several times when we were in China, btw, we are Chinese.) Our t...

Boyfriend or crush??

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25 January 2009 (F) - I have a boyfriend and have been with him for 4.5 years and for the past week we have been fighting a lot over nothing, i have recently been feeling attracted to another guy who also has a girlfriend, i know he is also attracted to me because he is ...

I feel like I need to leave him alone...but I really can't!

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25 January 2009 (F) - I just graduated college a couple weeks ago. While I was in college I had a few guy friends, but I never had a boyfriend. There was one particular guy that I messed around with for about 2 years. I loved spending time with him and I loved beening ...

Being naked in front of a man terrifies me....any advice??

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25 January 2009 (F) - Ive got a weird problem. Ive lost 5 stone in weight and im am a slim size 10. I do have a little excess skin on my tummy from the weight loss but the i seem to have a fat vagina. Its sticks out when i lie down like a mountain and when i stand up it ...

We have FWB relationship, I want more, he still has feelings for ex!

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25 January 2009 (F) - Hi Everyone! Iam so sad and disappointed at the moment and really dont know what to do. Please tell me what the best thing I have to do right now. I have been with a man for 4 months, I really had fun with him, and of course we had sex ( great...

Abusive relationship pushing me over edge & now I am cutting myself

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - I've been in what I think is an emotionally abusive relationship for months now and I can not bring myself out of it. I have lost all of my strength. I will try to keep this short... ...after months of being accused of being unfaithful, after mo...

How do I let him know I appreciate him?

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25 January 2009 (F) - Hey, I'm having a problem with myself and my boyfriend. He is a very hard worker, and works two jobs to make sure that we live comfortably, because I go to school and can only work so much so my grades don't suffer. But lately, he hasn't been ...

Too jealous?

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25 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I go out to a club every week and every time he will see a girl that he finds attractive and will check her out. I don't like it and I will ask him why did he do that. He says I should not worry about it as he is just looking. Is ...

Disapproves when I don't fit in to his idea of perfect

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25 January 2009 (F) - I'd like to state from the outset that there are good parts, dinners out for which he pays, picnics, a sweet/romantic Christmas gift...but: I feel my partner is always trying to improve me, be it teaching me to cook (for which I am grateful) to ...