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Archived questions from: 24 January, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

This man is humiliating me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - i have moved to italy with my partner and two kids one girl 12 (her dad is not involved with her life) and our son 2years old.... my partner is never home is is a long distance truck driver, he is completly no fun what so ever he moans about ...

My guy is acting like a yo-yo--back & forth

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - my fella keeps running away from our relationship.then coming bac he swears there is no one else.any advice anyone...

I was upset & sent bitchy text, how do I undo what I did?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - Hi, i think i may have screwed up with a guy i like, i sent him a really bitchy message cos he annoyed me. he canceled our plans and i replied on a whim. At the time I was annoyed and thought he was blowing me off. He's really shy and sweet and ...

My high sex drive may end our relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - I'm absolutely in love with my boyfriend and have been pretty much from day one after meeting him, I moved 600 miles, from Scotland to London to be with him full time after just meeting him 4 times (for 3-7 days each time) I don’t regret any of it ...

What ways are there to help explain to her that I did not mean to violate her trust and what can I do to help bring our friendship back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - Yesterday, I was at a party at my friend's house. Everyone was really drunk, and making out. My friend and her ex-boyfriend hooked up (all the way) and then she got mad after and went to sleep. I'm friends with the ex, so I followed him out to the ...

The first love won't keep her distance.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - Hello Cupid viewers/helpers I hope that you don't just sift through this section and not say anything, as I have met my match so to speak- Here is the story. I am engaged to a wonderful man of nearly 4 years. We began dating about 4 years ag...

I don't know... Am I overreacting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - Hello everyone, I'm writing to you guys for relationship advice. For the past few days I've been really upset with my boyfriend because on thursday he wanted me to come over an spend time with him and I did. He practially rushed me to come over and...

I sit in the bedroom on my own and avoid my husband and kids because I don't know how to tell them the truth.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - I have been married for 19 years... the majority of that time I have been unhappy. I have done everything I can to make sure everyone else is happy. I feel so unhappy and alone. I don't want to upset anyone, even when my husband had an affair I ...

I'm really confused and unsure If I'm being walked all over.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

24 January 2009 (M) - Hello all ! I'm going through a bit of a confusing time regarding my relationship with my boyfriend. First of all I'm gay, but it shouldn't have any bearing on my dilemma. I know that you guys and girls give good advice cos I've seen it before! ...

Is my husband lying or my sister?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - I really dont know where to begin other than I suspected my husband had feelings for my sister and thought maybe she felt the same way. One night many years ago they held back whilst walking home and my instincts told me something was not right. ...

Anger and resentment kicking in. Don't want it to!!

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24 January 2009 (F) - Hey all. Have written before but just a quick update, in October when my husband was home for his days off I discovered an email from his lover who he had been with for about a month when he was working away from home. He did go back to her for ...

My lost love...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

24 January 2009 (M) - I've been with this girl over a year now and I'm 15, she used to love me until we had this massive breakup, I'm pretty much in love with her and we're now back together, but it's been a month since the argument and I've been so much of a better ...

Should I get into a relationship with her even though she lives a hours journey away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 January 2009 (M) - Well for the past 3/4 years I've known I was gay but pretty recently I've started gettng closer and closer to this really cute girl.. We had sex and now it's just left me confused, I don't know what she wants or if she wants anything at all. A...

Not ready for a commitment

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

24 January 2009 (M) - What should I do when my heart isn't into a relationship?Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a little over 3 years. And I've been laid off from jobs three times in the last two years.Sometimes I just don't have the emotional strength to get ...

I've been patiently waiting for her and now she wants to cool things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5786 days ago

24 January 2009 (M) - My question is about my girlfriend with whom I have been for about 7 months. The story is that we met through a mutual friend - her best friend is a work colleague of mine and he invited me out. After a month or two it became apparent that we liked ...

He doesn't know if he will carry on relationship or not

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - Recently my boyfriend is acting so strange. He did not asking to meet me for more than months. We see each other at school everyday; we work together in same school. When I asked him what’s wrong first time he said I am the type of man who runs ...

Why do I feel awkward around female co-worker?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

24 January 2009 (M) - Hello. I've been quite contented in a relationship which has lasted so far for 2 years. However, I feel rather awkward when I'm talking to a particular woman at work. When other guys talk to her I feel a little knot in my stomach. So what does this ...

Kid's dad is threatening to take me to court

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5786 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - I am getting ready to give birth to my baby boy on February 14th (lets see). My daughters dad and soon to be kids dad is threatening to take me to court for 50/50 custody (in which he signed over his rights to our daughter). He haven't been around. ...

I feel like he doesn't respect me...is this marriage worth saving??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5787 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - Is there any hope for my marriage? I have been married for 23 years. Throughout most of the marriage my husband has done just about anything he's wanted. He doesn't feel as if he should be accountable to me. He has lost large amounts of money in ...

My b/f says he doesn't want to be with someone who is addicted?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

I feel like we're in a rut and our relationship isn't progressing... what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - I have a lovely boyfriend I have been seeing for a few months. I knew him as a friend for some time before we started having a relationship, so although it's only been a few months, we know each other well. But I'm starting to feel left out. He has ...

Love from past contacted me after 12 years..we're both married!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

24 January 2009 (M) - What does she want from me? I recently opened a facebook account and not one week after posting my picture a woman from my past that I had asked to marry me sent me a message. She said, after a wee bit of small talk, that she had somethi...

I wanna fall back in love with her but I don't feel it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5787 days ago

24 January 2009 (M) - I am 15 years old my girlfriend loves me more than anything in da world she writes me poems and everything things come between us like her parents and not going to same school but we talk everyday i think bout girls in a bad way but i wanna stop i ...