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Archived questions from: 23 January, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I couldn't see myself moving across the country to be with her but I miss her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

23 January 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm extremely confused about a decision I made regarding an important relationship of mine. My girlfriend had to move across the country, and I was extremely hesitant to follow her because she had an incredible amount of difficulty openi...

Its almost exhausting to be with him & all the joking

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5787 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - Ok this may be a long one..First, let me start with background. We have been seeing each other 9 months. 6 of those he was away playing ball but he lives here. He is a nice guy, very intuitive and sweet. Raised by a single mom and definite...

He's obsessed with the computer, and I'm neglected!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - 23 January 2009: Im in a relationship and seem to be unable to get my mans attention. He is always on the computer and messing around and I feel neglected in many areas.I am at my ropes end and dont know what to do.........All I want is to feel ...

He shows no signs of caring anymore, how do I stop being in love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5787 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - I live with him. Well, He lives with me. I am young independent and have a lot going for me. I never hold it over his head that I give him a lot.. food shelter clothing love cell phone car ect... all the things i've done have been because I love ...

In love with my best friend who denies it, has anyone been in this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5786 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - I've been in love with my best friend for about 4 years, and its getting too much to bare, and I need some advice! We're both 18 and single, and have known each other for about 15 years, since playschool really, but only best friends for about 8 ...

How can he say that he loves me and then let me down so bad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - I am new to this so please bear with me. My problem is i was going out with a man for a few months and we have just broke up and i am heartbroken. I have known this man for 20 years or so we dated a bit when we were younger. We meet again last ...

Are my fiance's bizarre behaviors something to be concerned about?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - I'm going to try to keep this brief, but I do tend to be wordy. So please, forgive me if I start rambling. I am a 47-year-old female and have been with my fiance for a little more than 2 years now. We have been engaged for a little more than...

5 years later, suddenly we've been sexless for 5 months?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

23 January 2009 (M) - I am looking for advice, I do not know what to do, my girlfriend and I have been together for 5 years now, we HAD the most incredible sex life up until 5 months ago, then nothing, literally nothing. I think I am fed up, I can't live like this a...

GF hanging out with exboyfriend - when is the line crossed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

23 January 2009 (M) - I need some input on this matter. I've been with this girl for 3 years. We live together, we love each other very much, and I am very committed to her. From the beginning of our relationship she has always maintained a friendly communication wi...

I love my boyfriend but I like his best mate too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - Please help! I have a boyfriend, and i love him dearly, but the thing is, i sort of have feelings for his best mate, it weird though because i liked his mate way before i got with my boyfriend. we will call my boyfriend B and his mate D. Well as ...

Do I stay with the one I love or go solo to experience life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - I have been with my partner for 5 and a half years, yet we are drifting apart, we love each other so much, he treats me like a princess, does everything for me and I know he will never cheat on me and I completely trust him. However I am the sole ...

I want to get married next year but I know he isn't ready

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - i've been in a relationship with a guy for 5 years now and we love each order but the problem is that he is 23years old while am 26. This has been bothering me for a long time now cos i want to get married by next year and looking at him he is not ...

What do I do now after massive fall out?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

23 January 2009 (M) - I've just had a huge falling out with a close friend who's female, basically we argued because she wanted me to admit my true feelings for her and yeah I do like her, but she has a boyfriend. Now we ain't talking and she doesn't want any contact ...

Shes angry because I told a friend I love her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

23 January 2009 (M) - I told my friend that i love her and she became angry with me,what should i do because i dont want to break up with her. ...

I'm not sure I will ever fit into my boyfriend's life.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - I'm not sure I will ever fit into my BF's life. We have been together for 7 months now, he is recently divorced and his family and friends invite his ex-wife to everything. He has never brought me and I know its because he knows I'll be ...

My husband won't put me above beer and doesn't want to have sex EVER.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - Well basically my husband is an alcoholic which I didnt know when I met him and didnt know for a while after we started dating. Anyways, I fell in love with him, and eventually relized he drinks a lot (everyday). I told him that i didnt want to be ...

I miss my ex so much, is there still a chance of us getting back together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

23 January 2009 (M) - hey all! my gf split up with me nearly 3 months now and we'd been together for 4 years, I know that she is still missing me, I'm making the most of what I can, going out with freinds starting a new career and generally geting on with my life except ...

He's on my mind every second of the day but we've split up. How can I get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - Mine is a long story...... I was with my partner for 5 years and we lived together for 4 of them. Everything was great until we moved into our second house, money was really tight and we had no life together, we were practically living in each o...

My boyfriend left me after 11 years for a younger woman.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend left me after 11 years for a woman who has a young boy of about 7-8 years, he 30 this year I'm 47 and she's 31, he's only been with her for 5 weeks. I found out last night she is a big girl size 16 and non atractive (I know there's ...

My sister is paranoid about me sleeping with her husband!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

23 January 2009 (?) - My sister is paranoid about me sleeping with her husband. I would never do that and I already have a (hot) boyfriend. Ever since my sis's best friend slept with her ex bf she been constantly worrying her husband is cheating on her with me. Its ...

Its always up to me to make the first move

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

23 January 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for a little over a year now. It seems that I always have to make the first move every single time to call her or even ask her out, and when she is feeling moody due to work, she doesn'...

If my presence makes her so uncomfortable, why is she going out of her way to treat me like crap?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5786 days ago

23 January 2009 (M) - This is a follow up to my previous question. I no longer hang out at the coffee shop when my ex is working. But now, when she knows I am here, comes in and hangs out (something she did not really do before). She totally ignores me, and I guess I ...

I am so so paranoid for no reason.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - I am 18 and so is my boyfriend.. I have a problem... seriously! I'm an over thinker about everything (paranoid in other words), when it comes to my relationship with my boyfriend. I have been with him for 2 years and we are very close. He is an ...

Don't know if I should give her another chance...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5788 days ago

23 January 2009 (M) - for what happened the second time this is the link i ended up giving her another chance but im not sure if i should give her another. http://www.dearcupid.org/quest...

I love my girlfriend and her sister.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

23 January 2009 (M) - Recently, I asked about what to do with my girlfriend's sister. I love my girlfriend and her sister. We all do things together and recently it's elevated to the point where my girlfriend's sister sleeps over all the time and on a few occasions ...

A month ago I found out that I wasn't the only one that he was in love with.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for two months now. Just about a month ago I found out that I wasn't the only one that he was in love with. I was shocked at first and then found out the other girl started dating another guy. Just recently I've ...

He could just have been saying he cheated because of the fact that he is bipolar but I can't let go of 4 years.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5788 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend dumped me because he said he cheated on me. He's bipolar but I love him how do I get him back or what should I do, I am so confused, I am lost, I am a mess without him, he could just have been saying he cheated because of the fact tha...

He hasn't text me in 4 weeks!!! What's going on here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - What is going on here? HELPPPP? We’ve been together for 3 months.. after 2 months he changed and started been all weird and not calling me much.. he use to call me everyday..last time i saw him he got really angry and accused me of cheating on him.....