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Archived questions from: 26 January, 2009 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I'm getting a complex because of my girlfriend's nature of work..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5698 days ago

26 January 2009 (M) - My girlfriend who works as a radiographer keeps telling me and joking to me about all these men whose genitals she sees in detail and it makes me very uncomfortable. I'm not quite sure why it does, I'm very self conscious about my genitals, ...

Can I still get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5770 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of a year and a half just broke up with me four days ago. we had some rough time but we finally getting better (at least i thought we were). My birthday was three days before and we had a good time, but he seemed a little distant. The ...

He's ignoring me - what's going on??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Okay, there's this guy I really like. We've known each other for about five years and have become really good friends (he's a former college prof of mine; I know, I know, age difference, blahblah) and we get along great. I honestly have no problem ...

We fight all the time and treat each other bad..what to do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - we love each other. and we both know it. but we fight ALL the time. like seriously, it's one thing after another. it's mostly cuz of him though. and i just can't take it anymore. he stresses me out so much and makes me feel like crap all the time. ...

Should I just take it in my stride and be happy or try to change the impossible?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - I've been exclusively dating this man for over a year and although mostly a happy relationship, we seem to bump heads a lot. I'm 19 (turning 20 this year) and he's 20 (turning 21) so there isn't much of an age gap, yet somehow, he seems to be the i...

What can I do to stop myself from constantly bringing up the past with my boyfriend? I

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5768 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - What can i do to stop myself from constantly bringing the past up to my boyfriend? I always look back on our relationship and wonder about stupid stuff. for example, we started going out 2 years ago, and when we first started going out, i can ...

Should I do a threesome with him???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - I've been dating someone 4 months now and I have developed deep feelings for him. We aren't in a relationship right now because we both agreed to start off as friends and just go with the flow. He treats me right and we spend a lot of time together. ...

My family is being cruel towards me and accusing me of lying, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - When I was eight years old I was raped in my bedroom by my Mother's then boyfriend while she was out. After that I was always afraid of men until my late teens. I am doing okay for myself now and have a very successful career. I finally decided to ...

Something has definitely died along the way and I feel like I am dealing with another man, not my husband.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - One for the guys. After my partner wandered out of the relationship on an emotional level to communicate with his ex I have had trouble believing that he can still have feelings for me. The fact that he did this behind my back and was communicatin...

My boyfriend is being so clingy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is being so clingy and I am so scared of ending things because he says I am the only good thing in his life and he couldnt take it if things ended. I think he can read the signals that I am not happy. He relies on me for lifts here ...

Sperm bank problems...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm going to cut to the chase, me and my wife have been in a domestic partnership for about 3 years, we had talked about having a baby through sperm banks once she was in her last year of school which is next year, well she couldn't wait and ...

I love my boyfriend but he smokes weed...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - I am in a six moneth relationship with my boyfriend and we are very happy, loving and caring and affectionate towards each other, we get on so well and I've never been happier. the only problem is he occasionally smokes weed... its far from all the...

Last week he called me and said he loved me but wasn't in love with me...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Dear cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for 11 months. Last week he called me and said he loved me but wasn't in love with me. He doesn't want to break up. He still wants us to be together, and he doesn't want to date other girls. He gave me ...

Will I ever win him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5771 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend finished with me and my nieces and my sister saw him walking up the road with his new girlfriend. She was arm in arm and when he saw them he quickly chucked her off and looked shady and just put his hand up but put his head down !!! ...

My boyfriend's brother and I do not get along, how can I cope, without leaving my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - What to do when your boyfriends brother hates you???? I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years, and we've been really close friends for couple years before we started dating. We started officially dating summer of '07 and for the first year ...

Two weeks, no contact, he says he likes me, should I be patient?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5771 days ago

26 January 2009 (?) - Ok this is a kinda long story so ima try to make it short.. Ok so I met this guy last year(he is now 22 and I am 18) and he asked for my number and he would call me almost everyday, but we lost touch until his cousin contacted my friend and they ...

I got divorced, he didn't, should I wait around or what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - short version of the long story. I fell in love with my boss (though we are the same age). We started as great friends and everyone thought we were soulmates. Then he told me he was thinking of me all the time and that he could not get me out of ...

I don't think he has enough room for her and me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - ok how should i go about this relationship and am i wrong to feel this was? that is the question now here is the scenerio...i have been dating this man seriously for near a year, he is overall good to me and a joy to be around BUT he has an ex that ...

Battling my thoughts vs obsessive vibe

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

26 January 2009 (M) - Sorry if this is long, but any input will be appreciated. I am currently 22, and in all of my relationships I have always been the type of guy who was never fully committed. Even is I was taken, I would still hold sexual conversations wi...

My partner slapped me on the arm--and now I'm worried

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - My partner and I have been together for a year and living together for 7 months. We are going to have a child. Just before, I was a little stressed about something and he was asking me questions, trying to help me and I started to raise my voice. I...

I shut my g/f out can I make things right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

26 January 2009 (M) - I am currently in the U.S. Navy and have several things going on all at the same time. I have a girlfriend who is extremely upset with me. I've tried calling her and get no answer. The story is that, I went up to Dallas to see her for the weekend ...

Is it worth holding out and hope maybe he didn't mean it, and that he will find the strength to stand up to his mother.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - I am a 30 year single mum of 4, over 3 years ago I split with a violent ex. I met a fantastic man last year, he was a few years younger and didnt have children of his own. we met online and we chatted for 8 wks sometimes we were up all night. he new ...

I created a fake ID and now I don't know how to tell everyone...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - I'm not sure if this is the right place to post this problem.. but here goes anyway. I created a fake myspace profile around a year ago. At the time, I'd lost most of my friends, social life and honestly, I was so depressed and the fake seemed a ...